There is always a gap between theory and reality, imagination is always beautiful, don’t blame yourself [Rose]. Everyone has a temper. If the temper is accumulated for a long time, it will be bad for the health, and it will be a good thing to explode. I used to be like you, and I

There is always a gap between theory and reality, imagination is always beautiful, don’t blame yourself [Rose]. Everyone has a temper. If the temper is accumulated for a long time, it will be bad for the health, and it will be a good thing to explode.

I used to be like you, and I have learned a lot of parenting knowledge since I was pregnant, just like I was injected with chicken blood! I always feel that the elders’ parenting knowledge is outdated. Whether it is feeding, hygiene, or later living habits, the elders’ words are different from what they say in the book, and I will not adopt them.

Later I found that in the book, the parenting experts may not be all about [laughing and crying] Some folk remedies left to us by our ancestors are quite useful!

As for whether you lose your temper with your child, it really depends on the personality characteristics of each child!

Some children can make sense to them and they can do it. There are some children who can't listen to more reasons, but they may be afraid of beating them. If you beat them up, they will not dare to remember them next time. There are also some children who have strong self-esteem or are timid, and adults speak slightly, so they are very conscious and obedient.

So you have to use different methods to treat children of different personalities. You need to observe more and find your child’s educational methods through practice. Books can be referenced, but they cannot be copied.

After you learn a lot of parenting knowledge, you find that there will be differences in opinions between experts [covering your face] What should you do at this time?

Some experts say that children should be beaten, and parents should not be reluctant to let go. Then another expert jumped out and said that children cannot be beaten, which is easy to have psychological shadows [grin]

There are many similar propositions, you must have your own judgment. I think to treat children, slap them and then stuff them with candy, one sings blushing and the other sings blushing. When it is time to reason, be reasonable and when it is time to fight, beating! Who has never been beaten and scolded by his elders when he was a child?

When you enter society, no one spoils our children. So, don’t be too entangled and don’t blame yourself too much.

The eldest son raises the book and the second son raises the pig! It is better to raise a baby roughly [Rose]