A child can understand himself well, and he can deal with the difficulties and pressures in his life well, which is the growth for a person.
We want our children to learn, what is our purpose when we go back to school?
When we raise children, what kind of child should we raise? Is it a child who listens to you and obeys you, has good exam results, is polite, and is praised by others? We must abide by the rules everywhere, that is, if I am not good enough, if others think I am not good enough, then I am useless. Are we raising such a child? Everyone needs to think about what exactly do we raise children in ?
Raising children is not raising the body, we are raising that heart, we are raising a person's heart. In other words, it is very important whether his personality is sound and healthy enough. As for what symptoms he has, what the symptoms must be expressing or conveying, you don’t know, and I don’t know. Many parents told the teacher that my child is so good. I also said something about it here. I'm sorry, because I don't know you, I can't say it, and I can't give you some advice. But what I want to say is that we must know.
What do we want to give to our children? This is very important. If you want now, maybe your child cannot meet you. Do you think this is a reasonable requirement. Who is the reasonable one belonging to you or the child? Then I love him very much. Is that love yours or the child wants. These are two completely different things. I hope everyone can distinguish them.
Every time the teacher shares selflessly, it is a classic, and it is worth our parents to listen to it repeatedly, think deeply, understand it, and grow ourselves!
Thanksgiving ❤️❤️
(2022.10.09 "Searched" Teacher Baoyan Case Sharing)
