I saw this news: A mother confiscated her mobile phone to stop her child from playing with it. When the child saw that his mobile phone had been confiscated, he wanted to buy another one, but he had no money, so he stole his mother's 3,000 yuan bracelet and pawned it in a store. The child didn't know how valuable the bracelet was, so he was tricked into selling it for 3,000 yuan and thought he had made a profit.
Do you all think that children should be educated? After all, stealing is wrong. But have you ever thought that your mother’s behavior is also inappropriate?
In life, most parents often use rough methods when disciplining their children. Their intentions are good, but what's the point? Good intentions lead to bad things. Because this is forcing children to take dangerous risks in the military. (Especially children in the rebellious period)
Children don’t think as much as adults. If you don't convince him, just confiscate his phone, and he will think of ways to get another one to play with (and he will try every method)
A child has no money. At this time, he may directly steal money, or cell phone. A child's self-control is not very strong. Although he is also afraid of being discovered, he is more immersed in the joy of successfully stealing. (Because they don’t know how serious their behavior is. They only know that if they are discovered, they will definitely be beaten.)
Aren’t there children who run away from home because they are afraid of being beaten? So, instead of holding a clothes hanger and vetoing your child's words, it is better to try the correct language and behavioral guidance. Try to understand the child's psychology. This is not only educating children, but also re-examining yourself (what you think is good may not be right, and it may not be what the child wants)
Each of us adults was once a child, and we have all had our own troubles with children.
Well... I mean, too much time has passed, and life has blurred too many ideas. Do you still remember what you were like when you were a child?
This article is just my personal opinion
