@#2022 Parenting Season#Children are taken with things at school and stationery at will, and parents are worried that their children will be bullied in the future.
In fact, if a child is bullied in school, you will find that this child has no right to speak at home, no free will, and has no value at home.
At home, you often have to rely on various irregular behaviors to attract the attention of your parents, so there is no boundary in the interpersonal relationship outside, so you are randomly bullied by others, so you are prone to bullying children.
So first of all, parents should know that if the child dares to reject you at home, then he dares to reject others outside.
When your child refuses you at home, you are willing to take over and discuss with your child, or bargain with your child. Your child also has this right when he is outside.
When he is rejected by others, he will not feel frustrated, but will try to argue with reason. He will also reject others. This is a normal and good interpersonal relationship.
So don’t be authoritative at home. If you say one, you have to be one, and if you say two, you have to be two. If your child does not have any right to refuse or the right to say no in front of you, then the child does not have the courage to refuse outside.
Children who have been governed by their parents since childhood dare not reject other people's children. Parents need to take them to practice. For example, role-playing, parents will play a strong child in their class, and they can play themselves.
or if the child doesn't know how to do it at the beginning, parents play one of the roles called Xiaoming , and he plays another role called Xiaofang.
Xiaofang likes the pen in Xiaoming's hand very much, and then she wants to use it. At this time, she taught the child that I don't want to give it to you, I like it very much myself, I can't give it to you if I want to use it. Let the child say it out. With this practice, the child will practice with you three or four times at home, and you will be able to know how to say it proficiently.
Then when you encounter this, as long as he starts to learn to express his thoughts and reject others, he will start to say goodbye to his pleasing personality later.
