Name is a good wish for parents to their children, accompanying a person's lifelong life. A good name is self-evident to a person's fortune.
The father named the baby. In order to avoid the same name as the internet celebrity, his surname was Li, and he was called "Li Bushangshu", which was homophonic to " Ministry of Rites Shangshu". In the father's opinion, this not only avoids the duplication of the name, but may contain beautiful expectations for the child. But if you really have no worries about giving such a name?
We say that a name is also a person’s Feng Shui, and even affects a person’s fortune, future, etc., which is not unreasonable. In recent years, many women have given their father's surname, such as "Tang, Song, Ming and Qing dynasties", " Yuanqu essence", etc. Some parents even take "Glory of Kings" and "Thank God" for homophonic memes. It’s not a duplicate surname, I have to make a duplicate surname. The original duo surnamed people sounded so nice, such as "Ouyang Xiadan", "Linghu Xiaoyan", etc.
Take the name "Li Bu Shangshu" as an example and read it carefully. Will there be such an interpretation: Li, who does not worship books, means he does not respect books or reading. This is how I understand it. Will others understand it like this? Is this a beautiful expectation for children? Besides, " Minister of Rites " was a minister in ancient times. This reputation is big enough. It is understandable that parents have high expectations for their children, but your own virtue cannot bear such a big reputation. Isn't this asking for trouble? We say "Great virtue carries things." Naming a name is also the same.
In ancient times, people used to name names to reflect great wisdom. Nowadays, parents choose their names as they please, wishing they could call their children "Jade Emperor". In ancient times, parents attached great importance to naming their children, and even farmers who could not read big words would ask their husbands to "give them a name". Most names sound much better than the ones now, and their meanings are much more beautiful.
Did the ancients take the name of a cheap man because of superstition? Or is it because of being uneducated and being a bad name? Of course not. In ancient times, many princes and nobles had nicknames such as "dog son, stone, stupid". Is it really stupid to be "stupid"?
This reflects the wisdom of the ancients in naming. In addition to being a kind of expectation for children and being down-to-earth, the most important thing is to prevent parents from helping their children grow.
Everyone knows that Chinese parents have had the mentality of "hoping their children to become successful" since ancient times. This is not wrong in itself, but sometimes it is too much or too much, which is not good for children's growth. You can Baidu " Niu Hanbian ". They are an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering . How awesome is it?
Some parents give their children a name in order to pursue uniqueness and make them unethical, which often leads to ambiguity in understanding, and their children may be ridiculed. is a bit inappropriate, and it is often embarrassing that the children are the willful things of their parents, and the children pay for it.
To put it bluntly, the name is just a symbol, just be simple!
