After sorting through the files on my phone, I found a set of videos that had not yet been transferred to the computer: videos of the child when he was about 2 years old. I thought it was funny when I first saw it, but I was so moved when I heard it again. It turns out that at th

was sorting through the files on the phone and found a set of videos that had not been transferred to the computer yet: videos of the child when he was about 2 years old.

I thought it was funny when I first saw it, but I was so moved when I heard it again. It turns out that at that time, the child only had me and his mother in his eyes and heart!

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html At the age of 52, the older brother forbids the mother from looking at her cell phone, and the younger brother cleverly helped her get the phone back.

When the children were 2 years old, my husband recorded a video of two little guys (twins) sitting together drinking milk.

My brother was holding the cup with one hand and kept hitting me with the other hand. I responded: "Mom is not looking at the computer, this is a mobile phone."

Then my brother said in a sweet voice: "Mom is not allowed to look at the mobile phone."

In order to let the baby drink the milk with peace of mind, I could only obediently The cell phone was placed on the stool next to her. The elder brother's expression was relaxed, with one hand holding the phone and the other holding the milk glass.

No one expected that the younger brother sitting nearby pretended to touch his brother's head to comfort him, then when he wasn't paying attention, he snatched away the pressed cell phone and happily returned it to me.

Brother didn't expect this step, so he became anxious again.

When my child was 2 years old, I had just resigned from my original company. I would spend time with my child during the day, and at night I would turn on my computer and submit some manuscripts online. Maybe the computer would be turned on for a while during the day when the children were taking a nap or playing. I don’t remember the specific details.

Just watching this video, I know that the children must have hated seeing their mother not playing with them because of work.

I explained impatiently at that time, trying to get away with it, telling my child "I am looking at a mobile phone, not a computer", and wanted to tell my child "Mom is not working", but I couldn't deceive my brother, and he persisted. Put away the phone.

My brother has been sleeping in the crib next to me since he was born until he was 3 years old. The fence on one side of the crib was removed, so my brother basically slept with me all the time.

One month after my brother was born, his confinement sister-in-law took him with him. After the full moon, I slept with my brother for a week, and then my grandma slept with me until I was 3 years old.

It’s not that I don’t take care of my younger brother, it’s that my older brother is more difficult to deal with. From the confinement nanny to any adult, including my husband, everyone can’t handle it, so everyone took the initiative to take care of my younger brother, so as to reduce my burden.

So my brother and I are very close!

Looking back, the child became more and more stable as he walked, and ran farther and farther!

One day he won’t care what you are watching, playing, or whether you are working, because he also has his own world. That day, when you think back on the past, you regret how hard you pushed the child away and disliked the child. When the child needed your hug, you might have hugged it perfunctorily.

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html At 58 months old, my mother came home from overtime work, and my brother was ecstatic. It turned out that he was waiting for his mother to change his pants

When my child was 8 months old, I had just returned to work and was assigned to a new position. I had a lot to learn.

One day I worked overtime until 9 o'clock and came home. It wasn't too late. I called my husband in advance to make sure he could get off work on time and go home to take care of the kids in the evening.

It suddenly rained heavily that day, and I didn't bring an umbrella. Because I was in a hurry to finish my work and go home, I didn't eat dinner.

But when I got home and saw my brother in my father’s arms, I felt a burst of ecstasy and almost rushed to me. My heart felt warm. The younger brother was in his grandfather's arms, watching the TV program seriously.

I changed my clothes and took my brother from my father's hand. My brother's grin immediately turned into a snicker. I smelled a stench and understood immediately.

Dad hugged his brother and didn't even notice that he had pooped on his body. Brother was very happy to see his mother, because he knew: "I can finally be cleaned!"

When I returned home, the video of the two brothers' different behaviors was still there. I watched it back occasionally, wanting to laugh at the two brothers. But it is estimated that only the biological mother is interested in watching the videos of their childhood over and over again, and the children themselves will not want to watch this dark history!

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1 years old, 2 months before weaning, painful but reluctant to let go

My younger brother stopped breastfeeding at 7 months, because my mother felt that my younger brother always came to me at night, maybe because he was thinking about breastfeeding, so I used a breast pump Suck it out and feed it to your brother.

My brother was not completely weaned until he was 1 year and 2 months old.

My brother originally slept through the night automatically at 2 months old, but after he fell ill at the age of 1, he started to feed frequently at night.

It was the summer of July and August. I was worried that it would not be good for the baby to be weaned after he had just recovered from illness, and the hot weather was not suitable, so I spent two months with frequent night feedings with difficulty, and postponed it until the National Day holiday.

