Huang Weiping and Tian Xinju from Zaozhuang, Shandong gave birth to their daughter in 2019 at the age of over 65.
created the domestic age record of natural conception .
An old child gave birth to a daughter brought a chain reaction to the family:
An adult child could not accept it and once cut off relations with the couple, and rarely appeared.
The arrival of the newborn disrupted the life arrangements of the old couple.
Buying groceries, cooking, and going to early education...
Wife whose body was hollowed out by childbirth was unable to deal with it, and Huang Weiping assumed more responsibility for raising her.
The daughter is now two years old, but Huang Weiping is 71 years old.
He must compete with time.
Age dad
Daddy Huang Weiping's day starts at 7 a.m.
A two-year-old and five-month-old daughter will wake up in half an hour and may cry.
He needs to wash, clean the room in this gap, sweep the floor, and mop it again.
The gap between dressing my daughter can be used to prepare breakfast.
He was busy in and out until a layer of sweat appeared on his forehead.
Huang Weiping is 71 years old, with gray hair on her temples.
After making breakfast, feeding children to eat is difficult and it will take more than an hour.
Before I could take a few bites, my daughter habitually ran to the side to play with her toys.
Huang Weiping picked up the bowl and followed behind.
When the meal was halfway through, he put down the bowl and started washing clothes.
The daughter's pants were stuck with mud, and tomato juice dripped on the chest of her clothes.
All night, you need to rub your hands hard and then soak it in laundry detergent.
While waiting for the clothes to soak, Huang Weiping turned around and continued to coax the child to eat.
After cleaning up the dishes, he has to wash his clothes and dry them.
No matter what Huang Weiping does, he will look up at his daughter in less than two minutes.
My daughter was lively and active. She scattered the leftover biscuit residue on the coffee table on the ground and threw the toys everywhere.
The old father followed behind to clean up, and his movements were neat and neat.
The bathroom at home is very tall, and my daughter's height is not enough.
Huang Weiping didn't use a bench, and he picked her up and washed her hands every time.
He has to repeat this action more than ten times a day.
The community he lives in does not have an elevator, so he has to climb five floors, but his daughter refuses to leave.
Every time I go out, Huang Weiping needs to tie a baby waist stool around his waist and hold his daughter upstairs and downstairs.
Daughter likes to stick to dad.
Cooking and going to the toilet must be next to each other.
When my daughter takes a nap, she must let her father hug her before she can fall asleep.
daughter was sleeping soundly, and Huang Weiping took a short lunch break. After
, he got up to do housework again.
It is the time for parent-child entertainment.
They walked around the community.
My daughter can already run very fast and far on the car.
Huang Weiping dared not relax and followed closely behind.
He taught his daughter while running:
"This is a flower, this is a tree, this is the sound of birds singing."
In spring, he can play ball, blow bubbles, and fly kites with his daughter.
Caring for children is a physical job, which activates Huang Weiping's aging old age.
71 years old he is not like an old man.
He cut his daughter's hair and nails by himself.
No need to wear reading glasses , my daughter's nails were cut clean.
Recently, Huang Weiping started exercising.
An hour from 7 to 8 pm, he was alone under the old locust tree in the community leggings .
and quickly walk on 4 kilometers.
Huang Weiping feeds his daughter to eat
Huang Weiping stores nearly a thousand photos of his daughter in his mobile phone.
From a baby in a swaddle to a staggering step to babbling.
The daughter grew up at a speed visible to the naked eye.
"There is not enough time!"
He often sighs like this.
For Huang Weiping at this age, time has another meaning: he is afraid that he cannot stay with his daughter for too long.
The daughter's arrival comes from an "accident".
Wife Tian Xinju suffered from cerebral infarction in 2018.
During the treatment, I drank a Chinese medicine to promote blood circulation and remove blood stasis.
Menopause 10 years later, I suddenly had my period.
In February 2019, the 65-year-old wife became pregnant again.
At that time, she didn't notice it.
One day from the fourth month, she felt something moving in her stomach, so she went to the hospital for examination.
made B ultra-, and the shape of the fetus was clearly visible.
Reproductive experts say:
"Natural conception at this age does not conform to human physiological laws, which is equivalent to rejuvenation and reflux of time."
Having children at an advanced age makes many people worry for the couple.
is worried about their bodies, and feels that having children at this age is a bit "selfish".
Huang Weiping didn't think too much, he and his wife had simple ideas.
"If you are pregnant, just give birth."
When the child was still an embryo, Huang Weiping gave her a name - Huang Tianci .
He determined that this child was "Gift from God" .
Wife is in confinement, Huang Weiping hired confinement nanny to take care of her.
starts work from 8 am to get off work at 6 pm.
pay 4,800 yuan per month.
nanny worked for two months and realized something was wrong.
