As a mother of a three and a half years old boy, first of all, my son is timid and cautious, and he is also a slow-tempered type. He likes to play with familiar children.
start kindergarten class in early September, and it's almost a month now. Worried about separation anxiety symptoms, I also told him in advance that children and teachers can play building blocks, play games, eat together, and learn interesting stories together. Everything went smoothly on the first day, and I didn’t cry, but when I picked him up after school, I almost cried with a grievance!
Sure enough, I cried before going to bed at night, saying that I won’t go to kindergarten tomorrow, and there is no mother or father in kindergarten! When he was sent to the park the next day, he tightly held the corner of his clothes and said that he wanted his mother to go home. Another time, my father was sent to the garden and hugged him. He cried and said to his father, "Put me down, I'll walk in by myself!" When my father put him down, he turned around and ran hard towards home! Even if you chase it, you can't catch up! When I went to pick him up in the afternoon, the parent next to me told me that there was a little kid who ran out of the room crying and couldn't even catch him! I said embarrassedly: "Auntie, you are talking about my child"!
Of course, the happiest time is when you get off school! The most common thing I say every time is: "Mom, I have learned enough knowledge myself. I won't go to school tomorrow, okay! I will go to , Peking University directly in Beijing. You can send me in the morning and pick me up at night!"
. Now, except for the first day, there is a sad movie about separation from birth and death every night and the next morning.
Every time I try to communicate with my child, telling him if you cry because you don’t want to be separated from your parents? Actually, my parents don’t want to be separated from you either. But now there are very important things to do and I have to separate myself from you. My parents promised you that they would come to pick you up in the afternoon, but they still couldn’t tell him this! Don’t go to school if you cry!
friends! How do you all do it? How to alleviate this situation?
