"Not even that simple! Your IQ is the same as your father!"
Do you have such words to attack your child when tutoring homework?
Maybe you were really angry at that time, but this method is not advisable.
The above mentioned that we should make children feel accomplished in their learning process. But what should I do when encountering a problem that my child just doesn’t know how to do it?
This is the second point I will talk about next, called competency. What does
competency mean? It's just that I think I can do it, so I'm willing to try it!
At this time, what should I do if the three wrong questions just now?
×Error method: Nothing so simple! Why is your IQ the same as your father?
√The correct way: Mom, it seems to be a little difficult, right? Why don’t we read the question again and think about it repeatedly?
If he did it, he said to him, "Okay! I'm not afraid of encountering difficulties! It's really worthy of being my mother and I gave birth to it!"
's encouragement will allow children to face difficulties when they encounter difficulties when they are doing their homework in the future, instead of giving up and jumping directly. Because he has a sense of competence in the difficult problems.
Because "I think I can do it!" The result of
is of course good, but what if the child racks his brains and still fails to solve this question?
This is to cultivate children's sense of autonomy. This is also the third point I want to say today.
The so-called sense of autonomy means that we must let children control their behavior and develop an awareness of autonomy.
or the example just now. If he has not solved this question, you have to ask him what are you going to do with this question?
Are we looking up information? Or should I go to school to ask the teacher tomorrow? Or should we call our classmates now?
You see, no matter whether he has done it or not, you have been induced to think of a method,
will become more and more proactive, this is the power of language!
Everyone says that parents are their children’s first teachers, and the key lies in guiding their children’s learning thinking and learning habits. When flowers bloom, we need to wait patiently. As parents, we might as well be more patient!
Let the flowers bloom together and listen to the sound of the flowers blooming!