"Can I have family affection when I give the child to the confinement nanny?"
Just like that, he asked the confinement nanny to leave.
feeds the child, changes diapers, and washes...
Huang Weiping can only sleep for 5 hours a day.
In order for the child to have a good head shape, he often has to change directions and hug the child to sleep.
When his daughter was 4 months old, he carried her to early education class.
Most of the parents are young in class.
He doesn't care, he takes photos of the child while interacting.
My daughter took artistic photos for the full moon, and he invited a photographer to come to her home.
Four or five people took off their child's clothes and wrapped her in a piece of brie.
The daughter was unhappy and cried and made a fuss.
The photo was not taken, and Huang Weiping invited the person away again.
As an elderly father, Huang Weiping needs to do his best to race against time.
However, the granddaughter is also living with the couple.
granddaughter was also raised by Huang Weiping.
The girl started from 7 months old and he raised her for 17 years.
The granddaughter has been sticking to him since he was a child and has to let him sleep with him when he goes to elementary school.
But now, the grandfather and grandson hardly talk.
When their granddaughter was in the first grade of junior high school, they had a conflict because of their disagreement of ideas. After
, my granddaughter ignored him again.
only takes the initiative to look for him when something happens.
The year my younger daughter was born, her granddaughter's emotions broke out completely, and refused to serve on the table and had dinner with them again.
Before each meal, Huang Weiping would serve the rice and dishes to his granddaughter and put them on the round table.
He and his wife were having dinner on the coffee table next to them.
raising granddaughters, Huang Weiping has to worry about everything.
In addition to food and accommodation, the tuition and medical expenses for school are also paid from his pension.
The first two years, my granddaughter did not get into high school.
Huang Weiping found a school for her and wanted to send her to another place to school.
granddaughter disagreed, and finally studied computer science in a local technical secondary school in Zaozhuang .
School is far away from home.
Every weekend afternoon, Huang Weiping would send her to school.
By this year, Huang Weiping couldn't take off his child, so his granddaughter went back and forth to school by himself.
Take the child for a day and is exhausted, but Huang Weiping still forces himself to exercise.
He must be stronger, stronger.
That night, his daughter shouted all over the room:
"Look for dad, look for dad."
While he was walking, he received a call from his daughter and ran home.
The daughter ran over and said:
"Dad, I'm stinky."
Huang Weiping hurriedly picked up his daughter and changed clothes and washed her.
Huang Weiping and his daughter played with
Do it again and again. Parents
Huang Weiping and his wife changed their new house in 2018.
moved from a former residence where he had lived for 30 years to a three-bedroom apartment of 120 square meters.
At that time, Huang Weiping's happiest thing was to take care of his small vegetable garden.
He opened three vegetable fields in the green belt outside the community.
kinds of vegetables such as peppers, eggplant, cucumbers, kidney beans, etc., which you have to eat all year round.
But now, only one piece of land is left.
Sow seeds in spring.
He was worried about it in his heart, but he could never spare time.
Originally, the old couple retired and received more than 10,000 yuan in pension every month.
They focus on life.
Walk the dog, cook, take care of your granddaughter, and live a leisurely life.
After deciding to give birth to a child, the old couple's life began to collapse.
A pair of children expressed strong opposition.
When the eldest daughter learned about this, she said harsh words:
"If you dare to give birth, we will cut off the relationship."
On the day Tian Xinju gave birth, her son and daughter did not appear in the hospital either.
It was not until the storm that the eldest son and the eldest daughter went home to see their little sister.
Two generations of people are tacit about each other.
The child is raised by an old couple, and it will not and cannot be handed over to the child in the future.
Huang Weiping understands that all his children have already started a family and have their own children.
cannot make this child a burden on his children.
Huang Weiping and his daughter Huang Tianci
The persistent birth of his daughter comes from the regrets in the hearts of Huang Weiping and his wife.
40 years ago, 26-year-old Huang Weiping was a father for the first time.
My wife graduated from a health school at the time and just started working.
She is a doctor in the pediatric care department of the Maternal and Child Health Hospital.
Huang Weiping worked as secretary in the commune.
Both of them are very busy at work.
Wife Tian Xinju recalled that her eldest son had never been to kindergarten for a day.
At that time, he lived poorly and had poor living conditions, and no one looked at the children.
The child is taken care of by the grandfather for one day, the grandmother for one day, and the neighbor for another day.
It was not until the 1980s that the living conditions of small families improved and they also had their own house.
The couple wanted a daughter, but they were under pressure from family planning .
Until 1984, Tian Xinjutuo, who was already 30 years old, obtained the birth certificate .
Their second daughter was born.
After the birth of my daughter, the family's financial pressure increased sharply.
Huang Weiping changed career and became a lawyer and became busier.
He often travels to various places on business trips and has worked in Tianjin for a while.
