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Netizen asked: The random charges for education have increased the burden on parents. What do you think about this?
Reply: The core cost of modern family childbirth: time, money . On the contrary, children are the little helpers of the family in the farming era.
cost , the value of resources that must be consumed for the production and processing of specific types and quantities of products; the value of is measured in order to obtain the monetary value required for a certain kind of daily necessities; the value of monetary value required for a certain purpose; the value of monetary sacrificed for a certain purpose to achieve one purpose; the value of monetary sacrificed for a certain purpose; the creation of labor paid for a certain kind of daily necessities; the time of waiting to be paid to obtain a certain kind of daily necessities or to complete a certain kind of active labor creation.
"Tao Te Ching" : " Heaven and earth are not kind, and treat all things as straw (chú) dog ." Heaven and earth treat all things the same, and will not be particularly good to anyone, nor will they be particularly bad to anyone, and everything develops naturally. life is given the natural material combination form of reproductive ability + growth cycle + a small part of damage self-healing function . All natural life must adapt to the natural living environment in the way of passive adaptation + active request for . Plant absorbs water-soluble microminerals from natural substances combined with photosynthesis to produce life nutrients, animal feeds directly or indirectly, microorganisms board in plants or animals... Natural life quietly forms the " ecological food chain " with relatively balanced stability .
human , a community viviparous mammal with the highest comprehensive IQ, the slowest growth and the strongest growth plasticity in the natural life system. At the beginning of human life, human life relies entirely on the " natural ecological food chain " to survive, pick plant fruits when hungry, drink mountain spring water when thirsty, occasionally hunt other animals for tooth sacrifice, find a branch or cave for a rest when trapped... The lifestyle of the original ancestors of humans is no different from many omnivorous wild mammals today. However, as a social mammal with the highest comprehensive IQ, humans are the only social animal group in the natural life system that forms complex text wisdom through summary and abstract divergence. domestication and sowing plants, animal husbandry and fishery that tame captive animals, mining and processing to make production labor and life auxiliary equipment, pharmaceutical industry that helps humans overcome diseases, etc. are all basic ways for humans to actively work to create to improve the living environment.
When a child is born, he only has the most basic vital signs. He can crawl around 8 months of birth, walk around 1 year old and try to talk, after he is 3 years old, he can eat independently and defecate himself, after he is 7 years old, he basically has the ability to move independently, and after he is 15 years old, he basically has the ability to fully independent civil behavior... After he is over 60 years old [60 years old], his ability to survive independently begins to decline until the individual finally returns to nature. The trajectory of human individual life is like a complete parabola, and his ability to survive independently will not suddenly arrive or disappear suddenly. Therefore, in order to better pass on the formed civilized survival mode from generation to generation, human society has formed the most complete system of inheriting group survival skills in the natural life system - Education .
Children are the little helpers of the family in the farming era
1. The maximum cost of modern human education - time
Kindergarten for 3 years, 6 years of elementary school, 3 years of junior high school, 3 years of high school or vocational high school, more than 3 years of college... my country's professional school education system has been very perfect. Before the children are born, there are at least 12 years of school education waiting for them [Kindergarten, 6 years of elementary school, 3 years of junior high school]. The total length of time for graduate students to graduate can reach more than 20 years. From the perspective of human life time management, the biggest consumption of academic education should be time. Children themselves need to concentrate on studying, and parents need to spend time supervising and accompanying their children to study. Because learning abstract cultural knowledge does not belong to the basic physiological growth needs of human beings, and no one can learn consciously and actively for a long time, let alone let ignorant teenagers read and write regularly every day.
"Zengguang Xianwen": " Every inch of time is worth every inch of money, and a gold cannot buy a short time ." Wherever humans spend time, they will harvest the fruits . However, time treats all natural life equally, and will not deduct the living time of a certain life, nor will it deliberately forgive the living time of a certain life. Therefore, whether the child goes to school or the parents provide the child with the child's schooling, time expenditure is an inevitable cost, and this cost is almost impossible to get any return on investment.
2. The economic cost of providing children with education
Compulsory education . The education that all children and teenagers of appropriate age that the state implements uniformly is a public welfare undertaking that the state must guarantee. Compulsory education has mandatory [Society, schools, and families are compulsory for children of appropriate age and teenagers to receive compulsory education] . Public welfare [clearly stipulate that "no tuition and miscellaneous fees are charged"] . Unified [teaching standards, funding standards, construction standards, student public funds, etc.]. Compulsory education is related to the healthy growth of hundreds of millions of children, the development of the country, and the future of the nation. In other words, the main purpose of the State-run basic education is to assist the learning and growth of minors. It is the core means for the country and the nation to reserve talents for social development and construction, and it is the core sustenance to alleviate the dilemma of having children in the family of professional workers [you cannot accompany your children during your career working hours].
