If the chick grows up forever under the wings of the hen, then it is impossible for it to forage on its own. If the little eagle always grows up under the care of the eagle, it will not be able to soar into the sky. In the same way, if a child lives forever in the arms of his parents, he will not be able to live independently and will have difficulty adapting to society. Therefore, parents should not take over everything and always worry about their children, but should boldly cultivate their children's ability to live independently and let them develop the good habit of completing their own things.
Xiaoying is 15 years old this year. One day, she went to the zoo with her classmates. After returning home in the afternoon, Xiaoying told her mother: "I broke the new clothes my grandma just gave me. What should I do?"
The mother who was preparing dinner looked at her anxious daughter and said to her deliberately: "Put it there first. When mom has time, she will help you sew the new clothes. But grandma is coming today!"
"Grandma will be here soon. She will be angry when she sees that my clothes are torn. "Yes." Xiaoying was very anxious.
's mother said: "Yes! Grandma often praises you as a sensible child. If you find that your clothes are torn, just leave them there. I wonder what grandma will think of you." After listening to her mother's words, Xiaoying's face suddenly turned red. . She was very embarrassed and said to her mother: "Mom, you can do it yourself. I will try it myself." After listening, her mother smiled and nodded.
Xiaoying found a needle and thread and decided to sew clothes the way her mother used to sew clothes. After all, it was my first time to use needle and thread, and it was really uncomfortable because the thread could not easily pass through the eye of the needle. So Xiaoying spent five minutes threading the eye of the needle and then started sewing.
Accidentally, the needle pricked Xiaoying's hand and it bled. She screamed angrily.
Mom heard the sound and came over and saw Xiaoying throwing her clothes and needlework in the corner. After her mother distressedly helped Xiaoying bandage her injured finger, she said, "Good boy, look, your finger is fine. The sewing is very good, but it's not done yet. After listening to her mother's words, Xiaoying felt ashamed again." After hard work, Xiaoying finally sewed the clothes. Holding the sewn clothes in her hands, she felt that she was actually very happy doing her own thing.
From this point of view, parents should teach their children to do their own things and focus on the little things in life, which will help cultivate their children's self-care ability. After children develop the good habit of loving exams and doing things by themselves, when they encounter difficulties on the way to growth, they will not wait for others to help solve them, but solve them themselves.
