One flower and one world, One leaf and one Bodhi .
People's hearts cannot see clearly, human nature cannot stand scrutiny, don't be naive and sincere, and don't speculate on others casually. Sometimes people who seem to be good to you are actually chewing people's tongue behind their backs. People who look fierce are actually extremely kind in their hearts.
When you have experienced some things, you will know that there are only a few people who treat you sincerely. Most people don’t want you to live a better life than them. Don’t disbelief. This is the fact.
01 3 Tempered the flames, this is human nature
When you have no money, even if you are close, no one is willing to help you; when you are rich, even if you are far away, someone will come to you through mountains and rivers, despising the poor and loving the rich, this is human nature, this is reality.
In the past, the attitude of people around you towards you depended on the status and income of your parents; now, the attitude of people around you towards your parents depends on the status and income of your parents, this is human nature and cannot be changed.
It can be seen from this that human nature is vulnerable in the face of wealth. So, sometimes you don’t pay attention to those who are tempted by the situation and don’t forget those who help in time; don’t expect others’ help when you are in a downturn, relying on yourself is the right way.
02 As the case may be, this is human nature
When someone asks you to borrow five hundred yuan, you only have one hundred yuan, but you borrow ninety yuan to him; he borrows money from others, and others have ten thousand yuan, and borrows one hundred yuan to him. He may not be grateful to you for this, he will only feel that you are stingy than another person, this is human nature.
You are good for thousands of times, but once you are not good, the other party may ignore all your previous efforts; if someone is good for you occasionally, the other party may be grateful because he thinks your goodness is justified, this is human nature.
It can be seen that long-term favors will be considered as the right one, and the other party will gradually develop a dependent mentality. So, don’t give others a long-term favor, otherwise when the other party’s expectations fail one day, there will be a psychological contrast. Your kindness will be worth mentioning, and he may become enemies with you.
Life is very short. You have to make friends with people worth it and do things worth it. Human nature is unfathomable, but sincerity can rival all things. No matter when, you must treat people sincerely and see clearly, so that you can protect yourself and meet true friends.
