What kind of person do you desire to be? Please think of yourself as that kind of person, and a miracle may happen.
There is a classic experiment in psychology: Rosenthal randomly selected 18 students in a school and said to the principal seriously, "They are all talents after evaluation." Half a year later, Rosen came to this school again and found that these 18 students have indeed made great progress. Later, these 18 students became outstanding talents in their positions.
This is the famous Pygmalion effect: The expectations of others often cause subtle changes to this person, in the direction of expectation.
, etc? Why is the effect discovered by Rosen named Pygmalion?
In the Ancient Greek mythology, there is a king with an introverted personality called Pygmalion. He carved himself a beautiful girl, like a real person, talking to her every day, like a wife. Later, the gods were moved by it and gave life to the statue. The girl who turned into a human became Pygmalion's wife.
When I saw these, I felt inexplicably familiar. Isn’t this a scene of Jin Yong in the Tianlong Ba Fo Wuyazi falling in love with the statue? But Wuyazi already has a wife, so the ending is sad.
get back to the point.
Pigmalion effect tells us: expects to create miracles.
People who think they can, people with a good sense of self-identity, often do a good job in handling things. On the contrary, some people think that they can’t do anything, but the result is that they can’t do anything.
I don’t know if you understand—who feels that you are lazy, poor, indifferent, selfish, and unfortunate. . .
These sound like chicken soup for the soul, but after people have expectations for themselves, they often go involuntarily to approach that direction, learn the knowledge and skills needed in that direction, and eventually they really slowly get closer to that direction.
But the premise is to take action. Some people keep complaining that this is not good and that is not good, and they can only become fantasies in the end.
or above. Please have expectations for yourself and others.
