stages:
1-6 weeks: I don’t feel much, I go to work normally, but I feel soreness in my back after running too much.
7-12 weeks: Pregnancy reverse is the most serious. I can’t eat anything except white porridge and salted radish. Sometimes I only rely on a bowl of powder for breakfast to survive the whole day, and my body feels weak. I am particularly sensitive to smells. I will retching because of the strong smell of laundry detergent used by employees in the same office. I will retching because of the perfume used by employees in the same office. I will retching due to the smell of the office toilet, hand sanitizer Taste retching. I would retch because of the strong smell of cigarette smoke in the office staff. I feel lethargic every day and cannot drink tea or coffee to refresh myself. This leads to not wanting to go to work. Sometimes I feel tired because no one gives up my seat on the subway, and I am so tired that I don’t want to go to work.
13-28 weeks: The pregnancy reaction is finally not so serious, but I still can’t smell any irritating smell. Calcium supplementation is started during this period. Calcium supplementation causes constipation. Constipation is annoying every day, and it takes at least twenty minutes to go to the toilet. I don't want to go to work because there is no private toilet in the office. Anyone with constipation understands. In the later period, my belly grew bigger and I also felt difficulty breathing. Chest tightness and shortness of breath It was as if I couldn’t breathe when I reached the plateau and the air was thin. Especially in the sultry afternoons, I couldn’t bear it many times and had to go to the balcony to blow in the air. So I don’t want to go to work because I have difficulty breathing in the office.
htmlAfter 128 weeks: In addition to the difficulty in breathing in the office, sitting in the office chair for too long makes my waist feel so tired that it is about to break. At this time, even if you are doing nothing, you cannot sit at home for a long time. I am often hungry. When I am hungry, my eyes become dizzy and I cannot look at the computer. Moreover, I started to urinate frequently and became constipated. Going to the toilet is definitely the biggest hassle during pregnancy.
htmlAfter 130 weeks: Due to frequent urination in the middle of the night, the quality of sleep at night is not good. Sometimes after going to the toilet, the baby in the belly starts to dance, and it takes half an hour to an hour before he can fall asleep. Sometimes, due to the enlarged uterus, stomach distension acid reflux , I can't sleep at night. I don’t want to go to work because of insomnia in the third trimester of pregnancy.
35-36 weeks: Due to false uterine contractions in the middle of the night, my belly was extremely tight and I couldn't fall asleep because I turned around and couldn't find a comfortable sleeping position. Because I leaked urine in the middle of the night and was worried that my water would break, I often kept observing the urine leakage in the early morning and couldn't sleep. Because my pubic bone hurts I couldn’t sleep. I couldn't sleep because my calves were prone to cramps. You can't sit for long periods of time in the office, squat, or walk. All kinds of discomfort.
40 weeks: When I have irregular uterine contractions, it feels a bit like aunt's pain. It hurts several times a day, but the frequency of contractions and does not form a regular pattern. Because I was worried that if the labor was delayed any longer, I heard that it would be very painful to insert a water bag into the oxytocin injection, so I had to endure the irregular contractions, climb the stairs slowly, and rest when the contractions came. Finally, the contractions became more and more frequent, so frequent that in the middle of the night, the pain went from once every 10 minutes to once every 5 minutes. Finally, waiting for the moment of labor. It can only be said that people from high school to high school are warriors.
Labor time : It is an enhanced version of aunt's pain. It is so painful that I shed tears and beg the doctor for relief. Unlucky enough, I performed an autopsy and cut it out. Several nurses came over to massage my belly. When there is no gas, your stomach will be as swollen as a stone. The nurse will tap it twice, and the pain will make you cry for father and mother. This is the effect of pressing the analgesic mercury once before the nurse said to massage the belly. Six hours after surgery, the nurse will ask you to turn over. Within 24 hours after surgery, you should start getting out of bed and walking. Damn it...I can't write this memory anymore. In short, three days before hospitalization, you would lie in bed crying for mother in pain due to various examinations and physiotherapy . Occasionally, when you pass by the window and see the outside world, you feel as if you are gazing out from hell into the human world. It's like a lifetime ago.
After giving birth to : You once thought that the most painful days of giving birth were the days before delivery. Until I experienced breastfeeding every two hours, day and night, and was so sleepy that I had a nervous breakdown and couldn't concentrate and listen to others. It wasn't until you experienced the pain of opening and closing your breasts that you screamed in bed, and you realized that this pain was not much easier than the pain of waiting for the opening of the cervix in the delivery room.There is also the pain of chapped , my hands hurt and my back is sore after holding the baby too much...
Three months after giving birth: I got tenosynovitis after holding the baby. I continued to hold the baby while feeling pain, because when the baby was fussy, he only recognized his mother. I haven't had a full night's sleep for three months in a row. I feel sleepy, mentally exhausted, and very grumpy. I also had low back pain that lasted for a long time. I went to the hospital to find out that it was caused by pelvic dislocation and involvement. I still screamed in pain when my bones were being set. When the weather changes, the incision of caesarean section will be sore and tingling, and the nearby flesh will feel numb. There is no one to take care of the children, so I cannot go to work.
Postpartum Seven months: I haven’t had a full night’s sleep in seven months. The child is getting bigger and heavier, and he is exhausted after holding him for half an hour. The need to play with him is increasing day by day. Backache and back pain are often associated with you. But children are also really cute, especially when their tender little face bumps into yours and they suddenly take a bite, I feel like this child is capable and he really loves you. Gradually, I became a little afraid of going to work, maybe because I was worried that the person who would take care of my child would not be able to calm him down after he went to work. Because this human cub has completely taken over your heart.
It turns out that women’s suffering starts from the moment gets pregnant
To sum up, she doesn’t want to go to work.
[Before I gave birth to a baby, I had lived 996 for five or six years, but compared to being at home with my baby full-time, life in 996 was almost like a vacation. Because 996 has at least one day off a week, at least ensures that he sleeps more than eight hours a day, at least he can eat and go to the toilet more leisurely, at least he does not have to live in a day where lacks a sense of value . So you don’t have to understand the pain of pregnancy, the pain of childbirth, and the fatigue of raising a baby, but at least you shouldn’t be indifferent and mocking the pain of others. A person should be kind . 】
Finally, I have successfully given birth to a healthy baby at full term
I wish all mothers can give birth to healthy babies and survive the most painful, difficult, embarrassing and gloomy year for women
After all When the human cub smiles innocently and arches back and forth in the arms, it will also feel happy to give birth to a life.
The little cub is the only human worthiness in this miserable life
