When I was 40, I had severe depression and severe anxiety disorder and bipolar disorder again, mainly because of economic problems. At that time, due to the influence of the general environment, the two stores I participated in were closed at the end of 2019. Before the New Year, I invested hundreds of thousands of yuan to make a New Year's goods festival. I originally thought I could make a fortune, but I lost all my money and added more debts. The performance contract signed was not able to perform the post-payment, and the defendant went to court.
Because the transaction volume of both stores is from my account, my online loan amount is relatively high. For the purpose of store operation and investment activities, I borrowed hundreds of thousands of yuan on the online lending platform, emptied credit cards of more than 100,000 yuan, and private loans, plus unpaid merchant payments, and the wages of more than a dozen employees. At that time, I was sued for arbitration in Labor Bureau. It turned out that the online lending platform could still pay back and borrow it, but at that time, not only did the remaining amount be cancelled, but it would not be able to get out even if it was in. If it was not paid back, it would affect personal credit and become a black account. Whatever you do in the future will be restricted.
The two stores have areas of several thousand square meters, the smallest one is 3,000 square meters, with an annual rent of 400,000 yuan, and the other is more than 8,000 square meters. The property fee alone is more than the rent of the small store. There are still follow-up processing of tens of thousands of items in the store. The goods are blocked, and the merchant also calls to ask about the situation every day.
When everything piled up and broke out collectively, I completely collapsed. I have never been so desperate in 40 years. I can't solve any problem in front of me. How to go in the future, I can't see a glimmer of hope. Especially I always regret why I was obsessed with this cashmere industry.
Before, I worked in a coal supply unit. I seemed to have to go on business trips everywhere, but it was still easy in comparison. The company's leaders are also very good. The company can also reimburse the fees for treating guests for business trips, as well as business trip subsidies and business commissions. The boss also puts a order for me to maintain, and the people from the business unit take good care of me. Although I have to do business around, as long as I do my job well, I can arrange my other time freely, and I will not be rich or powerful, but I have a little savings and live a very comfortable life.
But I am not satisfied. I want more. Seeing that others have big houses to drive a good car, I also want more and more. I always feel unsatisfied with greed. I also think I am very capable, very smart, and have good eloquence. I always feel that I can do bigger things and make more money.
So, he quit his job and started a business, and worked with others to do cashmere business. The younger ones are not favored and think that making money is too slow, so if you want to do it, you have to make it bigger. In this way, I fell into the abyss of desire step by step, and the result of being greedy for money is to be heavily in debt, and the result of being greedy for fame is to be infamous.
I regret it! But at that time, what I had not recognized was my own mistakes. I put all the blame on others, thinking that it was my partner's decision-making mistakes, and thinking that it was the social environment that caused my financial damage. Blaming others and society means not looking for reasons in yourself. I was brought to a low point near the death line by the negative energy of shame and regret.
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In April 2020, I started to study "Perpony-Quantum Mechanics + Energy State Theory". My major depression has been completely healed. By learning the law of energy operation, I know why I was in debt before and how to attract wealth.
Money is also energy, serving people, and in the positive energy range. Energy has the principle of attracting energy at the same frequency, and the same frequency attracts energy at the same frequency. The energy in the negative energy range attracts negative energy, and the energy in the positive energy range attracts positive energy.
What I released before was the negative energy frequency of greed. As long as it is greed, the energy state of scarcity in my heart will definitely attract the result that makes me scarcity. I always want to get a good car from others. This is to get the heart, and what attracts me is also people and things that always want to get benefits from me.
This is the energy operation law that attracts the same frequency. What kind of heart is generated and what kind of energy frequency is released, it will attract people and things of the same frequency.
So, I was so hardworking before, but because my intention was greedy negative energy intention, I would not get a rich result. It truly verified that the sentence is that the direction is wrong, the effort is in vain, and the harder the harder the ending is, the more miserable it is. The more you are greedy, the less you are, the poorer you are, and the less you are.
So how to change it? It means turning into a heart that brings positive energy, hoping that others will benefit, hoping that others will be rich, and trying to provide value to others, bring benefits to others, and let positive energy flow, so that good energy, including money, can be attracted to my life.
So, I made up my mind to change my selfishness and just want my own intention, turn it into a desire to benefit others and make others good, start from little things in life, donate money on a public welfare platform, and help others as much as I can. Every day I am just a kind-hearted person, say good things, do good things, and do not ask for any reward in my heart.