The couple lived separately for 5 years.
In his traditional concept, it is natural for men to go out and earn money to support their families, to serve the country and strive for the small family.
As a father, Huang Weiping cannot give specific examples.
He only vaguely remembers:
When his wife went out to study and train, he sent his son to school on his bicycle in the morning.
Then send her daughter to kindergarten, and then go to the countryside to work 20 kilometers away.
Then pick up two children home in the evening.
"When I was young, I was busy at work, so I didn't have time to take care of my children."
Huang Weiping said:
"In name, he is the father of two children. In fact, he missed family life and the growth process of the children."
When my daughter was in elementary school, Huang Weiping considered "let her daughter go home and have a hot meal" .
He proposed to the company to work flexibly and returned home from Tianjin.
A few years later, he went to to because of work.
has been gone for another 5 years.
While my wife was at work, she could not take care of both children alone.
Tian Xinju mentioned that she was very strict with her daughter.
When her daughter was in high school, she was also responsible for picking up and dropping off her.
"The children's classmates all laughed at me. I have to pick me up when I'm so old."
The couple didn't want to mention the eldest son.
Tian Xinju said that the year her daughter was born, the eldest son happened to be in the first grade, which was the time to rebel.
She couldn't care about it, so she delayed her eldest son's study.
When my son was not old, he learned to smoke.
Huang Weiping once strongly opposed it and beat and scolded him.
The son graduated from high school, and Huang Weiping wanted him to work as a lawyer with him.
, but my son failed to pass the lawyer qualification certificate , and he was confused all day long.
The father and son don’t like each other.
Later, the son got married and soon divorced, leaving behind a daughter.
No one raises the child, so Huang Weiping had to take his granddaughter to him.
He assumed the responsibility of raising his son.
The granddaughter is gradually growing up and entering adolescence.
Huang Weiping couldn't educate him, and the child began to become rebellious.
"This child has no parents, I can't think of my mother, and I'm a little excited."
He was helpless. He raised his granddaughter, but he was not the child's parent after all.
Huang Weiping retired from the civil service system at the age of 50, and then rehired and worked for 10 years.
Until now, he still goes to work.
He said he wanted to fuck until his head was ineffective.
Work maintained Huang Weiping's vitality in his later years and made him powerful.
In 2014, he and several other partners set up a law firm.
continues to help others sue.
The sudden arrival of his daughter gave Huang Weiping a new theme in his later years.
On the day the child was discharged from the hospital, according to local customs, Huang Weiping specially wrapped a red bedding for his daughter.
There are peach branches inserted into it, and peanuts and dates are also placed, which means that children will have more children and more blessings in the future.
The first night after returning home, at two o'clock in the morning, the child opened his eyes.
He was so excited that he couldn't sleep, so he kept taking pictures with his phone.
2020 New Year’s Eve, January 24, Huang Weiping remembered that day.
He put his daughter in new clothes for the New Year and teased her:
"Call dad."
The three-month-old daughter seemed to understand.
"Dad."
The daughter emitted a loud syllable from her mouth for the first time.
This is the best sound Huang Weiping has ever heard.
The identity of the father is reactivated.
He thinks that he can be a good father after doing it again.
"Strive to live long"
Daughter Tianci was born in the spotlight and attracted the attention of the public.
A baby supplies company gave Huang Weiping's family a few boxes of diapers for free, and it took about 100 days to wear it. After using
, the couple wanted to buy diapers of the same brand, but found it was too expensive.
Huang Weiping had to change it to a cheaper one, and it was 85 cents per piece.
There are milk powder manufacturers who gave them 4 boxes of milk powder, but the milk powder has not been finished yet.
Tian Xinju feeds her children until one and a half years old with breast milk.
On April 7, 2021, Huang Weiping opened a short video account.
shares the daily life of parenting on it.
Huang Weiping admitted:
"That is operated by the company."
A businessman found him and wanted to help him run his fans.
said it can bring economic benefits.
Huang Weiping wanted to leave a guarantee for his daughter, so he agreed after considering it.
Every time, the company will come to home to shoot the material, edit it into a video and publish it online.
On his daughter's second birthday, he cooperated with the company to do a birthday live broadcast. In the live broadcast of
, my daughter Tianci only showed her side.
The rest of the time, the anchor will use it to sell clothes.
So far this year, Huang Weiping said that he has not received a penny.
Under the operation of the company, Huang Weiping's family was built into a happy family that "has a child when you are old".
In several videos posted, a woman who looks like she is in her 30s claims to be the sister of God.
She said to the video:
"Tianci, my sister will protect you for the rest of my life."
Huang Weiping said that this is not Tianci's real sister.
"It's also a person from the company."
On another short video platform, a woman also appeared repeatedly.
She held Tianci, and the two looked very intimate.