One effort will bring you one reward. It is a metaphor for paying one labor to get one profit. Whether it is successful or not, it is a process of accumulation; There is no free lunch in the world, , which means that there will be no results without labor, and it also reminds people not to be greedy for cheap things and be vigilant. Although children's right to receive basic education is protected by national laws, the state, society and families have the responsibility and obligation to protect children's rights and interests in receiving education from infringement. However, the relevant workers in the education system are all humans, and they will also pursue the maximization of the value of economic interests. Therefore, insurance premiums, information and communication fees, teaching aids, after-school care service fees, etc. have gradually become "reasonable" charging items in the compulsory education stage, and private schools established after "legal and compliant" approval have become tools for merchants to make profits.
" China Reproductive Cost Report 2022 Edition " data shows: "The average parenting cost of children aged 0-17 in the country is 485,000 yuan, and the average parenting cost of raising children from 0 to undergraduate is 627,000 yuan. Although raising children will inevitably incur economic costs, this cost expenditure that can often reach hundreds of thousands is by no means an active allocation of families, and not all families can raise multiple children at will. Because, the current basic purchase price of grain in my country does not exceed 2 yuan/jin, based on this, how many years does the agricultural population need to farm to raise a child; Shanghai, which has the lowest occupational wages in urban areas, does not exceed 3,000 yuan/month, and a person is a It seems that even if you work without eating or drinking, you can't afford a child.
can't bear to leave the child (shoes) and can't hold the wolf. The original meaning is to fight the wolf, you must not be afraid of running away or spending shoes. It is often used as a metaphor for the corresponding price to achieve a certain goal, such as sowing seeds in spring, fine field management, and harvesting grain in autumn; planting seedlings and carefully pruning branches and leaves can only harvest wood after several years. Similarly, families have children and hope to cultivate their children into talents. However, smart people will calculate the cost of input-output , and only those with less investment and more output will take the initiative to do things.
raising children requires spending time with them to study, which will inevitably affect the career career of young workers [The information disclosed on the Internet shows that: Shinzo Abe , Modi , Park Geun-hye , Merkel , Macron and other foreign political leaders have no descendants, Zhang Hongmin , Zhang Yue, The well-known domestic hosts such as Yaning, Liang Yan, Li Yufei, and have not had children], and it affects how much social pension security they can receive when they are old; when children grow up, they need to integrate into the social occupational system, and the higher the cultural knowledge, the greater the possibility of being separated from their parents from a long distance; the Chinese tradition of inheritance through descendants has been downplayed, personal enjoyment has been promoted, and academic education has made the power of birth control popular... The economic surplus of the social value of raising children is getting smaller and smaller than that of hiring children.
"Guanzi·Quan Xiu Third" : The plan for a year is as good as a tree; the plan for a decade is as good as a tree; the plan for a lifetime is as good as a tree. One tree and one harvest are the valley; one tree and ten harvests are the trees; one tree and one tree and one harvest are the people. If I plant it, it will be like a god who uses it. If I do things like a god, I will only be the king's door.
Translation: It is best to plant grains for one year; it is best to plant trees for ten years; it is best to plant trees for life; it is best to cultivate talents. Planting a grain is one harvest; planting a tree is one harvest; cultivating talents is one harvest of a hundred harvests. If we focus on cultivating talents, their effectiveness will be magical; and only the Gate of Kings can do this.
Agriculture can harvest and industry in one or two years, mining can be completed in several months, and the service trade industry can be completed in minutes... centered on economic development and how many people are willing to give up the work of obtaining immediate economic benefits and instead focus on having more children?
Neighborhood mission: Become a sparring and consultant on the road to growth of children.
Vision of nurturing neighbors: Let there be no difficult-to-bred young people and no difficult-to-raising old people in the world.
The growth of children is like a century-old tree. It requires experiencing storms, selfless companionship from the family, and earnest teaching from schools and society. Educate neighbors: Explore the use of neighborhood friendship to drive social harmony, promote social moral education, and promote everyone's healthy and happy growth, in order to "tailor" children's growth plans with parents and build an educational service ecosystem that helps community neighbors.
