So Hou Baolin immediately poured all a bottle of white wine worth 5,000 yuan on the table, then took out a lighter and fired it and lit the table. Shi Shengjie knelt on the ground with a "popping" and shouted quickly: "Master, I was wrong, I know I was wrong."

One year, teacher Shengjie followed his master Hou Baolin to perform.

Hou Baolin smelled of alcohol on Shi Shengjie.

So, Hou Baolin immediately poured all the bottle of white wine worth 5,000 yuan on the table,

then took out the lighter and fired it and lit the table.

In an instant, the house was filled with fire and smoke.

Shi Shengjie knelt on the ground with a "popping" and shouted: "Master, I was wrong, I knew I was wrong."

Hou Baolin: "What's wrong?"

Shi Shengjie: "I shouldn't drink before the performance, I shouldn't drink at work. I will never dare to drink again in the future."

cross talk circles know that Shi Shengjie is "loving alcohol like life".

and he didn't know that this hobby really "takes" his life.

Shi Shengjie's wife Song Yan advised him to quit drinking many times, but it was fruitless.

Until 2018, Shi Shengjie was diagnosed with advanced cancer .

Song Yan cried bitterly in the doctor's office: "It's all my fault, it's all my fault. I should have advised him to quit drinking, it's all my fault."

Shi Shengjie Song Yan's granddaughter

In fact, Shi Shengjie's obsession with alcohol is related to some unknown experiences in his early years.

This past is also a permanent pain for Shi Shengjie.

When he wanted to quit drinking, it was too late.

Shi Shengjie's cancer has entered the advanced stage, and it will not be of much use whether it is treated or not.

Shi Shengjie and his wife Jiang Kun and his wife

In September of the same year, Shi Shengjie died of illness.

The widow Song Yan was crying all day long.

Now, it has been 4 years since Shi Shengjie passed away.

His only daughter lives abroad all year round.

Song Yan stayed alone in her hometown in Harbin.

She will share her daily life on the website from time to time, and the content is thought-provoking.

makes people wonder, how was Song Yan's life in the days without Shi Shengjie? Is she out of the pain now?

Shi Shengjie Song Yan

01

Shi Shengjie is addicted to drinking because of a dark early experience.

His father Shi Shiyuan was born in a scholarly family and is also a famous crosstalk actor.

Mother also works in art.

Influenced by his parents, Shi Shengjie has performed on stage since he was a child.

If nothing unexpected happens, he will become a crosstalk actor like his father in the future.

However, the accident still came.

Shi Shengjie and Jiang Kun and his wife

1968, Shi Shiyuan proved his innocence by his death.

The mother also fell ill because of this.

Shen Shengjie was also influenced by his parents.

Taste highly strong liquor for 9 hours a day.

This causes irreversible damage to the young Shi Shengjie's body.

Song Yan Shi Shengjie Miao Fu Wang Sheng

also made him strongly depend on alcohol .

From then on, Shi Shengjie never left drinking almost every day.

It was not until the age of 22 that Shi Shengjie saw the light again.

That year he was transferred to work at the Heilongjiang Quyi Troupe.

He and Jiang Kun met here.

Since then, Shi Shengjie and Jiang Kun have started a decades-long cooperation.

Jiang Kun Shi Shengjie

Also during this period, Shi Shengjie met Song Yan.

Song Yan is 5 years younger than Shi Shengjie.

When we first met, Shi Shengjie developed a love for Song Yan.

But he was just a penniless poor boy at that time.

, Song Yan's family is from a wealthy place and has been the jewel in her parents' hands since she was a child.

naturally disagrees with his daughter and Shi Shengjie to be together.

But Song Yan was determined to recognize her master Shengjie in this life.

also cut a strand of hair with scissors and handed it to his parents, leaving a sentence: "I will not marry if I am not Shi Shengjie in this life!"

The daughter is firm in her attitude, and her parents are not good at saying anything else.

I only hope that my daughter can be really happy when she marrys Shi Shengjie.

1981 In the midsummer of 1981, Shi Shengjie and Song Yan got married in Harbin.

Although it is marriage, there is no wedding dress or banquet.

just get a certificate, and the couple had a simple meal, but they didn't even have a wedding room.

Couple working in the office during the day.

At night, I put the table together as a bed.

At six o'clock in the morning, you will get up and restore the tables and chairs to their original state.

