What if you really have a parent who treats you very badly?
I saw this topic today and didn’t care at first, but after thinking about it for a while, maybe my parents treat myself better, so I can’t realize those parents with poor temperament, so I searched it and took a look at those What happened to the children who did not want to be named but have always had a shadow in their hearts.
Anonymous A:
When I was in elementary school, my mother instilled this thought into me several times a week:
You have a bad personality.
You speak harshly.
You have a narrow personality.
Who can stand you if you have a bad temper.
has no friends.
Bad temper.
deserves to be alone.
Her habitual beginning is that you have always been...
I just went to elementary school and I know what a shit!
One day she suddenly said to me without beginning and ending, "What are you pretending to be high-minded all day long."
I was only in elementary school! The whole person was silly after listening. I don't know what I did.
I am in junior high school and the class introduces myself. I am embarrassed to say that my speech is awkward and the person is mean. Please bear with me.
I always thought so anyway.
But everyone thinks I am optimistic, cheerful and lively.
I took a close friend to play at home, and she treated me as a family member during dinner, because at one point, I felt that there was nothing trivial and could tell me to cry when my classmate left.
In high school, I started quarreling with her and insisted on what I thought was right. I fell with her, and it happened that the college entrance examination results were very poor. She was also very angry. She quarreled, quarreled, and quarreled every day. Maybe in her eyes I was the worst daughter in the world.
She still said that, speaking of me now, going to college.
So, I am a bad-tempered person now.
Bad personality.
has no friends.
speaks mean.
Lonely.
No one can stand me.
Sometimes she calls me, and she quarrels in the middle of the call or I can't listen. I feel bad almost every day. So I never take the initiative to call her.
I think I am a monster created by my mother.
I really envy the subject. I also want to live a chic life.
The last sentence, tears, how much he longs for a beautiful family, to have a mother who loves her, his powerlessness can only accuse his mother by denying himself-"I think I was made by my mother. Of a monster".
Anonymous B:
decided to answer anonymously after thinking about it.
I often feel isolated, helpless, lonely and helpless. I like to be alone. I like to be alone. I feel that no one in the world can help me, and no one can really understand me. I only have myself, so I want to live enough. powerful!
Having indifferent parents is actually not indifferent. I think I can handle everything well. I don’t need to be comforted. When I say I want to be strong in loneliness, she thinks I should go to a psychologist and think I have parents. How can you be lonely if you are happier than others. From childhood to family care, because it’s a girl, grandmother, grandpa, and grandpa won’t spoil me. Without the care of the older generation, my parents didn’t spend much time with me because of time issues. Both were very busy and caused my sensitivity, sometimes because of a little bit. Fragments of family love can burst into tears.
tells myself that in the future, a child who wants to give all my love to her may be too lacking, so I am willing to give a lot of love to those who I identify
because I don’t get too much love, so I understand how important love is. My parents are disappointed to the end, and the only thing they can do is to give better love to the next generation!
The love we first recognized and received was given by our parents, so since parents have brought their children into this world, please love her!
