Women who divorce with their children are warriors. The pressure of society is far away, and the life of single mothers is more difficult than that of ordinary people.
Care for the child itself is an extremely energy-consuming task and must be standby 24 hours a day. If my parents' family hadn't been reluctantly accepting helping her take care of the child, Ms. Hu, 40, would have even had a problem with eating.
Although her income in the factory is enough to support herself and her daughter, this is not a long-term solution. The elderly are somewhat unable to educate and guide their children.
As the child grows up, it has become an urgent problem to keep the child by his side. It is obviously unrealistic to take care of the child while going to work, and Ms. Hu also wants to find a support.
Single mother has been married for two years without anyone paying attention to
At the suggestion of her sister, she started to marry online. To be fair, Ms. Hu's appearance is quite good. Although she is nearly 40 years old, her skin is no different from a girl in her 20s, but she has grown a little round.
Perhaps she was a little resistant to marriage. She left all the contents of friends on the Internet. When she saw the 99+ private message icon for the first time, Ms. Hu was very excited and her expectations for remarriage were a little higher.
Unfortunately, as the chat deepened, she found that these people just wanted to make friends, and a considerable number of them were married men and had no intention of marrying her.
Every time I talk about my intention and details of marriage, the other party will make excuses to avoid it, saying that I will try it after getting along for a while.
It is disliked for too big a belly
After working hard in society for so many years, Ms. Hu knows the thoughts of these people no matter how dull Ms. Hu is. Of course, there are occasionally older men with similar situations to her, but they feel that Ms. Hu’s belly is too big without exception.
After a closer look, I realized that these people have never been married, and they have never even had girlfriends. They don’t know the current market conditions at all. Not knowing the situation is also one of the important reasons why they become bachelors.
You can choose the best ones when looking for a wife, but while they make requests, they ignore their own conditions. Middle-aged men can have beer belly, and it is reasonable for middle-aged women to have bigger belly.
Ms. Hu was amused and crying, which also confirms another statement that whether it is a leftover man or a leftover woman, there are some problems in itself.
I can earn 6,000 yuan a month
Ms. Hu has thought about countless reasons for the failure of marriage, but she never thought that her mentality began to become calm because of her stomach being disliked. After many times of hitting walls, her mentality began to become calm.
"I can earn 6,000 yuan a month, and I can go back to my hometown to buy a cheap two-bedroom apartment after saving for a few years. I just want to take care of my marriage. I can support myself and my children..."
Although these words are said very easily, her red eyes reveal an unconcealed loss. In fact, single mothers can live a wonderful life. There are many single mothers like her in society.
Remarriage can certainly take care of each other, but the child may not be treated sincerely by the other party. If the other party also has his own children, the family relationship will be more complicated.
It’s better to rely on yourself than anyone else. Saving money to do a small business can bring your children with you. There is no fixed number in life, and it’s best to suit yourself.
