As a new parent, the first gift you give your child is a nice and elegant name. The name seems to be just a pronoun, but it has a profound impact on students' study and life.
Before students enter school, they may not know their names well. When they enter the campus, classmates and teachers will frequently call their names. A good-sounding name will make students full of confidence. A name that is too strange or ambiguous will make students Create an inferiority complex.
Looking back on the author’s high school days, the school would regularly organize large-scale exams. Whenever the results were announced, students would look for their names on the 100-person list. For students with top grades, teachers and classmates would pay special attention to their names. If the name is nice, , everyone will think that a person is as good as his name. If his grades are not good, his classmates may think that he is not worthy of his name.
A man in Jiangxi had an embarrassing surname, so he wanted his son to take his mother’s surname.
Since ancient times, our country has had the tradition of sons taking their father’s surname. However, with the development of society, people’s ideas have changed, and women With the continuous improvement of status, many families also have children taking their mother's surname. If the mother's surname is too rare, or the father's surname is embarrassing, they will generally consider letting the child take the mother's surname.
There is a man in Jiangxi with a special surname, "Cao". In real life, this surname is relatively rare. This man said that when he was in school, he was often called various nicknames by his classmates because of his surname. Although his classmates I didn't mean any harm, but seeing my classmates making fun of my name made me feel a little uncomfortable.
thought that as they grew older, senior students would be less likely to discuss their surnames. did not expect that after entering college, many students would still make fun of their surnames.
may seem to other students as a normal way of teasing between classmates, but for this male student, he has been nicknamed by his classmates because of his last name since he was a child, and now he sees that his classmates are still doing the same. , and even started naming his future children, which not only made him feel disappointed.. At that time, I had secretly made up my mind that I would never let my children take my surname in the future, and must take my mother's surname.
Grandma disagreed and decided on the name
The man with the surname "Cao" did not want his son to take his own surname. During the entire study process, he was often nicknamed by his classmates. For the sake of his son's physical and mental health, he decided Let the child take the mother's surname.
Unexpectedly, grandma disagreed with . In order to give her grandson a satisfactory name, grandma mobilized a lot of brain cells, just to give her grandson a nice and loud name, and more importantly, to avoid being laughed at by classmates, so grandma In a clever move, named him "Cao Shuai", which means that he will become more handsome in the future, and his parents also approved of this.
I thought that the "handsome" classmate could grow up happily like other classmates. Unexpectedly, after going to school, he was still nicknamed by his classmates. Many classmates did not know the correct pronunciation of his name, but called him "" "Hasty", This made the family feel very distressed. It was too hasty to name the child. did not think of this homophonic stalk at first.
In fact, judging from the name "Cao Shuai" alone, it is pretty good. It has a good meaning. will bring motivation to students in the future learning process. However, the problem of homophones is ignored, which leads to frequent confusion after school. Called "sloppy" by students.
Names will accompany students throughout their lives. Parents should be particularly careful when naming their students.
When naming students, parents must avoid uncommon characters and traditional Chinese characters . If the teacher does not even recognize them, it may reduce the number of questions asked in class. The number of times, over time, will make students feel that the teacher does not like them, including when classmates are playing after class, they will not call students by their names because the other person's name is too difficult to pronounce.
Secondly, when choosing a name, avoid ambiguity. . Many students have common surnames. There is no problem with the names alone. However, when names are combined, ambiguity will arise, such as " Huang Shang" and "Tang Bohu " My classmates, there is nothing wrong with the last name, but when pronounced together with the first name, it will cause ambiguity. In order to avoid embarrassment, the teacher will deliberately reduce the number of questions in class.
In addition, when parents name their students, should not be too cumbersome. For lower grade primary school students, they must write their names first for every exam. If there are too many strokes, it will be a big challenge for them. Other students may have already After answering two questions, I was still struggling with my name, and was already lagging behind at the starting line.
Giving a child a thousand pieces of gold is not as good as teaching a child an art, and teaching a child an art is not as good as giving a child a good name . The impact of names on students cannot be ignored. Even if they enter college, too unique names will still cause trouble to students.
For example, this classmate "Qu Lala" has not dared to skip class for four years in college. The teacher may not know her as a person, but she remembers her name in her heart. Every time she calls her name, she cannot escape the teacher's "discernment".
Whether the name sounds good or not not only affects the mood of the students, but also reflects the cultural level of the parents. Whether the students take their father's surname or their mother's surname, when choosing a name, parents must think carefully and must not do it casually. .
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