"Sex" This word has always been a hidden shame in people's perception, and it is avoided. Many countries start sex education for children when they are six or seven years old, and schools also have related courses. Although our country has also begun to carry out youth sex education activities, in the traditional concept of many parents, these are still difficult to talk to their children. This has led to many children not being able to view sex correctly and do not know how to protect themselves.
Sixteen or seventeen is the age of youth and sprout. Boys and girls at this age awaken their sexual consciousness and begin to have impulses and desires, but they don’t know the consequences of tasting the forbidden fruit, and perhaps they have not thought about what to do if they become pregnant. ? Therefore, when panicked, it also led to a series of problems, such as "child birth out of wedlock", "birth mother infanticide", "birth mother abandoning baby" and so on.
Among them, "unmarried women give up children after giving birth to face" often appear in the news. This is also a manifestation of weak legal consciousness and lack of responsibility.
Parents give birth to children and should fulfill their duty of raising children. Article 261 of the Criminal Law stipulates that persons who are old, young, sick or otherwise incapable of independent living have the obligation to support and refuse to be supported. If the circumstances are bad, they shall be sentenced to not more than five years of fixed-term imprisonment, criminal detention Or regulation.
Abandoning children is no longer allowed, and the plot of killing children is even worse, but there are many such things, especially in the case of having children out of wedlock. The case of "Mother and Infant Killing" in Inner Mongolia is particularly special. One is: the child born out of wedlock is a minor woman after 10,000; two, the woman is a divorced single-parent family.
February 28, 2020Ayun (pseudonym) suddenly had a pain in her lower abdomen. She thought it was because she had eaten something bad and had diarrhea. After going to the toilet, her stomach hurts more and more. There was a little blood oozing out of her lower body. She had a vague hunch that she might be giving birth, but she didn’t. I dared to tell my father, and I didn't plan to tell my father. Her parents divorced when she was very young. Her father was serious and indifferent and rarely cared about her life, but she knew that her father wanted face, and if her father knew that she had a child out of wedlock, she would definitely be beaten.
So she endured the pain and gave birth to the child silently. She lost blood and weakness after giving birth. She had no maternal love for the slap-old child, only fear. She was afraid of being known by her father. Dare to bear the gossip about having a child out of wedlock. If others know about it, how can you behave yourself?
thought of this, she took up the scissors and cut the umbilical cord, and then stabbed the child with scissors several times on the neck, strangling the little life, fearing that the father would find out that she would throw the child into the sewage bucket. . After doing this, she had no strength and fell on the way back to the room.
When Ayun’s father returned home, he found that his daughter was covered with blood and fell on the ground. He was shocked and rushed to the hospital. When the doctor said that Ayun was suffering from massive postpartum hemorrhage from , Ayun's father was taken aback, as if he could not believe that his young daughter was pregnant and had a baby.
After Ayun woke up, where was the child asked? She faintly said: "It has been thrown into the sewage bucket." After hearing this, the doctor called the police. When the baby was found in the sewage bucket, the baby had already died.
Ayun killed a child after giving birth. The right to life is a citizen's right to life not to be illegally violated according to law. Even a newborn baby cannot be deprived or violated of his right to life. The behavior has been suspected of intentional homicide.
According to Article 232 of the Criminal Law of the People’s Republic of China,Intentional homicide shall be sentenced to death, life imprisonment, or fixed-term imprisonment of more than ten years; if the circumstances are less serious, the sentence shall be three to ten years imprisonment. However, Ayun has just turned 17 and is still a minor. According to Article 17 of the Criminal Law, a person who has reached the age of 16 commits a crime and shall be held criminally responsible. It is stipulated that persons under the age of 18 who are held criminally responsible shall be given a lighter or mitigated punishment.
There is one crime of intentional homicide with a minor plot. The birth of the baby was killed out of inability to raise, face and other not too bad subjective motives. (But if it is because of the patriarchal thinking and found that the daughter was born and drowned, the subjective motives are extremely despicable, and the plot of intentional homicide should not be judged as a lesser case.)
Ayun It was not because of the patriarchal thought that killed the child, but because of her face and she didn't know how to deal with it. Therefore, her sentence was in the range of three years to ten years. And after Ayun arrived in the case, he truthfully explained the facts of the crime, pleaded guilty with a good attitude, and had surrendered. Finally, the Baotou Intermediate People’s Court, after comprehensively considering the nature, circumstances, and degree of social harm of Ayun’s crime, sentenced Ayun to intentional homicide. Yun has a four-year imprisonment.
During the investigation and trial, the judiciary found that Ayun was a child from a single-parent family. Her parents divorced when she was young. After her mother remarried, she no longer contacted her. Therefore, she lacked the care of her mother and female elders. In her adolescence, she was ignorant and curious about sex. In 2018, when she was 15 years old, she met her boyfriend Lin because of a part-time job. After a drink, the two had a relationship. Lin was only 17 years old. The two fell in love, often Fighting together, but without defensive measures, Ayun became confused and became pregnant.
After she became pregnant, no one was around to teach her what to do, and no one took care of her, and she did not dare to tell anyone about such a shameful thing. After her boyfriend knew she was pregnant, she disappeared without a trace. No contact. Panicked, she will finally make an extreme choice.
Now children are getting more and more precocious,When the child is in middle school, parents must start to give their children proper sex education, otherwise some children may be curious and have a relationship. Don't let the movie adolescence story happen in our lives.
The earlier the family sex education, the better, especially the self-protection consciousness of girls should be instilled as soon as possible. Relevant sex education before puberty can reduce children's embarrassment and impulse. Parents should let their children know when educating that everyone has sexual desires and there is nothing to be shy about. However, let him understand that even if it is normal to have sexual desire, it does not mean that it can be nonsense.
At the same time of sex education, parents should emphasize responsibility. Educate children to deal with sexual and emotional issues in a responsible manner. Children should be made aware that they have the right to make their own choices and make decisions on matters related to sex. But this choice and decision-making should be responsible, wise, and take into account the interests of oneself and others.
When we can all take sex seriously and take responsibility for our own actions, the tragedy of "birth and abandonment of infants and infanticide" may gradually disappear.