After I did this for a while, things began to turn unexpectedly. At the end of April, a sister I met before called me and said that there was a 4A-level scenic spot in the local area and wanted to build a cashmere store. She recommended us to negotiate cooperation.
We adhere to the intention of benefiting others and win-win cooperation. Finally, we negotiated that they would provide the venue. We are responsible for decoration and operation, and share the profits with it. This is a very superior condition.
The merchant manufacturers we used to cooperate with are also willing to support us. They put the goods in the store, and after selling them, they will pay the payment the next day. This will solve the product problem and we have also recovered the payment in a timely manner.
has been with our store manager for several years before. When someone poached her with a high salary, she was still willing to continue working with us. She felt comfortable doing things with us. We also understood each other, and thought about each other from the other's perspective to get along with each other as our own relatives.
Now I meet customers coming to the store again. I no longer have the selfish and greedy intentions like before. I just want others to buy more and I can earn more money. Instead, I adhere to the principle of seeking truth from the customer's heart, serve the customer, and sincerely consider the problem from the customer's perspective. Even if the customer chooses, I will speak out in a realistic way for her to refer to and make the right choice.
tirelessly tells customers what to pay attention to when saving and maintenance and do a good job in after-sales service. Even if the product I bought here is not, we will help her repair it if there is a problem. We have been committed to serving others and have been recognized by more customers.
I remembered the most once, a man accompanied his colleague to the store to buy gifts for his family, but because Ordos cooled down, he just wanted to buy a pair of pants to keep the cold. At that time, he chose a pair of cashmere pants that cost more than 800 yuan. When he tried it on, his colleague said it was very good, and he thought it was okay. But when I saw that the style was a little tight, I found another looser model that costs more than 700 yuan and asked him to try it. He tried it and it was very suitable and it was more than 100 yuan cheaper, so he was very happy. Tell me directly, if you see what suits me, you can bring it. Later, I chose several clothes and coats. Before leaving, he told me that he wanted to buy a pair of pants to wear. It was my sincerity that touched him. He believed in me and hoped that I could get more commissions, so I bought so many.
This incident touched me a lot. Others can feel my sincerity. Only when they are sincere for others can they get the sincere trust of others. Only when they are sincere for others can they think about us sincerely. No sales skills can resist the power of sincerity.
The store I am running now is less than 1,000 square meters, which seems not as good as the previous sales of thousands of square meters, with a year of millions of sales. However, before, sales were high and the expenses were high. The photoelectric bills were several thousand yuan a month. The place was too big and the property heating fee was high. More than 60 employees were used during the peak season. There were always strange additional losses. After a year of hard work, you would lose hundreds of thousands.
seems to have become smaller now, but the quality of customers is very high. Usually, I can do more as long as I can. I no longer put on the boss posture and treat everyone sincerely. In fact, I only operated for half a year. By the end of the year, I actually made a profit. My previous debts are gradually decreasing, and economic lawsuits have been resolved. This year, there are new partners and new projects, and everything is moving in a better and better direction.
The energy operation law is true and true. Whatever our minds and energy frequency we release will bring about, we will gain what results. Through learning, I changed my heart and insisted on doing altruistic things. Not only did my severe depression be completely solved, but my previous debt situation also solved. Although there are still some parts that have not been completely solved, I believe that as I continue to persist in doing altruistic things, these problems can be completely solved.
Money is the energy in the positive energy range and is a tool for us to create a happy life. Human happiness comes from the value and meaning of life, and from our mission to find our own life. When we express our intention to benefit others and serve others, and truly benefit others in our work and life, and create value, and bring benefits to society and the world, money will naturally flow to us and serve us, and we will naturally gain a happy, healthy, happy and prosperous life.
I am very content with my current life because I am content and am very happy every day, full of energy, and do everything in the present easily and happily, bravely facing everything that will happen in the future. I believe that all difficulties are temporary, our country will definitely get better and better, each of us will get better and better, and the world will get better and better!
Once again, I wish all friends who have the same painful experience as me before can understand the law of energy operation. Change your heart can change your destiny. Destiny is created by yourself and destiny is created by your heart. Everyone can create their own happy, healthy, happy and rich life.
Original author Wang Qing from Happy Life College, September 24, 2022
