"What kind of child is blessed? Look at the face? Look at the horoscope? Don’t believe this, the blessing of a child depends on the parents."
Hello, I am the family education instructor Matt. I advocate experiential family education and science. Parenting, rational parenting.
Today I will talk to you about the topic: It is a blessing for a child to have such parents.
What is a blessing? Living in a villa, driving a luxury car, and being a big boss, if this is considered a blessing, it is a bit too low-end, and it is really not something ordinary people can achieve.
In the view of Mr. Matt, a person is blessed, it depends on the person's family, harmony, happiness, adequate food and clothing, material and spiritual satisfaction can be called blessing.
I believe that every parent hopes that their children can have such a blessing, but this blessing is not to say that there is a blessing, what do you rely on? Don't believe what the fortune-telling book says, the blessing of a child depends on the parents.
There is a kind of parents whose children must be promising, and they must be blessed. Such parents actually only do one thing, which is enough to bring good blessings to their children. This is called patience.
Don't think this is easy. There are not many parents who can do it, and not all parents know under what circumstances to be patient. Parents must learn to be patient with these five things, we will say one by one.
The first thing is to teach children to be patient.
Is your child born with everything? If this is the case, then the child is a god. If not, parents need to teach, from the first time turning over to the first smile, from the first call to mother to the first time holding chopsticks, from knowing the first word to The first essay, from the first exam to the beginning of society, requires parents to teach little by little. Your patience will enable the child to learn the skills that should be learned at every stage. On the contrary, you feel that the child Will there be any promise?
The second thing,Teach children to be patient.
It is really difficult to set rules for children. Parents must not only be cruel, but also be patient. No child can not make mistakes under normal circumstances. Growth is a process of making mistakes and correcting step by step. Don’t say anything. "Didn’t I tell you? Why don’t you remember? Are you stupid? See how other children can teach them." Such cold language and violence will completely destroy children’s self-confidence, and experts say, This is easy to affect the child's IQ, so it is necessary to be patient in educating children.
The third thing is to be patient when facing children’s questions.
Why is the sky blue, why the sea is salty, why the stars blink, why, why, every question a child asks is an exploration of the unknown. This desire for exploration should not be blocked by the impatient parents. Moreover, every question is a valuable opportunity for parents to guide their children to think and pass on education. Curiosity and desire to explore are all manifestations of love to think. A child who is good at thinking will not be bad in learning.
The fourth thing, children have to be patient when they are emotional.
2 and 3 year olds will have emotions, 5 and 6 year olds will have emotions, 12 and 13 year olds will also have emotions, what should parents do when facing their children's emotions? Just leave it alone? To cool the child to the side, or to reprimand, these practices will only aggravate the child’s emotional psychology. The correct way for parents is to ease it, especially for children who have entered youth. Solving emotional problems requires more patience, patient persuasion, and patience. wait.
Fifth thing, be patient in disputes.
Children and their parents quarrel, parents are more irritable than children, how big things need to be so serious, so much competition? As parents, should allow children to have different opinions, forcing children to listen to it will only get stronger resistance. Parents should also communicate patiently with regard to principles. It doesn’t make sense. Let go first, give your child a smile, and don’t go to the corner. This is also a role model for the child. Solving problems does not depend on your voice.
Smart parents will deal with all problems patiently,Children can also learn solutions from their parents. Such children don’t have to wait for them to grow up. He will be happy and blessed throughout his life. Impatient parents hope that you can learn from it and pass on the blessings to your children.
I am teacher Matt, thank you for your attention, and welcome to leave comments.
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