Two years later, Song Yan gave birth to her daughter Shi Meng.

At this time, the unit gave them a small bungalow of more than ten square meters.

The kitchen and bedroom are in one room.

pots and pans are placed together.

A family of three is crowded together.

You will encounter various kitchen ornaments as soon as you walk.

Wang Sheng Shi Shengjie Miao Fu

02

1984, Shi Shengjie performed the sketch "Liver and Loyal".

and this year he became a disciple of Hou Baolin.

became Hou Baolin's closed disciple.

Shi Shengjie Hou Baolin

A year later, Shi Shengjie was named "one of the top ten comedians".

In 2011, his daughter Shi Meng got married abroad.

Shi Meng's work and life are all overseas and he rarely has time to go home.

Most of the time, there are only two people in the family, Shi Shengjie and Song Yan.

Shi Shengjie Shi Meng

Song Yan has a headache about Shi Shengjie's hobby of drinking and living.

I was not worried when I was young.

After getting older, friends around me often go to the hospital because of drinking high blood pressure .

Song Yan was also scared when she looked at it.

So she was about to persuade Shi Shengjie to quit drinking.

But he has been drinking it for a lifetime, how can he just say quit.

Shi Shengjie likes to drink two sips at home if he has something to do.

is even happier when there is social engagement and can drink it with friends without restraint.

Song Yan gave him an example of a friend who was hospitalized for drinking.

At home, Shi Shengjie would nod and promise his wife to drink less.

But when his wife was away, he secretly took out the wine to drink.

Shi Shengjie's friends would also advise Song Yan: "Sister-in-law, which man doesn't drink alcohol? Besides, the teacher has no other hobbies. Don't just like drinking some alcohol? Don't worry about it."

really couldn't persuade him, so Song Yan turned a blind eye.

After 2013, she no longer advised her husband to quit drinking.

At that time, Shi Shengjie had not felt discomfort.

So he doesn't think drinking will bring harm to himself.

even treats drinking a little wine every day as "healthy for the body".

But Shi Shengjie didn't know that these habits were subtly eroding his life.

Since 2017, Shi Shengjie has gradually developed physical discomfort.

from time to time low fever , which is also accompanied by nausea and back pain.

At first he thought he was old and didn't care much.

Every time I take some cold medicine and it passes.

But later the frequency of low fever increased, so

Song Yan took Shi Shengjie to the hospital for examination.

Results The doctor confirmed that Shengjie had advanced pancreatic cancer. The moment she got the result, Song Yan cried so hard that she couldn't straighten her waist in the doctor's office.

Doctor

: "This has a lot to do with the patient smoking and drinking for a long time."

: Song Yan cried and said to the doctor, "It's all my fault. I should have tried to persuade him to quit drinking, it's all my fault."

: The doctor didn't know how to comfort her, so he could only rationally analyze several treatment methods for her.

But Song Yan's mind was in chaos at that time and had lost her mind.

She felt that the sky was about to collapse.

In this state, she cannot make any decision,

Song Yan is very helpless, but her daughter and son-in-law are living abroad.

had no choice but to call Shi Shengjie's apprentice.

Not long after, Zhou Wei and Liu Tong rushed over to comfort Song Yan.

and took the master and his wife to Shanghai for treatment.

In fact, there is no point in doing surgery at this time, and life can only be extended through chemotherapy.

The chemotherapy process was very uncomfortable, and

Soon Shi Shengjie's eyebrows and hair had fallen out.

Shi Shengjie felt unbearable pain every time he finished chemotherapy, and his lips were bleeding.

Song Yan looked at Shi Shengjie who was so thin that she felt like a knife was shattered.

She dared not shed tears in front of her husband,

could only come to the garden downstairs of the hospital to cry loudly.

After crying, she smiled and said to her husband, "The doctor said you will recover soon, and we will be able to go back to Harbin in a few days."

Shi Shengjie knew his condition, but he cooperated with Song Yan to act: "Yes, I also feel that I am getting better day by day, and I will be able to perform after being discharged from the hospital."

The couple were lying kindly to each other and cheering each other up.

03

2018 Spring Festival is the most unforgettable Spring Festival for Song Yan.

There are thousands of houses outside and the fireworks are brilliant.

The whole city is decorated with lights and laughter is everywhere in the streets and alleys.

However, there were only two people in Shi Shengjie's ward.

That year, Song Yan went out to buy two bowls of wontons.

