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Really smart parents have always known to consider and consider their children. When their children are doing well or are filial to themselves, no matter how vain they are, they will not show off blindly or show off everywhere. Because they know that this will cause trouble for children and families.
After all, you must not have the intention to harm others, and you must be careful of others.
You will never know how many people around you treat you sincerely and how many people are shameful.
But some confused parents don’t think so far, and they tell everyone about family matters. On the surface, you can feel more happy by listening to other people's envy, but in fact, you have no way of knowing how many people are jealous of you and looking down on you.
There are three sentences that smart parents never say, but confused parents often talk about them.
First sentence: There is no way, my children are all too capable
People will slowly shift the focus of their lives to a certain age, and think that it doesn’t matter whether they are doing well in this life, whether their important children are doing well and whether they have the ability.
They regard their children as their work. When they can be proud of their children, they wish the whole world knew how proud they were.
Parents naturally want their children to become dragons and girls to become phoenixes, which is understandable in itself.
But there is no need to tell everyone about your pride and joy, because there are many people whose children may not be as good as you. I will inevitably feel uncomfortable when I hear you showing off, and I will also feel that you are too vain.
No matter from which level, blindly showing off your children is irrational. There is no need to be complacent and proud to satisfy your vanity. If you are not careful, you will make enemies for yourself and your children.
Sentence 2: They are all too filial. I said, don’t buy things and don’t transfer money. I have to listen to
Some people say that in the second half of my life, what is really fighting for is their children. Is this really the case? I don't think so.
Are children filial to you? After all, it is just your own business. It is meaningless to blindly say to others. You want to share your happiness, isn’t it just to make others envy you?
This way of satisfying vanity through showing off actually shows inner dissatisfaction and lack of confidence.
But some confused parents always talk about these words, telling everyone they are so filial to their children, and saying what they bought for themselves or how much money they transferred.
These are all family affairs. It is irrational to say that blindly to outsiders and have low emotional intelligence, which will only make people jealous and cause trouble.
The third sentence: Our family has more and more deposits, and life is getting better and better. My life is so good.
Compared with the first two sentences, this sentence is even more nakedly showing off.
What kind of person will show off his own savings without any restraint? To put it nicely, people with simple minds and no intentions, but to put it bluntly, they are actually stupid people.
When you tell the amount of your deposit, you don’t know what others will think of you.
You think this amount is a lot and has won many people, but people who are richer than you will think that you have never seen the world and have short-sighted eyes, so you look down on you from the bottom of your heart.
And those who are not as rich as you may not really envy you. Instead, they will think that you are too arrogant and too ostentatious, and even jealous of you and even jealous of you.
Never overestimate human nature, how much deposit you have, and whether your life is good or not is your own business. A wise and visionary person will not show off when he meets everyone. This is not only unnecessary and meaningless, but will even harm himself.
Really smart and stylish parents will not show off their own private affairs to everyone, how capable their children are, whether they are filial to themselves, and how much savings they have at home, etc. These are things that must not be mentioned to outsiders.
You will never know what others will think of you if these words are said. If they are jealous of you, jealous of you or dislike you, then your words will be hidden dangers for the future, which is tantamount to causing trouble.
Parents who consider their children will not put their children and the entire family in danger to satisfy their temporary vanity. This is not loving children, this is selfishness and stupidity.
I hope we are not such parents, I hope we will keep a low profile anytime, anywhere and live our lives well.
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