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If a person suddenly becomes quiet and doesn't like to talk; if a person used to have many friends, he always likes to get together lively with them, but suddenly one day, he doesn't like to interact with them, but instead starts to be alone and enjoy being alone, do you know what this means?
You may feel that he has experienced some things and is very irritable and has no time to speak. Or he was hurt hard by someone and was completely disappointed with them, so he chose to close himself and stop dating others...
are all possible, but this is not a deep-seated reason. The real reason for
is that they have become mature, not only seeing through the essence of interpersonal communication, but also understanding the true meaning of life.
becomes quiet and becomes lonely, which is actually an important sign of moving from childishness to maturity.
1: It shows that he has seen through the essence of interpersonal communication and gave up useless social interaction
Interpersonal communication is a compulsory course in our life.
Because everyone is not an isolated island, as long as you live in this world, you must have a necessary connection with the outside world. For example, when you are in school, you will have classmates, after work, after marriage, you will have in-laws or parents-in-law, and various relatives, etc.
These are our social networks and form part of our lives. It is impossible to completely isolate them from them and live independently.
Because of this, we need a certain emotional intelligence to deal with these complex interpersonal relationships. If you are not careful, you will make your life more and more tiring.
But there are some people in life who gradually see through the essence of interpersonal communication. They find that people's hearts are realistic, even snobbish. Whether you are doing well or not will be treated differently.
If that's the case, why do we still have to spend so much time and energy to maintain these hypocritical and meaningless interpersonal relationships?
Keep quiet appropriately, keep low profile, appropriately reduce contact with certain people, and maintain a certain distance. For yourself, it is a rare kind of soberness and intelligence.
2: It means that his heart is becoming stronger, his thoughts are becoming mature, and he truly understands how to live for himself
You may say that human relationships are inevitable in life.
Many times, even if you see through a person or hate him from the bottom of your heart, you still have to maintain a certain relationship with him for some special reasons.
This is true, but after seeing through the other person's true nature, you can selectively communicate and give, which can avoid being hurt.
also shows that if you can talk calmly with people you don’t like, your ideological level is higher than that of ordinary people, and your heart is gradually becoming stronger.
When a person reduces his interactions with the outside world and gives up a lot of useless social interactions, it means that his thoughts have become mature and he truly knows how to live for himself.
When you find the focus of life, you will put yourself first in your life, and you will find that your time and energy are precious, and some bad people and bad things are not worth your waste.
people always have to suffer some losses, take some tricks or take some detours in order to truly mature.
was childish and naive before this. Many people cannot see clearly and understand many things. They just give foolishly, thinking that as long as they pay, they will be rewarded, and thinking that sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity.
After experiencing some things or living to a certain age, you will suddenly wake up. It turns out that the interaction between people is not like this. It turns out that life is not as simple as you think.
At this time, he will be reborn and begin to truly grow up.
When he becomes unwilling to speak or interact with others, it means that he has become mature and strong inside.Finally, I saw through the essence of interpersonal communication and finally understood the importance of living for myself.
Yang Jiang once said: The world belongs to oneself and has nothing to do with others.
If a person really doesn't care about the outside world's evaluation and doesn't have too high hopes for interpersonal relationships, it means that he has become different again.
He abandoned his past innocence and completely matured, which is fortunate.
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