Reverse thinking: People who don't make much money have these small problems.
There is no big truth here, what those who know, believe and do, say, are more through reflection on the level of self-thinking.
First look at your daily life. Do you have these little confusions?
Why you are right, but the other party just doesn't listen to you at all?
Why did you do everything at home and did everything right, but still not satisfied with your family?
Why do you give wholeheartedly, everything is for the good of the other party, but the other party still doesn't understand you?
Why are you so knowledgeable and working so hard, but you still can't make any money?
Why every time you quarrel, the other party always feels that he is right, and always feels that what you do is wrong? Why?
Reflection makes people progress. [Humanity] determines that no matter how stupid a person is, he will not think it is his own mistake.
Old Master Confucius said: It's almost done, I haven't seen anyone who has seen him pass and self-sue.
roughly means: pull it down, I have never seen it before, who can take the initiative to recognize their own mistakes, and then self-blame and self-reflection.
Everyone has a lot of problems in themselves, but no one will ever reflect on themselves.
In modern society, you often see news like this on the Internet. Even if someone violates the law or commits a crime, they are still plausible, thinking that their reasons are correct and that the wrong reasons are caused by others.
To put it simply, most people are good at spotting the mistakes of others, and the lights are dark, but they neglect their own shortcomings and shortcomings.
For example: now you can try it, do a small experiment, summarize your own strengths, your own shortcomings, and then summarize the strengths and weaknesses of the most familiar person around you, write it on paper and compare it with you It will be clear.
The advantages of oneself are far greater than the disadvantages, and the number of disadvantages of others is far greater than the advantages.
The ancients said: the use of copper as a mirror can help you get dressed, history as a mirror can tell you the rise and fall, and people as a mirror can tell you the gains and losses.
Solving this problem is also very simple, you only need to see the reaction of others to you, and you will know where your problem is.
In other words, no matter you are dealing with anyone, the other person is your mirror. Looking at the other person's reaction, most of them reflect the true self.
is still the above small confusion as an example:
If the other party does not listen to you, they think that what you say is unreasonable, incorrect, has nothing to do with the other party, or is simply wrong, but you think you are right.
What exactly is "correct"?
How is this correctness defined?
Or who defines this "correctness"?
If you search the Internet, there are hundreds of millions of answers about "what is correct".
I am afraid that any kind of answer will be easily overturned, even if someone answers "science" is correct, it will not work, because science is a long process of being overturned and reset.
No one can really say exactly what is "correct".
Okay, some people say that you have pulled so many imaginary concepts, what does it have to do with whether I can make money?
You can say yes, of course you can say no.
If you want to make money, you must first abandon these distinctions in your inner thoughts.
Since there are no so-called right and wrong, at least you can't always think that you are the right party.
is not right or wrong. If you are facing a customer, everything the other person says may not be correct, but it is definitely not wrong.
What you get is an illusion, and what you lose is the truth.
Many people are completely upside down, and all the confusion, entanglement, and confusion originate from this.
The more you want to get, the faster you will lose it, just like the sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more you lose.
When you let go of right and wrong, gains and losses, right and wrong, these concepts, you will find out.
"No", "No", "Lost" are the prerequisites for you to get anything.
This is also what the ancients said: something is born out of nothing, and something is born out of nothing.
To make money and do business, you lose your own interests first, so that your customers get profit first;
quarrel first admit defeat, assume that you are wrong and the other party is the right party;
put down your illusory false highs, even if you are The high-achieving students in Qingbei are not as good as old farmers in growing crops, and doing business may not be as good as a junior high school student.
Although your educational background is countless levels higher than that of the other party, it does not affect the other party's ability to teach you some new knowledge.
If you have any problems or unpleasantness with the other party, you must first reflect on yourself, not the other party's problem, and return to find the cause from yourself.
A knowledgeable person tells you a story: a few years ago, he took the train and sat on the opposite side of a university professor. He talked all the way, knowing astronomy and geography, social ethics, business, ancient and modern, and knowing everything. , Everything is omnipotent, everyone is worshipped.
An old farmer next to him dozing off in a daze, never listening to the professor's remarks, not making trouble, not to mention envy and admiration.
Once the old farmer was sober, the professor decided to show the old farmer his knowledge all of a sudden, and took the initiative to greet the old farmer.
Hello, brother, let's make a bet and have fun, are you optimistic?
You can ask me a question, I can’t answer it, give you 100 yuan, I ask you a question, but you can’t answer it, just give me 5 yuan, you can ask anything, do you think it’s okay?
The old farmer looked at the professor coldly and nodded. You can ask first.
Professor: How far is the earth to the moon?
Farmer: I don’t know, but I gave the professor five yuan.
Farmer: What animal has four legs up the mountain and three legs down the mountain?
The professor scratched his head and was puzzled. He also secretly sent messages to ask friends for help. He was really helpless and had to pay 100 yuan to the old farmer who was going to sleep again.
Arriving at the station, the old farmer got off the car and carried the big bag and the small bag to go. The professor couldn't bear curiosity, and grabbed the old farmer to ask.
Brother,What kind of animal are you talking about?
The old farmer didn't return, he threw five yuan back to the professor, got out of the car, and left...
The professor directly petrified and was dumbfounded.
The more you lose, the more you gain.
This is the principle of making money. Everyone has different conditions and specific situations, but the general direction is the same.
What you think is not necessarily correct, and what others say is not necessarily wrong.
The ancients said: Therefore, has or not , it is difficult and easy to form each other, long and short form each other, high and low.
The so-called right and wrong are both complementary and mutually causal. They are both contradictory and highly unified, one is divided into two, and at the same time the two become one.
Many people have reversed and reversed, and that's the reason.
Many people regard making money as gain, but the trick to making money is to lose it. First, let yourself enter the state of "nothing".
There is no phase growth, what is born from nothing, and then there is nothing, small losses do not suffer big losses, small sufferings do not eat big sufferings.
First give up first, give up later, give up big, give up small, give up small, reluctant to give up.
To give up is to be active, but to be passive, whoever takes the initiative first wins!
Dare to take a step back first, dare to admit your mistakes first, dare to lose first, dare to make gains first, dare to only ask for hard work and not for gain...
Dare to let go of your separation first, so disgusting , Out of one's own interests, stand.
There is no me before there is me.
No matter what you do, no matter where you go, you can make money!
Whether anything is "correct", no need to say anything about it, just look at the [result] produced to you!
This "result", even if you think it is a good result, the other party may not think so as you do. Maybe it is a bad result from the other party's point of view, or even an extremely bad result for him.
and vice versa, people have the same heart, and things have the same principle.
When you think it is not a good result for yourself, it is precisely that the other party may get the best result!
The secret of making money is hidden in these ordinary things that are not easy for ordinary people to understand, in these confusing thinking in your brain.
Are you accustomed to letting yourself get good results first, or are you willing to let the other party get good results first?
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