That violent mother suddenly changed: the truth behind it makes people cry

2021/09/0721:19:08 baby 642

author | Showtime happy student wings

coordinate | Guangdong Foshan

temporary break power, repent

I really couldn't hold back, "Bao Gong" breathed fire!

This is how it happened. After dinner was cooked that day, I called the children to come over for dinner, and my son ran over and sat down, picked up the dishes and ate while watching TV.

I felt a little uneasy in my heart, so I reminded me: "It’s not good for your stomach and intestines if you eat half-heartedly." It’s going to hurt like the last time!"

"You told your mother that it hurts like a bug biting you. Did you forget?"

My son's complexion is not good. I guess he remembered it. He said with an uncomfortable face, "I remember it!"With emotion, I sat back at the table and ate melancholy.

At this time, my sister ran around again, noisy, this time my son was distracted again and couldn't eat well.

I was sitting aside, seeing such a scene, I just thought about it bursting out of no name, " "Come out.

I stood up angrily and said, “Don’t eat from tomorrow! Let’s starve to death! No one calls my mother tonight, I don’t have such a bad boy!”

After saying this, I went to the living room and sat down. My son was facing me with his shoulders carefully undulating, and there was a faint sob.

I suddenly woke up from my emotions: Am I crazy? Say this to the child! Doesn't this mean leaving trauma to the child's psychology?

I took a few deep breaths and said to myself: "Your emotional virus is here. Calm down quickly. Now it’s time to make good use of what I learned before and put the pit I just dug into practice. Fill it in!"

and that’s it,My restless heart gradually returned to calm, and when I looked at my son again, I found his little one, cowering in the chair, very scared.

He carefully observed my expression, and when he saw me looking at him, he lowered his head suddenly, not daring to look at me again, for fear that I would get angry at him again.

His appearance made me feel very uncomfortable. Just as I was struggling to express to my son why I had excessive language behavior, my mobile phone suddenly rang.

I walked over and picked up my mobile phone to see that it was a video call from my grandmother.

After switching on, looking at the opposite side of the phone, my son's cousin and a group of children were having fun, I raised my eyes and looked at my son, who was sitting there looking at me pitifully.

The sense of self-blame in my heart also spontaneously arises, and I even feel very disappointed with myself because I just didn't control my emotions and let me hurt.

I shook my head, quickly cleared up my emotions, and said to my son in a gentle-sounding tone: "Come here, it's grandma's calling."

I got up and yelled sweetly with my mobile phone: "Grandma,what's wrong? "

Seeing that my grandparents and grandchildren talked more and more happily, I let out a long sigh of relief.

After a while, my sister suddenly ran over and pulled my sister. : "Mom, don't lose your temper anymore. I just scared my brother and me. "

My nose was sore, and I said dully, "Okay, mom knows!" "

Reflect in time and defuse emotions

I will hang up the phone with my son, after you come out with my sister, I will talk with my sister. Can you help my sister blow her hair? Mom is a little tired. "

The son readily agreed, ran to get the hair dryer and began to carefully blow the wet hair of his sister.

, watching their warm and warm interaction I was touched and uncomfortable inside. The child is my little angel! How can I make that kind of fire at them tonight!

In my unknowingly reflection, remind the children to sleep His alarm clock rang, and his son ran over and said to me proactively, "Mom,I should go to bed.

I touched his head and said with a smile: "Okay, but mom has to throw some rubbish. You sleep first. I'll come later."

when I went downstairs and came back, I thought the children might be asleep. Who knows that the two brothers and sisters were lying side by side in bed and chatting. When they saw me, they hurriedly crawled over and said in unison: "Mom, you are back! "

I felt soft and said sincerely: "My dears, mommy should apologize to you for the things that hurt tonight. As far as people are concerned, will you forgive me? "

My son took my hand and looked at me. The tip of his nose trembled slightly, and then his eyes were wet, and he said in a dull voice, "Okay."

I picked him up, feeling uncomfortable in my heart, and comforted me: "Good boy, don't cry." Are you afraid of mom getting angry?

The son buried his face in my arms: "Yes, so mother, don't get angry, my sister and I will be obedient!" "

daughter also interrupted: "Yes! Mom, don't get angry anymore, we will all behave!

I put down my son,He took his and his daughter's hands and explained gently: "The reason why my mother was angry at the time was because she was worried that you did not eat and did not have enough nutrition. I reminded you many times later that when I was anxious, my mother became angry."

"I am going to correct it in the future! Thank you for your reminder. If you make a mistake, you must correct it. I will be a good mother!" I kissed me and said gruffly: "Good night, mom! We love you so much." So as a parent, I should reflect on myself, why do I get angry regardless of such a cute pair of angel babies?

I suddenly remembered a sentence: "Where anger can't reach, love can!" It is true. If I can control my emotions, then my children will not be harmed.

I will continue to work hard to change myself, grow myself, upgrade my internal drive, bury my angry self in the past, awaken the sun and rain of love, and illuminate myself to move forward. I'm fine, everything is fine!