Author: Zhao Xiaoming Editor: Zhou Fang Cui Guanli
Xiaoming Quotations
Any country with a long history and civilization has its own wisdom to solve problems.
Therefore, do not easily sever the relationship with your own country, nation, culture, and family. Instead, you must resolve contradictions and conflicts and inherit the national culture.
continues the above: Why did the Japanese invaders of China use advanced training weapons but failed miserably in the end? I did one thing wrong
01 Will extreme happiness lead to sadness?
A real client who was troubled by marriage and family problems.
First marriage: Divorced five years ago. Before that, she took care of her family, children, and husband every day.
Suddenly one day, her husband had someone else outside and forced her to divorce. He also turned all the family's property into liabilities, so that she could not get anything.
This gave her a heavy blow, and she realized at that moment: life is so cruel.
Second marriage: The new husband treats her well, buys her a nice car, and tells her not to go out to work and just take care of the children at home.
She has always lamented that life gave her a failure, but rewarded her with a better one.
So what she said most is that life will always give you the best arrangements, and everything is the best arrangement.
Three years later, her husband's business suddenly collapsed. She wanted to do her best to continue her peaceful little life, but what she didn't expect was.
After her husband's business collapsed, he desperately wanted to turn around. He borrowed money from everywhere and borrowed a lot of loan sharks. He was accidentally deceived into a pyramid selling organization. As a result, he lost both his life and money and owed a lot of foreign debts.
The husband is very decadent, often drinks alcohol, goes out to find young ladies, gambles, and becomes addicted to drugs.
The third marriage: It was very similar to the previous two, but it ended in failure and hurt.
She always said during consultation: Why can't I always find a quiet and stable life? Does extreme happiness really give rise to sadness?
In fact, she doesn't understand that impermanence is normal.
Her life obviously has the compulsive repetition mentioned in psychoanalysis . Why is this? Is it true that extreme joy leads to sorrow? Is it wrong to covet pleasure and seek stability?
02 Who is the originator of "coveting for comfort"?
What is the national character of the Chinese people?
In the TV series " My Leader My Team ", there is a very clear point of view: China has a civilization rooted in thousands of years, and this is the farming civilization.
Because of its strong food production capacity, it took a long time to slowly develop other cultures. Because agricultural civilization has the ability to give birth to a large population, our country has always been a country with a large population.
The benefit of farming culture is a stable life, but it also has a weakness: it likes to be comfortable.
Any civilization with a long history also has its own burden of culture and civilization. This burden of culture and civilization also has a very big characteristic: inertia.
There is a classic line in "My Commander, My Regiment". The male protagonist said: All soldiers should commit suicide after fighting the Japanese and retreating again and again.
In order to cure the shortcomings of coveting enjoyment and comfort, the protagonist deliberately put a small group of Japanese soldiers into Tengchong City. He said that if there was no small group of Japanese soldiers in Tengchong City, we would enjoy a comfortable life in Tengchong City and enjoy it inside. With all the singing and dancing, everyone will forget that danger is just outside the door.
He said that the Chinese people are even willing to die for the sake of comfort. This is the most terrifying thing.
The characteristic of coveting comfort is the same in India, and in fact, it is also the same in China. Specific to everyone, it is easy to be hypnotized by the inertia of life, coveting comfort and enjoyment.
Some people may say: There is nothing wrong with pursuing a peaceful life. This sounds like there is nothing wrong with it.
As the Buddhists say, the essence of life is impermanence rather than order. When you pursue stability, life will give you a huge impermanence and wake you up.
Because the essence of life is impermanence and change, everyone should make advance preparations for the impermanence and changes of life.
Therefore, those who pursue stability and refuse to accept new things and changes will definitely be awakened by the impermanence of life: the desire for comfort is also part of the national character, and we must be vigilant and break it.
03 Is "cultural inertia" inherited? Separate?
During the critical period of national peril in the Anti-Japanese War, China composed the "March of the Volunteers" on February 2, 1935, with lyrics written by Tian Han and music composed by Nie Er. It was once used as the military anthem of the 200th Division of the National Revolutionary Army. Intense and inspiring.
calls on everyone to stand up and make a final cry. We have obtained national freedom and national independence through revolutionary struggle.
India declares its national beliefs through sit-ins, hunger strikes, non-violent sex.
The two methods are different. They both achieved the liberation of the nation and the independence and sovereignty of the country.
Any country with a long history and civilization has its own wisdom in solving problems. Therefore, we must not easily sever the relationship between ourselves and our own culture, and the relationship between ourselves and our own family. What we need to resolve is contradictions and conflicts, rather than severing the culture that we should inherit.
Therefore, do not easily sever the relationship with your own culture and family, but resolve contradictions and conflicts and inherit the culture of your own nation.
The novel " Bailuyuan " uses stories to explain this point thoroughly.
Bailuyuan is located in the southeast of Xi'an City, bounded by Xi'an and Chang'an to the west, Qinling Mountains and Zhongnan Mountain to the south, and Bahe River to the north. It is the southeastern barrier of the ancient city of Chang'an. It is named after the legend that when King Zhou Ping moved his capital to Luoyang, he saw a white deer roaming on the grassland.
The Banpo site under the west side of Bailuyuan is a matrilineal clan settlement site during the Yangshao Culture period between 5600 and 6700 years ago. Now there are many farmhouses and many ecological gardens.
Dizhai Town, a famous town on Bailuyuan, was Di Qing, a famous general of the Northern Song Dynasty, once camped here, so it was called Dizhai. Most of the villages around Dizhai Town are named after the surname of Di Qing's general, and they are still in use today.
Historically, it was rich in wheat , as well as corn and beans. It was known as the "Lantian Granary". Opium was once planted, and now there are cherries all over the ground.
Generations of Chinese people have lived in Bailuyuan. Historically, Bailuyuan has undergone great changes, and the ancient land has trembled in labor pains. However, the roots of the Chinese nation must be passed down through baptism.
Xiao Ming’s quotations:
Why can’t I always find a quiet and stable life? Does extreme happiness really give rise to sadness? In fact, impermanence is normal.
The essence of life is impermanence rather than order. When you pursue stability, life will give you a huge impermanence. The roots of the Chinese nation must be passed on in baptism.
Original public account: Heart Partner (ID: xhbeap)
