Let me tell you a story first. A few-year-old child was terminally ill. The parents spent all their savings on treating the child. The parents also knew that no matter how much money they spent, they could not cure the child's disease, but they could keep the child alive for a while. In the end, the impoverished father knelt down on the rooftop because his beloved child had left him forever. He knelt down and hoped that the child would not resent him!
This story is very short, but it contains too many things. The love of parents is higher than mountains and deeper than the sea! They clearly know that their children will die of illness sooner or later, but they still spend all their money to prolong their children's lives without hesitation, because they want their children to breathe more air in the world, see more of the blue sky, and spend more time with their parents!
If the roles were reversed and a father was lying in a hospital bed with an incurable disease, would his children go bankrupt to extend his father's life for a period of time? This is a question worth pondering!
Real incident 1;
I once encountered such a thing when my mother was hospitalized for examination. A seriously ill old man was also undergoing MRI, and his children were accompanying him in the hospital!
After the old man entered the examination room, the two people discussed how to pay for the treatment!
The man said, "My second brother has been away from home all day. We are taking care of my father this time when he is hospitalized. He should be allowed to contribute more money. Who is still short of thirty thousand yuan now?"
The man said again, "I don't have any money. My family has been in great difficulty recently, and all my money has been tied up!" The woman was silent at this time!
The story ends here, because I left the testing room with my mother! But we can completely imagine that the man first said, "Who still needs those thirty thousand yuan?" But then it reversed too quickly. When the second brother was asked to contribute money, everyone in the family had money. When it was his turn to contribute money, he forgot his boastful words! Humanity is most vividly displayed at this moment!
Real events (2)
Some time ago, a man in his 60s died of cancer in the hospital ward, and his family used this to blackmail the hospital and ask the hospital to compensate. But how could the hospital compensate? The deceased old man was seriously ill. When he died, he was all skin and bones. He could not eat for a long time, and he was hanging on with nutritional water!
At this time, the old man's relatives refused to take the old man home from the hospital. Many people made trouble in the hospital. This was purely a "medical trouble". Finally, a few days later, the police intervened in the investigation. It was obvious that the hospital had no problems during the treatment!
If we describe this story in one sentence, it would be "a gentleman loves money and gets it in the right way"! The old man has been in the hospital for a long time. It can be said that the period before the old man's death was the most painful time for the old man. Now that the old man is gone, the family still uses the old man's body as a blackmail bargaining chip. Can the old man rest in peace?
Real events (3)
At about 6 o'clock in the morning that day, a group of people pushed a dead old man out. His face was covered with white cloth, and his feet were wearing embroidered shoes. I saw that his feet were tied together. In this scene, I am very sure that this old man is dead!
What I see on the faces of this group of people is not sadness or crying. What I see is relief. Maybe the death of the old man gave them a feeling of relief!
Then I heard their conversation, which was more like assigning tasks, who would go to the crematorium, who would prepare at home, who would notify relatives, and who would book a hotel!
At that time, I had a confused feeling, as if the deceased was not a family member.What kind of family can be so calm and calm after the death of a loved one?
I always believe that in this world, there is good and there is evil, just like day and night! But after working in a hospital for more than a year, I have seen more "evil" than "good", so I say that the best place to see human nature is in the hospital!