"This is our goddaughter."
Huang Weiping responded:
"She often comes to see us, and she is freer than our two biological children."
Huang Weiping's tablet is full of photos from heaven.
, but I can't find a photo of my daughter and her brother and sister.
The whole family is supported by Huang Weiping alone.
He needs money to protect his daughter's life, and he himself needs help.
Wife Tian Xinju is in poor health.
She has difficulty in legs and feet and cannot walk far away. She will hurt her waist when she does heavy work.
Around and after giving birth in 2019, one of her eyes had three surgeries due to retinal detachment.
Her teeth also fell off and she wore dentures .
Age cannot be changed, Tian Xinju can still dress herself up.
Every once in a while, she has to dye her hair and use skin care products to try to make herself look younger and not be too different from other parents.
Aging makes it difficult for Tian Xinju to take on daily care of her children.
My daughter is at her naughty age and she runs all over the house.
Sometimes, stand on the high point of the coffee table, and then get off all the shoes on the shoe rack.
The vigorous energy of the cub makes Tian Xinju breathless.
Play with the child for a while, and she will get tired.
"I want to send you away."
Tian Xinju said with a wry smile.
This is a problem that all families with children with older age have to face:
The elderly like to be quiet. They no longer have as much energy as young parents to deal with a lively child.
Tian Xinju doesn’t know what size shoes her child wears.
If you wear diapers for your child, you can't tell which side is the front and which side is the opposite.
Once, at 7 pm, my husband was busy with other things and didn't have time to cook.
Tian Xinju went to the kitchen and fucked her. Huang Weiping went to look at
and then found that the switch of the rice cooker was not turned on.
"You are now so degenerating that you can't even use a rice cooker?"
He couldn't help but shout at her.
Huang Weiping doesn't like the way his wife disciplines her children. He commented on her:
"The personality is bad, I don't have patience."
The wife has High blood pressure , and he doesn't want her to get angry.
As long as you still have energy, he will take care of your children.
Doing at home Tian Xinju is powerless.
Occasionally she will go outside to listen to health lectures.
Go out at 6 o'clock in the morning, take the bus and come back at 11 o'clock in the afternoon.
On the first day, she bought two bags of rice home, 120 yuan and 10 kilograms.
The gift I got was a pot of oil and 60 eggs. I went there the next day and only got two soap boxes.
Recently she invested in a new project.
claims to invest 900 yuan at one time, and you can get a dividend of 1.35 million yuan by the end of the year when the company goes public.
She invested 900 yuan for herself and secretly invested 900 yuan for her husband.
She said that she would get the money by the end of the year and save 2 million for the child, so that the rest of the family could go on a trip. Huang Weiping didn't know about
.
He did not agree with his wife buying health products, but he could not stop it.
He has no time, no energy, and can no longer work.
March 23, 2019, he remembered this time.
He handled the handover of the law firm.
"Leave it to others."
However, the old colleagues still refused to let him go.
He still has to participate in some cases and write a lawsuit. He was also asked to be present when the trial was held.
Huang Weiping opened the text message on mobile phone:
On March 23, he reminded him that the case handled in his hand would be held to court and he needed to fill in the materials online.
He had no time at all, he complained:
"I don't want to work overtime."
For some time last year, he always worked overtime.
After coaxing the child to sleep, he worked until 1 a.m.
After working overtime for a lot, he felt dizzy and his blood pressure increased.
He couldn't help but feel nervous.
Now, Huang Weiping is devoted to his daughter.
He rarely calls himself tired, and even gives others an illusion:
He is not like a 71-year-old man at all, looking healthy and energetic.
Daughter Tianci has the same face as Huang Weiping.
Wide forehead, long eyes, and a high nose bridge. When you smile, the father and daughter look similar.
This year, he cut his daughter's hair.
also bought a pair of flower-wearing pants and a pair of pink shoes online.
Spring is here. He took his wife and daughter to a farm 40 kilometers away to see the peach blossoms.
waited for them to drive to the destination and found rows of peach trees standing on the side of the road, but they were still bare.
This spring hunt ended before it even started.
Huang Wei drove the car flat for nearly 3 hours and was very tired.
After entering the house, he changed his clothes.
didn't rest, and rolled up his sleeves and cooked in the kitchen.
It was two o'clock in the afternoon after dinner.
He really couldn't hold on and was too tired.
"I don't even dare to catch a cold. I fell ill and this family stopped."
In the 71st year of my life, Huang Weiping still did not stop. He wouldn't let himself stop either.
He mentioned that there is a tradition of longevity in his family's genes.
His father lived to be 96 years old, his mother was 87 years old, and his grandmother was 96 years old.
His eldest sister is now 89 years old.
"Try to live long.”
He knew that there was still a long way for his daughter to grow up.
