Recently, Aunt Triumph attended a friend's party. Because there were some unfamiliar friends, she was fortunately sitting on the side and acting as a "transparent person". Until two young boys with their own children came from behind, which attracted the attention of her aunt. At first, my aunt thought they were dads, and she was thinking that these two little boys were good. They were willing to share the pressure of raising children for their wives on weekends. Looking at it, it was really rare. They must be good men. It was not until I heard from my friend that I learned the "truth" later, but it was indeed "the pattern of Tusen was broken."
It turns out that these two boys are currently divorced. They usually live with their mothers from Monday to Friday, and they may be sent to their fathers on weekends. They happen to be their "rotary" that day. Because children aged 3 to 7 are too noisy, young fathers can't handle it at all, so they brought them out to play together. On the one hand, they can keep the children together and let other parents help take care of them. In short, they are definitely more worry-free than fighting alone. And according to friends, this is not the first time. Everyone is used to it. I have to admire the fathers' "wisdom". This is a very smart solution...
Aunt has visually tested the pattern of these two fathers raising children, and they know that before the divorce, their wives may be parties to "widowed parenting". Although my aunt doesn’t know the real reason for their divorce, the issue of upbringing will always have a critical impact. In the process of raising children, most of the time, mothers always worry a lot, for fear that their children will be hurt; it is absolutely impossible for mothers to give their children complete confidence to others to take care of. It’s not that mothers can’t think of a way to save effort, but that mothers themselves are usually reluctant to let go; but in the same case, in order to avoid raising children, fathers can breed all kinds of strange ideas, such as to keep warm in , buy everything you should buy, throw a mobile phone to play by yourself... As long as you can make it easier for yourself. But raising a child is a happy and hard thing in itself, but fathers often only want to get the happiness that comes from the child, but do not want to bear the corresponding hard work.
Recently Brazilian Supermodel Gisele Bunchen The matter of divorce from Tom Brady continues to ferment online. The main reason is that she is very dissatisfied with her husband's decision to retire and come back, believing that he did not spend enough time with his family and children. This is true for the husband of a big star, let alone an ordinary person. I believe no normal person is willing to endure for a long time in such an unequal (no shared responsibility) marriage. My aunt often hears the saying "A man is a teenager until he dies." So, from a fair point of view, why can't women be girls until death? Many times, we enter marriage because of love, and then leave marriage because of losing love; but in fact, in a marriage that has truly gone through a long-term life, love is no longer so important. The responsibility of being a husband and a father can make women feel more happy and happy than those who are romance and charm.
In modern traditional concepts, when it comes to the choice of men's jewelry, most of them are hooked with watches, cufflinks, tie clips, , rings, etc., including the design, and it is mainly simple, and there will be no too fancy and complex styles. Even if some diamonds, colored gems, jade, etc. are inlaid, it will not be as gorgeous and rich as women's jewelry. But I don’t know if you have noticed that nowadays, men’s choices for jewelry, especially young men, are becoming more and more diverse. They do not hesitate to embellish fashionable looks with pearl necklaces, or pair a gorgeous and exquisite brooch on a suit jacket, or wear bracelets, bracelets, and even earrings with gems inlaid, which strongly highlights their personal style.
Chen Kun × Bulgari
Li Wenhan × TASAKI
Wang Jiaer × Cartier
Wang Junkai × Count
Wu Lei × × Count
Wu Lei × Bulgari
says fashion and fashion are a circle (loop). Looking back at history, the popularity of men's jewelry culture is actually not a contemporary innovation. Centuries ago, the role played by men in the jewelry field was no less than that of women in the jewellery. Especially in India, men have been accustomed to wearing various gorgeous jewelry since childhood, and are better at decorating themselves than women, and are even keen on some brightly colored, colorful and huge jewelry. It is said that women love diamonds, but the most luxurious necklace in history belongs to men. In 1925, Cartier was commissioned by Lord Pindra Sain, the king of India's Batiara, to create a Patiala necklace. A total of thousands of gems were used, including a giant yellow diamond of 234.65 carats. In the end, the necklace was hung on a "man".
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Cartier announced the King of Patyala in India. Lord Pindra Sain
specially customized Patiala necklace
At the same time, Ancient Egyptian , ancient China, Ancient Greek , Ancient Roman also clearly stated that the core audience of jewelry is kings, nobles, generals and sacrifices, and then it is their turn to be their female relatives. In medieval Europe, the pope had scepter , the king had a crown, and the family had heraldic rings. These were actually all jewelry; and in ancient China, the emperor's crown, crown, jade pendant, belt, jade belt, official hat, and dynasty beads were also full of traces of jewelry. There is also a saying in " Book of Rites " that "a gentleman in ancient times must wear jade, but a gentleman will never leave his body without reason." It can be seen that from ancient times to the present, men around the world have the habit of wearing jewelry. However, in modern times, it is unknown when we began to position jewelry consumption as a female group, but instead ignored the needs of men. In recent years, with the change of concepts of neutral ideas (trends), "male wearing jewelry" seems to have become a new trend and phenomenon.
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CLASH [UN] LIMITED series jewelry
jewelry with bold design, avant-garde shape and beautiful colors.
is becoming more and more popular among men
In fact, no matter what field or life you are in, everyone has their own positioning and role. Since you have chosen your identity, you should assume the corresponding responsibilities, instead of always thinking about being a hand-off manager, and sacrificing others in exchange for free and easy enjoyment. Similarly, in the field of jewelry, men should have their own certain taste in the aesthetics and matching of jewelry. They can be simple and neat, or colorful. They can only understand their own characteristics and show themselves casually and generously. From a small perspective, this can bring refreshing visual effects to people; in a big way, it is also beneficial to inject endless innovation into the jewelry industry.
