Parents want to give their children the best and safest future, and even think that trying to separate children from pain and reality, they can ensure their successful life to the greatest extent.

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Book Title: Thirteen things that the strong parents can't do

Author: [US] Emi Molin

Parents want to give their children the best and safest future. Outside of reality, they can ensure their successful life to the greatest extent. but! The strong parents will never over -protect the child‼ ️

When we play games at home, parents always lose to children. In order to prevent children from being sad, it turns out that this is also over -protecting the child ...

will you over -protect the child? Do you want your children to be perfect? Will you allow your child to avoid responsibility? Will you let your children take a shortcut? ...

saw the title of the book, and I immediately started reading! It's curious. I just want to see if I am a strong parent. I can't help it. My heart is not strong enough, and I have to continue cultivation. The

book lists many inappropriate ideas, behaviors and feelings that many parents often face, covering children of different ages from preschool children to adolescents.

The author based on his years of experience, combined with real cases, accurately applied policies to help parents recognize the misunderstanding of their parenting, rethink and obtain the correct way of breeding, shape the children's heart, so as to make the child more confident and more confident and more Tough and happier. The most important thing is that the author told us some helpful practices and unusual practices. Very practical.

Parents cannot do 13 things:

1. Under the ability to underestimate children, pay more attention to the factors that happen to the child in life, and raise children with the mentality of the victim.

2. Compared with other parents blindly, he reduces his guilt to the child by compromising the child.

3. Everything turns around the child, gives children special treatment, and gives children overly praise.

4. Improper the child's fear and not care about what the child needs.

5. There is no clear hierarchical order at home, allowing children to make you jump like thunder, allowing children to participate in adults' decisions.

6. Threats children and blame the child.

7. When the child is irresponsible, he always helps him to escape, allowing the child to make excuses for his behavior, not paying attention to cultivating the child's sense of responsibility.

8. To prevent the child from facing the dilemma, it is expected that the child to deal with difficulties without sufficient support.

9. Under the ability to underestimate children's uncomfortable feelings, the child is sad, irritable, and boring.

10. Do not let the child make mistakes, pull the child on a successful fast track, pay attention to the results, not the learning process.

11. By scolding or severe punishment to alleviate your frustration and anger.

12. Sucuccess from the child's bad behavior, take shortcuts with the child, do not provide any guidance for children, allow them to give up their goals.

13. Transmitting conflict information in terms of values, looking forward to the child's natural understanding of their values.

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