Preface
There are twilight clouds in the world and dim lights in the city. Whenever night falls, we have been busy for a day and drag our tired bodies home. At this moment, the nightlife of some people has just begun. They either get drunk in bars or travel through major entertainment venues, and they are filling their inner voids in their own way. "If you don't do it three times when it's dark, there will be no disaster at home" The saying "home" also tells us three things that we can't do after it's dark. Do you know which three items are?
Don't make a decision on the dark day
A major decision can change a person's life.
Generally speaking, people are relatively awake during the day when they ensure sufficient sleep time every night. Whether it is a student party or an office worker, it is often easier to concentrate on studying or going to work. When facing many things that need to be dealt with, you are more able to control your emotions and face everything rationally without any chaoticness.
But when night came, we were very tired when we dragged our tired body back home, and just wanted to sleep on the bed. Then, at this time, people usually relax their mood by playing games, watching TV series, and other entertainment methods such as , Douyin, and , and it is difficult to concentrate their energy.
In addition, in psychology, there is a concept called dark effect , which means that in places with darker light, it is easy to reduce the vigilance and create a sense of security in places where there is a darker light. When the night is so dark, people are often full of emotion and have a large fluctuation in their emotions, which can easily influence their emotions. Therefore, due to lack of concentration and excessive emotion, the decisions we make during darkness are mostly impulsive and irrational. Not only may we regret it when we think about it in hindsight, but it may also cause considerable disaster to ourselves and our family. If you encounter an emergency at night, you must start from reality and make careful decisions. Never act irresponsible.
Don’t do things to indulge in lust
Qing Dynasty educator Shen Juyun said in "Xiyan Zuoyu": "The joy of indulgence, sorrow and trouble will follow."
If a person is uncontrollable and indulges in desires to pursue pleasure too much, sorrow and disasters will follow, and it will even lead to the tragic ending of the country and family destruction and separation of his wife and children.
Throughout history, there are countless examples of this kind. Zhou Youwang is a typical representative of it. I believe everyone is not unfamiliar with the story of " Fenghuo Xi Zhuhou " . In order to win the beauty Baosi , King You of Zhou did not hesitate to use the beacon tower to tease the princes and ministers. As the "culprit", he actually drank and had fun with the beauty on the high platform. When the enemy really came, the repeated teasings made everyone no longer believe in King You of Zhou, and no one was willing to lead troops to rescue him. In the end, the Quanrong defeated Haojing and died, and Western Zhou ended.
so-called "Sex word "a knife on the head" , if a person is too indulged in self-pursuing pleasure, he will easily get stuck in it and cannot extricate himself. This will not only cause damage to his body, but may also break up the originally happy and fulfilling family. It is really an unwise move!
Don’t do bad things
"Don’t do bad things, don’t be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door" . If a person does not do unethical and unconscience during the day, he can sleep soundly and steadily at night, and there is no need to be afraid of ghosts knocking on your door.
We all know that there are actually no ghosts and gods in the world, and this sentence is just a metaphor. As long as we don’t do anything bad, we will definitely not be worried at night and are always afraid of others’ revenge.
If people do something that is conscient, their conscience will be uneasy!
The net is vast and sparse without leaking. The law will not let a bad person go, nor will it wrongly accuse a good person. As the most "bold" criminal in history Ji Shiguang After failing to rob and attack police with his companions, several of his companions were arrested one after another, he fled for fear of crime and hid his identity for 13 years and even started to "profile the job" - an actor. And he has participated in as many as 40 TV series. But he was arrested because the popular "Luxing" at the time was finally recognized by the police! He also admitted that he spent every day with fear.He has never slept well for years in hiding. He always dreams of being caught by the police in his sleep, and his cold handcuffs were handcuffed on his hands, and he spent his life in prison. Now that he has been arrested, Ji Shiguang feels unprecedentedly at ease.
As long as you act openly and honestly, why fear the sayings of ghosts and gods? For us, as long as we do not do things that violate the moral bottom line and commit crimes, we will definitely not have nightmares at night and we can sleep peacefully and steadily!
written at the end
Not every disaster is a disaster; adversity that comes early is always happiness. The difficulties overcome not only teach us lessons, but also inspire us to our future.
Life is not sunny, but also cloudy. As ordinary people, we cannot predict which one will come first, tomorrow or accident. But we can learn to face it calmly, not do three things when it is dark, and not do things that may put ourselves and our families in danger. Only by staying away from the root of harm can we have a happy family and good luck.
