Three mistakes in life: Don’t stand in the wrong line in politics, don’t put on the wrong bag in economy, and don’t go to the wrong bed in life. As long as these three mistakes are not made, no one can defeat you, only you can beat you. Let’s talk about getting into the wrong bed today.
Many people always think that other people’s wives are good, and then they go home and quarrel with their wives all day long. It’s not that couples must not quarrel, but other people’s wives also have bad things, but she won’t let you know about this, but her husband knows it all. Of course, your own wife will have good things, but you choose to turn a blind eye and don’t want to stay with her anymore, so you have to let others think that your wife is good.
Lust is innate human nature. Why stay away from women? I won’t talk about practice anymore. In the secular world, to do big things, you must know how to restrain yourself. Of course, your wife doesn’t have to stay away, but keep a distance from others. For example, actors such as Wu Xiubo, Li Yifeng, , etc., as well as scandals rumored in the financial circle every now and then, or people in high positions, all have great futures, and they all fall on women in the end.
The root of human nature is genes. Animals are like machines controlled by genes, and the advanced nature of humans lies in their ability to actively control their instincts. It is said that humans are the only animals that will take the initiative to abstinence, and the higher the civilization, the more this is.
The essence of men is all "scumbags". For other animals, female animals don’t care whether the male animals are scumbags, because they can take care of their children independently. However, for human women, the situation is different. Since the child needs care, she cannot hunt or collect it at all, and she needs help from someone. In other words, women who cannot get help are all dead, and neither her or her children's genes can be passed down. Therefore, human beings continue to evolve, and women need to find ways to keep men around and help themselves take care of their children.
Generally, animals have a estrus period. When the estrus period is over, male animals will no longer take care of female animals. Humans are very special and can go into heat anytime and anywhere. This is also the result of evolution, and only in this way can men be tied up. After a man is with a woman for a long time, he can tell whether the child is his own, and fatherly love appears. The so-called fatherly love means taking care of this child from the heart, and the same principle. Only such a person can pass on his genes to the greatest probability. Men guard women, and slowly, love arises.
Lifelong love has not been written into the genes. For men, the genes of scumbags who have changed their minds have not yet become extinct and still exist. Therefore, in order for the child to be taken care of, the mother also needs someone to help, such as the grandmother.
For grandmother, helping her daughter take care of her grandchildren is also to pass on her genes. For the survival of grandchildren, ancestors can also sacrifice their lives at any time, and they have to sigh at the power of genes. This is also a unique phenomenon in human society.
Mother, grandmother, father, child, family are born. Family will give birth to complex emotions such as sympathy, mercy, and empathy, which are collectively called love. Civilization emerged. Genes are the key to understanding evolution. Characteristics or behaviors that are conducive to gene transmission will be retained; those that are not conducive to gene transmission will disappear.
Although having a baby is a matter of two people, ten months of pregnancy is particularly hard, and there is no replacement for the pain of giving birth to . It is difficult for women who have given birth to children to explain clearly to men. What kind of pain is it? How painful is it to be alone in the delivery room? So you should cherish and treat the woman who gave birth to you well, and cherish the woman who gave birth to more than two children for you.
The biggest difference between humans and animals is that when a human cognition reaches a high dimension, he can see through the tricks of genes and may partially defeat the instinct of genes. For example, since ancient times, many philosophers have taken the initiative to control their desires and stayed away from women outside their wives.
The gap between people is in the way of thinking. For example, when you see a red light, you can't even hit the car when you walk over.Many people choose to go directly, as long as one person runs a red light, everyone else will follow you like a flock of sheep. But people who have been investing for a long time will be far away from the roadside, and they are born to avoid all risks that can be avoided. Some things seem to be God's will, but in fact they are related to personal thinking and habits.
tells a not-so-elegant metaphor: Will be bees crawling on a flower? No. However, there are often countless flies on a lump of feces. Real good things are all high and low; real big opportunities are no one cares about.
My wife reads the articles I wrote every day, and she also communicates more often in daily life, so there is not much barrier in her thoughts. People are definitely not exactly the same, the rest is tolerate each other. My wife and I should have the most common languages, because we are together every day, and I can keep telling her the latest things I think of. In reality, there are fewer and fewer friends who can chat with each other, and the cognitive gap is getting bigger and bigger.
Throughout history, there have always been a few successful people. If it is a way of thinking that most people like, how can it make you successful? Be willing to be a niche, be willing to be ununderstood, and stay away from the bustling crowds. Because the road to success is rarely visited and it is not lively at all.
In fact, if a person is willing to brainwash you endlessly, this is true love. If you love her, brainwash her every day so that you can be consistent in your views and be together forever.
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