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Why canāt we help but spank our children?
is first of all influenced by the original family!
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In our generation, there are only a few children who can grow up without being beaten.
Compared with how much parenting knowledge we learn and how many books we read,
original families are more powerful.
When truth meets reality and we are helpless,
we instinctively think of the most familiar way of dealing with it--the way our parents do it!
When a beaten child becomes a parent,
may be as emotional and irritable as his parents!
Even if "don't beat children" is the bottom line,
"behavioral violence" turns into "verbal violence".
The second is parent emotion management!
Parentsā emotions should be relaxed rather than blocked.
In real life, if you can't help it,
even if you regret it this time and swear not to fight again,
the majority of parents will not be able to control it next time!
Faced with a naughty child acting like a monster,
learning to control emotions has become a required course for parents!
After the emotions have stabilized,
we analyze the reasons why the child made the mistake -
Why did he do this?
If it is an unintentional mistake,
using language communication can teach children,
we do not need to punish them!
Sometimes children do it intentionally.
The internal reason may be that our parents made mistakes first.
Children's mistakes are often reminders of what we have overlooked.
When children feel that they are not accepted, they will try their best to act like monsters, and even use ways that adults hate to gain a sense of presence;
When children feel that they are not cared about, they will have behavioral regression and resort to the most primitive cry-seeking behavior. Pay attention to prove that you are loved;
When children are not respected, they may confront them in a rebellious way, just to let their parents see them;
Although these behaviors of children make us angry to death,
they are all kinds of blind The reason for the trouble,
may just be to attract our attention!
Thinking of these,
Perhaps most of the parentsā anger has dissipated!
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