I came across a video today, and it was my mother-in-law who said this. I was really angry when I heard her words, not to mention that she is also a woman and a mother herself. Why are you talking so harshly? ? How malicious is today's society towards stay-at-home mothers and wom

I came across a video today, and it was my mother-in-law who said this. I was really angry when I heard her words, not to mention that she is also a woman and a mother herself. Why are you talking so harshly? ?

How malicious is today’s society towards stay-at-home mothers and women? If you eat a late-night snack, you will be beaten. If you dress nice and cool, you will be told that you are too exposed. You deserve to be targeted by perverts. If you go to work to make money, you will be told that you are too old. If you are too close to a man, you will be cheating. All kinds of restrictions are placed on women. As a man, everything is right. It’s even harder to be a mother now. I just want to ask who will want to get married and who will want to have children in the future? When I became a mother, I gave up my love for dressing up, giving up sleep, giving up my figure, and giving up everything that was good for me. What did my father give up? Why do you say that if your mother doesn't go to work, she is useless and a moth? Not for the sake of the children. Who wants to take care of the children at home 24 hours a day without rest? It would be better to go to work and earn a few hundred yuan, which would be a hundred times more comfortable than now. Giving birth to a child does not trap anyone else except the mother. You have to choose and squeeze in time to eat, drink, have sex, and sleep. When buying things, all the things belong to your children. You have to choose one, two, three, and four things for yourself, and in the end you buy the things for your children. Everyone can be too tired to carry the baby, except mom, who is not tired and has to carry it by herself even if she is sick. As a stay-at-home mother, I don’t even have a basic living guarantee. Everything is as it should be. I should be exhausted, sleepy, depressed, miserable, and unable to take care of my children. May I ask what's wrong with you, stay-at-home mothers? Why should it be treated differently? Why should women be required to take care of children and go to work to make money? If they can do anything else, why should men and children be required? Those who talk about enjoying happiness, why don’t you talk about how your mother enjoys happiness? Is the child growing up on his own without anyone watching and taking care of him? The bad things are all my mother's fault, and the good ones are everyone else's. If you are sick, it’s because your mother didn’t take care of you well. If you don’t study well, it’s because your mother didn’t teach you well. If your child is disobedient, it’s because your mother didn’t educate you well. Can you tell me what’s good about mothers? As parents, grandparents, you don't need to do everything, but don't say sarcastic words, don't act like you're blind, and don't just care about yourself. This is not to say that mothers should do these things. What we need is your understanding, tolerance, and help, not discrimination, belittling, and taking everything for granted. My mother was really under tremendous pressure, pain, and mental torture. It was not that easy, and every level was not easy. Without a mother, who can go to work with peace of mind, who can have no worries, or who can take care of the family? Is it you? There is nothing wrong with stay-at-home mothers, nor are they useless people, nor are they moths. On the contrary, it is people like you who are sucking the bones and blood of mothers, and destroying their spiritual world to death. Just ask yourselves, which one of you has given a stay-at-home mother a truly carefree life? Where is the carefree place? Today's society is really becoming more and more suffocating, squeezing out all the value of women and stay-at-home mothers.