I wonder if you have ever thought about this question. Why are some people good at dealing with children, while some people are particularly unwelcome to children? What exactly is the reason for this?
Some people say: "Some people have a likable face, let alone children, puppies wag their tails when they see them. Others have a Guan Gong face, which looks scary. Of course, children are far away from them."
These words sound a little reasonable, but they don't seem to be completely correct.
It was not until I finished reading the book "Dear Honey" that I suddenly realized that I wanted to be a true good friend with a child, and that only weapon was sincerity.
Only by using your sincerity to exchange for the child’s sincerity can you truly gain his recognition and completely capture the heart of a child.
"Dear Honey" is the new work of Dian . She is a beautiful writer born in the 1980s. I remember when I was in college, I especially liked to read the magazine "Literary and Artistic Appreciation" edited by her.
girls always have a special liking for beautiful things. Those magazines are really beautiful. Until I graduated, I packed them and gave them to a schoolgirl who also loves reading.
It can be said that Di'an's works carry my youth, so when this book came out, I started reading it immediately.
This book tells the story of "I" and "honey" in a first-person narrative way.
"I" is Big Bear. I have been married twice and divorced twice. Then with the help of my friend, I met another woman, Cui Lianyi. We were in love. Just when we were about to determine the relationship between our boyfriend and girlfriend, I realized that she had a daughter named Honey.
When she first met Honey, she was only three years old and was still a baby, very cute. We've had a lot of fun and funny things happening together.
Later, due to work reasons, Big Xiong and Cui Lianyi almost broke up, but unexpectedly, during the short separation, the person he missed the most was honey.
At the beginning, Big Bear was very kind to honey to please Cui Lianyi. It was like he took honey to the bar to go to the toilet. The honey almost ate nuts by mistake. Big Bear was just thinking: "If something happened to the honey, Cui Lianyi and I will be done."
But later, honey accidentally swallowed the ring. When Big Bear was looking for the ring in the honey cake with bare hands in the hospital, he was completely worried about the safety of honey, which did not contain any impurities.
So, Honey finally accepted Big Bear and became its new father. It was because of Big Bear's sincere treatment that a child completely opened up and accepted others.
I often see a lot of news reports that some children are very hostile to their parents because they are left-behind children. When they meet their children during festivals, they will also put forward many opinions to deny their children’s advantages and growth.
It is true that they work hard to make money partly for the sake of their children's goodness, but if they don't get along with each other for a long time, how can they have feelings for each other?
Children are the most sensitive and simple creatures in the world. How could he not feel them if you are sincere to him?
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