I was very busy with work at that time, and I had no time to think of any other way to deal with this little guy who slept through the entire 2-month period and now comes to cause havoc. I thought that night feeding would allow me to sleep with him, so I would just feed him at night. To avoid crying endlessly, the whole family will not be able to sleep.

I know that my brother is not looking for milk or hunger, he is just looking for a sense of security, the sense of security that comes from being held by his mother.

My brother was very resistant to the traditional Chinese medicine he took when he got sick for the first time.

In the 2 months after taking Chinese medicine, he could drink milk from a bottle and breast milk normally during the day, and could eat complementary foods. However, as soon as I came home at night, he would not touch any food other than breast milk. It seemed that any food would be like that. Plant Chinese medicine that doesn’t smell or taste good.

During the National Day holiday, I adjusted the duty schedule with my colleagues to ensure that there would be 4 days.

But in the last few days, when I watched my child sleeping and how he frequently woke up at night with his eyes closed and his mouth open, I felt a little reluctant to let go of this painful yet deeply attached feeling. .

I didn’t expect that even more than 3 years later, I could still remember the scene when I was holding the baby while breastfeeding. The two brothers’ satisfied expressions and cute waving little fleshy hands. I caressed their heads and touched their breasts. Small arms and thick legs.

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2 years old, in the sunflower field in July, the whole family was happy only for my mother

When the twins were 2 years old, I saw a beautiful sunflower field on the Internet. There was only a certain village, and there was no specific address or other circumstances. I was also confused. I really want to see the sunflowers on the weekend.

The children have no idea, but they are still very happy.

’s only driver, Dad, looked embarrassed, but he didn’t dare to raise objections.

The sunflower field we finally found attracted many tourists. I had a lot of fun taking selfies.

My brother saw the buds in the middle of the sunflower and suffered from "intensive phobia". He was so scared that he almost cried. My younger brother wanted to pee but felt that there were people everywhere and he couldn't take off his pants in public places, so he stamped his feet anxiously.

Dad was getting hot, and grandma had to drag the two children with her, fearing that they would fall into the field.

Later impressions of this trip: What my mother remembers is that she met some grandfathers who were fond of photography and took a set of short videos for us; my father swore never to go to such a far, hot and desolate place again; the two My impression was that the beans in a small restaurant we found on the way back were particularly delicious.

I think, now I can’t seduce the children to see the flowers and go to the botanical garden. When they grow up, they don’t seem so soft and cute anymore!

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3 years old, just entered kindergarten, love to share stories with you

Twin brothers who have just entered kindergarten at the age of 3 will have mild separation anxiety , and will also have great interest in new friends and new games in the kindergarten.

Chatting time before going to bed every night is our happiest time.

Although I would worry about how to solve every little problem of the baby without showing any embarrassment, at that time, the baby was still the soft and waxy little guy. He was still the same one who fell asleep when I held him in my arms. A sticky armyworm that can be hugged by a bear.

html The 33-year-old child slowly moved towards his own social world, and slowly moved further and further away.

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4 years old, the little pony that can’t be locked up

I don’t know since when, I turned sideways and gently hugged the sleeping child. He was no longer close to me. Although he wouldn’t hide away, there was no other way. Reaction.

It’s not like that when I was a kid. When I hugged the baby, I would stick to him. When dad hugged the baby, he would turn around. It always worked. I used to be very proud and always wondered how a sleeping child could tell who was hugging him gently. of.

Now, even during the day, only when he is angry or sad, and I ask: "Do you need a hug?" will I put my little head towards him.

But after a while, the elder brother will say: "Mom, it's okay."" and then run away quickly. It means "I'm done hugging you, I'm not sad anymore, I'm going to play."

The younger brother will also ask: " Mom, are you okay? ” means “Mom, have you hugged me enough?” I need to go play. "I had to reply: "Okay, okay. "Then the younger brother also ran away.

I feel that the heart of the child is a prairie. They are a wild horse, eager to ride in the wilderness.

When my child was 2 years old, I used my mobile phone to handle work, and my brother would be so angry that he snatched the mobile phone away.

Now They don't really care when they see me using my phone, whether it's for work, shopping or entertainment. They will play by themselves and invent their own little games.

After I've finished processing, if they are still playing, they don't come over immediately. If you cooperate with me, I might get angry and feel that my time is being taken up more.

But looking forward, how much more time can I have to watch my children play wildly, be sad, angry, laugh, and be happy? How much time do we have that can be occupied?
As children grow up and move further and further away, it is estimated that only the father/mother of the children will be able to share the memories with them in the future.

So, when the soft and waxy little guy wants to be held by you, don’t dislike it, because such days really don’t last long. One day you may be like me and regret a little bit that you stayed with your child so much. Missing!