There are few Chinese words that make me more uneasy than "want your child to become a dragon". In fact, these four words make me angry: if you have the ability, just ", Jackie Chan ", why do you want your child to become a dragon?
If there is an idiom in Chinese called "want your father to become a dragon" or "want your mother to become a phoenix", will parents feel very rude?
- " May you grow up slowly "
People always expect too much and have too little contentment. In the past, parents had the expectation of their children that they could eat and wear warmth. Nowadays, parents always hope that their children should not lose at the starting line. There are so many interest classes and cram schools that can be overwhelmed. Children are like learning machines, even better than that. It is nothing more than imposing the wishes and dreams that parents themselves have failed to realize on their children. You can also say with a high voice: "For your own good."
Are these also the "desire" that parents expect from their children, and expect their excellence to bring honor to themselves; expect that the knowledge they learn is worth showing off. When I have seen people around me who were born with defects and heard unexpected things every day, I feel much relieved, just be healthy and happy.
In the complex world of the world, we adults will also face many temptations, feeling that we want everything, but no matter how powerful the body and mind are, we cannot bear all desires. Therefore, at this time, we must make choices, eliminate unnecessary desires in our hearts at any time, be content and live freely.
Writer Mu Xin once wrote in the poem "Slow Once Upon a Time": "The sunshine in the past has become slow, and cars, horses, and emails are all slow. Only enough to love one person in your life."
Slow, from the literal sense, of course, the pace of life is not fast, but if we analyze the reasons from a deep level, we will find that people in the past have a calm and leisurely attitude of "heart as calm as water". They never force people in their lives and things, and are particularly easy to enjoy the beauty of current life.
And nowadays, in order to keep up with the pace of life, they always race against time, hurry up, socialize, take the subway, take the exam, and take the children to the interest class... They are kidnapped by desire all the time and live a happy life at all times.
"Fish, what I want, the bear's paw, what I want, the two cannot be mixed, and the two cannot be mixed, and the fish can be mixed, and the bear's paw can be mixed. Life is also what I want, and the meaning is also what I want, and the two cannot be mixed, and the two cannot be mixed, and the life can be balanced." - Mencius
Reduce your child's expectations and wait for the flowers to bloom.
reduces your desire for life and be content and always enjoy it.
is more relaxed and comfortable, and you will be happy!
#Mo Min’s Simple Paper Essay#
