A friend told me that because I have been living with my mother-in-law all year round, there are more and more contradictions. The requirements for each other are becoming more and more practical. Sometimes I feel very tired, and sometimes I feel that life is very inconvenient, b

A friend told me that because I live with my mother-in-law all year round, there are more and more contradictions. The requirements for each other are becoming more and more practical. Sometimes I feel very tired, and sometimes I feel that life is very inconvenient, but there is nothing I can do. My husband is an only child, and my mother-in-law has sold her house in the county town, and we will live together in the future. In addition, my friend’s child is still young, so he also needs the help of his parents-in-law. Presumably, this is also a common problem faced by those born in the 80s and 90s now!

One night not long ago, my friend and his family were watching TV, and they accidentally mentioned that their children were going to elementary school, so they casually said: I recently enrolled my children in a writing class to practice holding a pen! Unexpectedly, before she finished speaking, my mother-in-law couldn't hold it in any longer: Is there any practice in holding a pen? Did you practice it when you were a child? You parents don’t think about how to help your children! Sign up for classes when you encounter any problems. It is your parents' responsibility to educate your children. Don't rely on others whenever you have problems!

friend was confused for a moment: Why am I so irresponsible? Aren’t professional organizations more accurate, faster and more scientific in solving problems? Besides, you didn’t spend any of the money you gave your children on me! Then she turned around and punched her husband: It's not because you earn less, otherwise there wouldn't be any of these things!

The mother-in-law was angry: Why did you hit my son? Am I wrong? The children have signed up for so many classes before they go to school. Some are useful but some are useless. If you are not tired, I am tired for the children. Play less on your phone, read less novels, spend more time with your children, everything will be solved!

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The war of words lasted for a long time, and the smoke of fireworks filled the air!

When my friend told me, he was still very angry and his eyes were blurry! I feel that I have worked so hard to raise a baby, and I am not willing to buy clothes or spend money to dress myself up. In the end, I was called irresponsible and felt aggrieved!

friends, what do you think?

Actually, I think each has its own reasons. After all, your mother-in-law understands your son better than your daughter-in-law. Many times, it is difficult for your mother-in-law to completely see the problem from your perspective! In addition, the older generation is frugal in running the household, and many of them raise five or six children by themselves, so they find many of the practices of young people incomprehensible! As for young mothers, they themselves are still children. Once they have their own children, their status changes and they immediately have to pay for daily necessities. It is unavoidable that their parents are short-lived. This requires the couple to work together and work together to achieve success. Put more effort into the growth and education of children. We must believe that children's growth is inseparable from their parents' companionship and education, and it is crucial. Children are a mirror of their parents. In children, you can see what your parents look like. This makes sense!

But no matter what, the mother-in-law is also the mother, so you still have to pay attention to the words you speak to avoid affecting family harmony. Friends, have you ever encountered similar things? Let’s chat together in the comment area.