Five tips to help you overcome your child’s procrastination
In life, many parents report that their children are slow to move, do their homework, and ask their children to get up, eat, and brush their teeth. Every time I have to be constantly urged by my parents, and some even need to be urged by my parents four or five times. This is a clear symptom of procrastination. What can parents do to help their children get rid of their habit of being a waste of life?
1. Create a relaxed and warm family atmosphere with care. A harmonious family atmosphere and harmonious parental relationship can make children feel comfortable and take the initiative to do a lot of things. Therefore, letting children listen to their parents and create a relaxed and democratic atmosphere is the key first step. 2. Improve children's interest in learning. There is a big difference between active learning and passive learning. Parents should find ways to increase their children's interest in learning, such as changing endorsement into discussion.
3. Do one thing at a time. Cultivate children's habit of doing everything within a certain period of time. Take eating as an example. We should cultivate children's habit of eating cleanly and not leaving any leftovers. Cherishing food is a virtue. 4. Give your children positive and timely feedback. Once the child performs well, give positive feedback in a timely manner. For example, you are just focusing on your homework and not distracted. Sure enough, much faster than before. Very good. Mom is very happy. Describe a child’s behavior in specific language so that he can see changes in his behavior. This good behavior will bring good results, enhance the child’s self-confidence, and motivate the child to continue working hard.
5. Formulate reward rules. The reward content is what the child likes, and then make a reward list with the child. The reward must be reasonable and the financial reward must be cautious. More importantly, the rewards should be gradually reduced, and ultimately, the child will not rely on external rewards and do it voluntarily and efficiently. For children who don’t care about rewards, certain rights can be cancelled. For example, parents can tell their children that if you always forget to do your homework when you get home from school, I will also forget to show you the cartoons you like.
The above are five ways to help children overcome procrastination. I hope it will be helpful to parents.
