Now it is said that boys are more difficult to raise than girls, and the "bear children" they encounter are basically boys. Why is this so? It is because of inborn differences in biology that their physical and mental development patterns are different from those of girls.
My colleague Xiao Ma and I gave birth to a girl and a boy, five months apart. After work, what we discussed most was the difference between girls and boys.
Boys are more active than girls and have higher mobility
From the perspective of fetal movements during pregnancy, there is a big difference between girls and boys. My frequent strength is strong, and her occasionally gentle.
is also a caesarean section. Her Yueyue is very well-behaved after she is born. She lay down so quietly after she ate her milk, and occasionally cried as softly as a kitten screamed. And my house ran, from the moment I came out, my voice was loud, and my hands and feet were waving all the time when I was awake.
When the child will turn over and change the diaper when the diaper is wet, Xiao Yue can take a toy in her hand, and she can change it alone by herself, but Da Ben requires at least two people to hold him to change it. over.
The boy has a physical memory only after he has been injured
After dinner, he took a big run to the park and saw two slapstick boys. One hurt the other, and the other pushed him to the ground with his backhand. Then the two fought, both suffered some injuries, and they separated under the prevention of their parents.
When the girls on the other side avoided each other deliberately, they seemed to be born to think about whether they would hurt others.
Boys develop language skills more slowly than girls, speak later, and have poorer expression skills
Yueyue will be called mom and dad in six months, and Da Ben will not be called dad until seven months, and only when she is crying mother.
Because the two children have not yet started talking. I asked a pair of cousins who had two-year-old children. He said that the younger brother spoke later than the older sister. After the two children went to school, they often quarreled because the younger brother couldn't quarrel with the older sister, and then they beat the older sister.
Recalling when I was a child, it seemed to be the same. My brother couldn't quarrel with me, then he beat me, and finally was both taught by my parents.
How to educate,Let "bear children" not bear?
If we carefully observe and accompany children, we will grasp the growth laws of boys and summarize the proper parenting methods for boys.
Boys need more and higher intensity exercises to release his high mobility
Compared to the playhouses played by girls, puzzle games and other games, boys need more high-intensity ball games or swimming , Running and other activities to consume energy.
In early childhood, you can choose chasing games or toys, let him find a way to crawl and get enough.
Minimize the things that can't be done. Let the children try without causing serious consequences.
All children will have the experience of falling off the sofa or bed. The more they stop, the more curious they are.
You might as well spread a thicker blanket on the ground and let him try to climb out, the pain will make him remember.
Boys who have never experienced fights when they were young are more likely to lose control of their strength when they grow up, and are more likely to cause serious harm to others.
If you don't let your child get hurt, he will never learn how to protect himself, and he won't have the concept of hurting others like this.
Parental guidance is a necessary condition for the child's development. Give the child some time.
Children are innocent and without too much thinking ability, the easier it is for them to speak out and hurt others.
Although childish speech is unscrupulous, parents can cultivate their children's empathy ability.
From the beginning of the child's learning to speak, parents must pay attention to their own words and deeds. The cultivation of expression skills requires precepts and deeds.
Guide your child carefully, express love more, let him know what will hurt others and avoid using it.
Finally, as a male father, he is a beacon on the road to parenting. Boys need to learn from their father to manage and express their emotions, as well as the sense of responsibility and responsibility that a man should have.
Love children with heart,I hope we can all raise a little angel. #育儿婚纱计划#
All the views in this article come from the famous parent-child education expert Fu Xiaoping's "Who Says Boys Are Hard to Raise?" "This book. Parents with male treasures at home, it is recommended to read.
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