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Influenced by traditional education in my country, many parents are particularly opposed to underage girls perming their hair, putting on makeup, and having their ears pierced. In the eyes of adults, it seems that When children begin to pursue physical beauty, it is equated with premature maturity, which is bound to affect the child's academic development to a certain extent.

However, with the progress of the times, the parenting concepts of many young parents have also changed. It is generally believed that it is necessary to respect children's preferences and provide children with a more inclusive family atmosphere. Therefore, when children begin to establish When it comes to their own aesthetics, many parents express support.

In this regard, the celebrity couple Huang Lei Sun Li are typical examples of enlightened parents.

As we all know, Huang Lei’s eldest daughter Duoduo is a little beauty with both talent and beauty. Huang Duoduo not only has excellent academic performance, but also has great appearance and taste. In addition to providing good educational resources for her daughter, her parents also I respect her preferences very much.

Duoduo had her hair permed, her ears pierced, and her makeup done when she was still a minor. Her mother, Sun Li, not only had no objection to this, but also proudly posted photos of her daughter.

has accumulated experience in raising their eldest daughter. Huang Lei and his wife also implemented a very enlightened parenting policy for their younger daughter Huang Shaoai .

Not long ago, Sun Li shared a video on social platforms of her 8-year-old daughter having her hair permed. This scene also triggered controversy among many netizens about the parenting of celebrity couples. In the

picture, Huang Shaoai is sitting obediently on a chair and cooperating with the hairstylist to style her hair. This may be her first time trying to perm her hair. Her sister's eyes are full of curiosity and her expression seems a little excited.

This scene was recorded by her mother Sun Li and shared on the Internet. Unexpectedly, this news soon aroused controversy among netizens.

Some people question that mother Sun Li's parenting style is a bit "overly enlightened". For an 8-year-old girl, no matter how safe the potion is, it will irritate the child's scalp, which is not good for the child's health. In addition, children should keep Innocent and natural nature, premature maturity leads to the loss of innocence.

Of course, there are also many netizens who are not opposed to perming the hair of 8-year-old children.

In the opinion of these netizens, today’s parents should no longer use traditional concepts to get along with their children. Rather than blindly stopping their children, we should respect their children’s preferences, satisfy their curiosity within a safe range, and educate The more relaxed the environment, the more harmonious the family atmosphere will be.

“ What era are we in now? I think as long as the liquid used to perm children’s hair is safe enough, there are many parents around me who will perm their children’s hair during the Chinese New Year. It’s okay.”

“ Children from celebrity families do not represent ordinary people. Children from this family are not allowed to perm their hair in normal primary and secondary schools, so I don’t think this is a good example. "

" Huang Lei and his wife are really open-minded about their children, and their two daughters are also very good. The parent-child relationship is harmonious, and the child’s words and deeds are not excessive. I think it is normal to perm and dye his hair.”

In response to the controversy among netizens, Huang Lei also posted a reply on social platforms.

Huang Lei believes that today’s little girls have a love for beauty, and many parents today are also more open-minded. If their children want to perm their hair, pierce their ears, or buy beautiful skirts, as long as they dare to bear it, she thinks it’s okay, then she can will support.

Huang Lei also said that it is the nature of children to love fun and beauty. In a family, the relationship between parents and children should be equal. Parents should not put themselves above their children. He does not support those traditional and even brought-up children. There is a feudal outlook on family.

It is undeniable that there is a big difference between ordinary families and celebrity families in the way they educate their children. Whether it is the social circle they are exposed to or the educational resources, celebrity families have unique advantages. Therefore, when it comes to the education of their children, On the other hand, their views on parenting are also more open.

Although ordinary families are not suitable for copying the parenting theories of celebrity families, every family is similar in terms of the establishment of parent-child relationship.

Parents and children establish an equal relationship, respect children's preferences, and satisfy children's curiosity within a safe range. These are all ways to promote the development of parent-child relationships and are also extremely beneficial to children's physical and mental development.

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