On September 16, when my father was washing and taking off his 2-year-old daughter, he was called a "rogue" by his daughter and attracted widespread attention. In the recorded video, the little girl is wearing a yellow T-shirt and sitting on a low stool in the bathroom. The mother sitting beside her was about to bathe her while the father was trying to explain to the child.
"Dad is a hooligan," the two-year-old girl said to her father angrily.
html from Tianjin surnamed Guo dad was shocked by his daughter's unexpected attitude.
"Can't dad give you a bath?" Mr. Guo asked in confusion.
Mr. Guo said: That day, he was helping his daughter clean her personal hygiene, brushing her teeth and washing her face as usual. Until he wanted to take off his shirt and help the child take a bath, his daughter showed nervousness and resistance.
"She cried, grabbed her pants and clothes, and said I was a hooligan, and I was surprised."
Hearing his daughter's cry, the wife ran into the bathroom and explained to her husband that she had previously shown the child a book about the physical differences between men and women.
In a small conversation about " sex education ", the mother said to her daughter: "You are a girl, so you can't let other men touch and look at their bodies."
Although she was surprised, Mr. Guo also agreed, thinking that this is a good way of sex education for her daughter, and the couple will guide their children more in the future.
"The sooner she gets sex education, the better she can protect herself. I will be careful about my behavior," he said.
The story of Mr. Guo and his daughter has caused heated discussions on social networks and sparked fierce debates about children's sex education. There are more than tens of thousands of comments on Weibo and hundreds of thousands of likes.
"Mother's sex education method is great, girls should learn to protect themselves", "When my son was 4 years old, I stopped bathing my son, and since then, my husband has been in charge of this matter," many netizens left messages.
But some male netizens broke the defense because of , and felt that the child was still young: "It is a good thing to have a strong sense of sex education, but if the mother is not at home or the mother in the late stage of pregnancy and the mother cannot wash her, her husband can only do it. What should I do? Generally, families cannot ask a nanny to take care of the child every day."
's sex education for children has always attracted attention. However, despite being included in the main curriculum, gender and sex are still a difficult issue to say, and are rarely discussed publicly among the billions of people.
Official data from an girl protection project showed that in 2018, 68% of the 9,151 parents surveyed admitted that they did not educate their children at home.
In October 2020, the government revised the " Protection Law for Minors ", requiring educational institutions to include gender and sexual issues in teaching in an "age-appropriate" manner.
Under pressure from schools and parents, there are still many restrictions on the course. In experiments with girls’ protection organizations, teachers usually avoid talking about sexual behavior and do not involve sexual orientation.
But when talking about the human genitals, students are only taught that it is "private area (privacy)" and there are no correct illustrations or terms.
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