Whether it is work or life, everyone has their own goals.
We are always striving and working hard for our goals.
However, there are always some factors that will hinder your progress.
Sometimes, I feel that it is impossible for me to achieve my wish, I feel that doing something is very difficult, and I feel that I want to work hard but I keep moving. What exactly blocks my pace from moving forward?
Let yourself understand these two things in .
01 What limits you is thinking and cognition
People are always used to being limited to their own small world without knowing it. This will also limit a person's own ability development.
A person cannot overestimate his abilities, nor can he underestimate his potential.
What you think you can't do is that you never think about trying it in the past.
Most of the time, we always habitually think with inertial thinking. Especially when I encounter something I have never done before, my first reaction is that I can't do it.
Before I started doing something, I denied myself, not only stifled my own development opportunities, but also rejected the realization of my own potential.
has some understanding, but once it is wrong, the result will also be wrong.
The earliest three views and behaviors a person often learns from his parents. If your perception in a certain aspect is wrong, it will easily become a limit of your own thinking. If you cannot break this limitation, the result can be imagined.
For example, when I was a child, my grades in a certain subject were not good, and my parents would constantly deny it, saying that it was because I was too "stupid". Then they took other people's children as an example, saying how smart their children are and how good their grades are, how can you be so "stupid". Once the concept of "stupid" is implanted into your own thoughts, you will start to deny yourself, thinking that you are so "stupid". No matter how hard you work, you can't learn well, so you simply start to play with it. That is destined that the grades in this subject will not improve unless you are willing to change.
There are many other cognitive limitations, such as emotional, moral, etc. If you reflect on yourself, you will gradually realize the limitations of many thinking.
02 What hinders you is lazy instinct
Laziness is a human instinct.
Everyone who wants to make progress will be troubled by laziness. Laziness is with us all the time, and once there is no constraint, laziness will be exposed.
All the root of pain for people is that they cannot restrain themselves.
If you don’t take the initiative to suffer, you will suffer passively.
No matter what, the feeling of taking the initiative and accepting passively is completely different, and the same is true for enduring hardships.
People who seek hardships are often willing to endure hardships, while those who suffer passively usually feel hopeless in life. This is the difference between self-discipline and non-self-discipline.
The so-called self-discipline requires constantly overcoming the lazy instinct in human nature. Only by actively suffering from self-discipline will you not passively accept the suffering of mediocrity.
There is no one-time effort in this world, only persistent self-discipline.
Life is always full of uncertainty. You don’t know what the future development will be like, nor do you know what will happen tomorrow. No effort can make your life work once and for all.
is like, getting into an ideal university and finding a suitable job does not mean you can stop.
In order to cope with various uncertainties in life, we can only overcome laziness and adhere to self-discipline.
A person's efforts will never be disappointed.
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I am Yi Feiyu, a free writer who retires to the countryside.
copywriter who has been drifting in Beijing for ten years.
Focus on self-growth and accompany you to meet a better self.
