Maybe you are a parent, but how should you play the role of a parent?
Have you ever been indifferent to your children, scolded them, or ignored their feelings?
Or maybe you have some childhood shadow?
Although it doesn’t sound like a big deal, maybe your childhood nightmare still affects your life.
The topic of children is closely related to us, because we were all children once, and most of us will have our own children. When the topic of violence is put together with children, we will subconsciously think that children are being nue/ In fact, some children are the recipients of treatment.
When a violent incident occurs, the injured party is immersed in grief, trying to recall the details of their past life, placing responsibility on themselves, or blaming others (the child's playmates, the other person's parents, etc.) because there is always someone to blame. Responsible for the tragedy.
According to surveys, drugs and alcohol are at the forefront of the factors that are most likely to cause addiction in teenagers. They always go hand in hand, followed by addiction to entertainment products.
The content of entertainment products is very important, and children’s exposure and involvement are even more important. Whether they are overly addicted to TV, music or games, their reliance on entertainment will inhibit their interpersonal behavior, because entertainment will replace other parts of life, which will be more serious. problems will also arise.
In the world of children, gaining a sense of identity is more important than achieving achievements.
Some children often change their goals and plans, have unrealistic visions of society, lack self-discipline and perseverance, and even many things end in failure, but their heroic actions for a few seconds are recognized by their peers. He seems to be an extraordinary hero who cannot be ignored.
Many parents are very generous to their children materially, but they are too negligent and disciplinarian in their responsibilities as parents. Once a problem occurs, their first reaction is to find an excuse or a scapegoat to cover up their inaction. It is also difficult to grow up with a healthy mentality, resulting in character defects, and even becoming a potential dangerous element.
Minors pose less danger than adults, but the degree of disability is not inferior. Some juvenile offenders have criminal records early in life. For example, Willie, a 15-year-old juvenile offender, often goes in and out of detention centers. has committed as many as 2,000 crimes. As a minor, he was only imprisoned for 5 years, and his violent behavior continued after that.
This is not just a red flag! It's more likely that he needs help too!
·The ability to motivate yourself
·The ability to contain frustration
·The ability to delay gratification
·The ability to regulate emotions
·The ability to have hope
·The ability to empathize
·The ability to control impulses
The above is what Daniel wrote in "Emotional Intelligence" According to the statement in "Some children who have been angry for a long time in childhood, such as 18-year-old Jason, he raped his 13-year-old sister and a 14-year-old boy, and brutally raped his sister's hands and head. Jason likes to collect information about serial killers. He has already killed/killed animals before. This kind of anger towards his family and mockery of family ties is not his whim, but his lack of these seven abilities.
Children are not only threatened by police//forces, but may also become the protagonists of police//forces.
Many children choose to run away from home because of being abused, while some choose to stay at home and wait for opportunities to fight back. In some cases involving parents, many of them had been beaten, humiliated or even raped by their parents. Mike was often beaten by his father, but he never refuted. When others asked about his injuries, he After all the perfunctory work, a fall and an accidental bump, etc., this long nue/waiting finally came to an end. That night, Mike took the gun away from his father and pulled the trigger on his father's head without hesitation. Perhaps Mike was encouraging him to be tortured, which was not as comfortable as being arrested and imprisoned. Locked up, but never feeling so safe and free, all the adults around problem children, no one is innocent.
