We all know that parents are their children's first teachers, and we all know the importance of family education . But the adult world is very complicated and sometimes very helpless. When two adults have to separate, as children of divorced families, their situation is very worrying.
Before seeing Wang Xin, he first saw a desk with black crows painted on it with pencils. After careful identification, he found that it was a huge castle with a big open mouth at the door and white teeth exposed. Outside, what grows on the ground is not grass, but hands stretched out one after another, some of which are holding bloody swords. There are some similar paintings inside the desks. This is Wang Xin’s (pseudonym) desk.
The class teacher said that the child's parents divorced, his mother went to other places, and now he lives with his father and grandma.
The child who used to be a sensible and well-behaved person now seems to be a different person. He makes a lot of little moves during class, and will deliberately tear up his classmates after class. Later, it was discovered that he was not deliberately naughty, but wanted the teacher to pay attention to him. For example, he would linger after school. When Ken left the classroom, the teacher urged him a few words, and he left happily. Even if he was criticized in class or after class, he was still happy because he got attention. But there are forty or fifty people in a class, and the teacher’s attention time is limited.
His mother who is out of town is very concerned about him, but whenever he calls, grandma will scold him and won't allow him to answer the phone. Later, her mother discussed with the class teacher to join the class group. When there were activities at school, the class teacher sent photos so that she could see the child. However, when her father found out, he strongly asked the class teacher to kick her mother out of the group. (The head teacher did not listen. Regardless of whether she is divorced or not, the mother is the child's guardian, and after all, this is a channel for the child to receive care).
At home, grandma is old and has little education, so she has very little communication with him. His father opened a ramen shop. The store was not big. His father was both the chef and the owner. Before he got up, his father had already gone to the store to prepare ingredients. He had already gone to bed at night and his father just came back. There was not much time to see each other. , let alone paying attention to him. When the teacher communicated with his father and said that the child had drawn some bloody and twisted paintings, his father's reply was: "Oh, I know, don't worry, teacher, I won't let him draw anymore." Teacher
said, There are seven or eight children from divorced families in the class. I really want to care more about them, but my energy is limited. I often feel anxious because I cannot pay attention to them, but there is no solution. His family is like this again, it's really hard for this child!
