Hello everyone, I am Long Tian.
Everyone knows that children need to get rid of their bad habits. But since it is called a habit, it is definitely not developed in a day or two. If you want to quit, parents need to have enough patience and perseverance, kindly and firmly ask their children, supervise their children, and help their children to change. Get rid of their bad habits.
Recommendation:
1. Lead by example. Parents are their children's first teachers, and the most influential thing to their children is their words and deeds. Children will unconsciously imitate whatever habits their parents have, and slowly they will also become a habit. Therefore, parents must set a good example for their children, so as to influence them invisibly and make them form good habits. It will last a lifetime.
2.Rejected for the second time. Many bad habits are formed after being repeated many times. Parents should pay more attention to their children. If their children have any bad behavior, they should stop it immediately, tell their children that it is wrong to do so, and tell them what they should do. Because it is the first time, the child has no psychological dependence, and it is easy to prevent the formation of bad habits. Therefore, our parents should pay more attention to their children and refuse to happen again.
3. Parental indulgence is not advisable. In many cases, children's development of bad habits is inseparable from their parents' connivance. When a child behaves badly, parents always feel that the child is still young and it would be better to be older, or they may ignore it and remain silent. The so-called "tacit consent" consciousness means that silence means permission. Children will think that this is okay and their parents allow it, so over time, they develop bad habits.
4. Talk. Talk to your children more, and through in-depth communication, let them know that this is a bad habit, what harm this habit will bring to children, and how to do it correctly. Tell your child that his parents will face difficulties with him and help him get rid of bad habits.
5 Believe in children. When the child knows that he has made a mistake, parents should use a tolerant attitude to encourage the child, believe in their own children, and give the child confidence so that it becomes the motivation for the child's efforts.
6. Segmentation plan. Detailing how to get rid of bad habits is divided into multiple stages, which will increase children's confidence and sense of accomplishment.
7. Affirm the childās progress. Bad habits are developed over time and cannot be changed overnight. Therefore, we must affirm children's subtle progress and praise them, so that children can feel love and care, let them feel the joy of progress, and enhance their ambition. and self-confidence.
8. Know the difference between "want" and "need". Your child may want to carry around an teddy bear , but she doesn't need to. He may want you to lie down with him to put him to sleep, but he doesn't need to.
In summary, through the above methods, children can know which habits are correct and desirable, which habits are bad and undesirable, and learn how to change bad habits and replace old behaviors with new and good behaviors. , at the same time, children increase their self-confidence through changes, which will make children more confident.
