Today I accidentally saw a sentence in a book: "Father's love is a book, written with deep care. Father's love is a wall, blocking endless wind and rain. Father's love is a lamp, illuminating a bright future. "Father's love is like a river, flowing with deep concern," made me thi

I accidentally saw a sentence in a book today: "Father's love is a book, written with deep care. Father's love is a wall, blocking endless wind and rain. Father's love is a lamp, illuminating a bright future." "Father's love is a river, flowing with deep concern," which made me think deeply...!

Growth

I should not be a qualified father, nor a good husband. My wife and I got married after being introduced to each other. I fell in love with my current wife at a glance at a friend’s gathering. We got married in 2003 after being in love for a year. At that time, the salary was very low, more than one thousand a month, so I borrowed money to buy a small house of more than 70 square meters. There is basically nothing in the new house when you get married. It can be said that there is nothing in it. My lover is a very good woman and she never complained. My only thought at that time was to work hard to earn money.

When I was a child, I was full of curiosity about everything.

In August 2005, my wife told me that she was pregnant. Not to mention how excited and happy I was at that time, this was the fruit of our love.

You can imagine how difficult it is for a pregnant woman when her husband is not around. In the early stages of pregnancy, my wife didn't want to eat anything due to pregnancy reactions. She kept vomiting sour fruits and vomited sour water, and she ate very little fruit, let alone chicken, duck, and fish. If this continued, it would definitely not be good for the child or her own body, so she asked for leave one month in advance of her due date. go home.

Dancing has to be cultivated from an early age

Finally, in July 2006, my child died, and my wife gave me a healthy son. I have to thank my wife for this. It was not easy for her this year.

The birth of a child is necessary to bring joy. But then I worried again. At that time, our living conditions were still not very good, and we were still a little short of money and had to go to work to earn money. I asked my mother-in-law to take care of my wife and children before my wife was one month old. I had to go out and earn money!

Practice hard at dancing

Because I work in oil field construction and installation, and the nature of my job is to work in the field. Sometimes I go home after three or four months. Once is a common thing. If the deadline is tight, sometimes I come back once every six months or even longer. Every time I come back, my son looks at me strangely with his strange little eyes, and it takes a long time for him to call me daddy.

Time flies so fast for me. In the blink of an eye, my son is in kindergarten and then elementary and middle school. In these years, there has been very little care, concern and love for the children. At this time, our living conditions gradually improved and we moved to a new house. Logically speaking, we should make more time to communicate more with our children and care more about them. It’s my fault that I wanted to earn more money at that time and give my children and wife a better living condition in the future. This resulted in me not spending much time with my children and loved ones, but spending less time together and more separation!

Happy birthday

Today’s children accept it New things come quickly, unlike when we were young and were stupid. Today's children mature early and have many thoughts, and their awareness of the ability to distinguish right from wrong is still relatively weak. This requires parents to communicate more with their children. And I have been away from home for a long time and have very little communication with my children, which results in my children often going against what I say. Sometimes my children don't listen to me, often talk back to me, and don't take what I say seriously, which makes me very distressed.

Sunshine Beautiful Boy

Now that the child is older, his thoughts have changed a bit. Through his own efforts, he successfully entered the ideal high school. In the first semester of high school, my son may not be used to it yet and often loses his temper. Whenever I encounter a problem, I say some extreme words. At this time, I will say a lot of nice things, but my son just can't get enough of it. At this time, I can only invite my wife, but my son still listens to his mother. I understand that this is because I have spent less time with my child since he was a child, and in his immature heart, he has little affection for me as a father. Now I really regret why I didn’t give my child more care and spend more time with him.

Taking pictures on the streets with my children during the Shanghai (Blackpool) competition

Now, my son’s emotions toward me are unpredictable.In my rebellious heart, I knew that I would not blame him. Now I just want to spend more time with him and make up for the time I spent with him.

Have fun

If there really is a regret medicine in the world, I will definitely spend more time with my children. After all, family, affection, love, and father-son affection are the most important!