Li Jing Song Yan Miao Fu

Shi Shengjie has a bad appetite, so he can only drink some wonton soup .

They are not in the mood to watch the Spring Festival Gala, nor are they in the mood to make dumplings.

Song Yan sat by the window, looking out the window, and looking at her husband.

When it was late at night, Song Yan pulled open the curtains and wanted to see the moonlight.

Moonlight hits the table.

Shi Shengjie is already asleep at this time.

Song Yan swallowed a few cold wontons with the moonlight.

bowl mixed with wonton soup and Song Yan's tears.

2018, Song Yan will never forget her forever.

After the Spring Festival, Shi Meng returned to China to visit her parents.

Shi Meng proposed to take his father abroad for treatment.

But Song Yan feels that her daughter also has her own family and her own job, and she is unwilling to waste her daughter's time.

A week later, Shi Meng flew overseas.

On April 5, 2018, Song Yan accompanied her husband to celebrate her 66th birthday,

This is also Shi Shengjie's last birthday.

After your birthday, Shi Shengjie's cancer cells have spread throughout the body.

means that his life begins to enter the countdown.

Shi Shengjie often fell into a coma and it was difficult to get up again. When he was dying, he proposed to go back to his hometown of Harbin.

Song Yan took her husband home.

On the evening of September 28, Shi Shengjie passed away in Harbin.

Before he passed away, he said to Song Yan: "You must be strong after I leave."

Learning about Shi Shengjie's death, Jiang Kun didn't eat or drink at home for a whole day.

At the funeral, the apprentice kneeled down in the mourning hall.

Shi Meng held his father's portrait and fell to the ground several times with his legs weak. Finally, he walked the entire journey with the help of his relatives and friends.

Song Yan in the mourning hall seemed to have lost her spirit.

After the funeral, Shi Meng stayed with her mother at home for more than ten days.

Before going abroad, Shi Meng suggested that he wanted to take his mother to live abroad.

At that time, Song Yan was crying all day long, and she had symptoms of mental confusion from time to time.

The daughter is worried that her mother will be in danger at home alone.

took his mother to fly abroad.

However, Song Yan only lived abroad for one month.

A month later, she said to her daughter: "I want to go back to Harbin, I'm afraid your dad won't find me when he comes home."

shi Meng disagreed and said that he should let his mother live with him no matter what.

But Song Yan said: "I really don't have the heart to stay here. I can't let go of your dad. When I return to Harbin, I can still get closer to him."

After returning to Harbin, Song Yan updated her daily life from time to time.

She placed all the things Shi Shengjie used during his lifetime in his original position.

She is reluctant to wash her husband's clothes, so that she can still retain some of his breath.

Song Yan often dreams that her husband comes back to see her.

She repeatedly dreamed that Shi Shengjie leaned into the window and called her name.

But every time I wake up, it’s pitch black outside the window and nothing is there.

Every time she dreams, she wakes up crying.

Later, Song Yan cut off the photo of her and her husband and put it in her pocket watch.

pocket watch was hung on her chest, as if the beloved had never left.

Every September 28, Song Yan will make a table of dishes her husband loves.

will also go to the grave with his apprentice to talk to her husband.

Song Yan spends most of her time at home in Harbin, looking at the relics left by her husband and her husband's portrait.

Sometimes she would travel alone, going to places for her husband where he wanted to go before he died but didn't have time to go.

September 28th is the eternal pain in Song Yan's heart.

Until now, she couldn't believe that her husband had left.

Many times Song Yan thought her husband was still there, and

also mistakenly thought passersby as Shi Shengjie several times.

But when you see the truth clearly, your inner loss will not be calmed down for a long time.

2021 is the third year after Shi Shengjie left.

Song Yan posted a long article on her parents to commemorate her husband

not only Song Yan could not accept the fact that Shi Shengjie left.

friend Jiang Kun is unwilling to accept it either.

During Shi Shengjie's hospitalization, Jiang Kun did not dare to answer the phone, for fear of bad news coming.

Jiang Kun dreamed many times that he and Shi Shengjie were talking crosstalk on the same stage.

It’s a pity that Jiang Kun said the previous sentence, but Shi Shengjie never took the next sentence.

After Shi Shengjie passed away, Jiang Kun wrote an article to mourn Shi Shengjie:

How many times have you woken up from crying in your dreams, and how many times have you lit the lantern of praying for you.

How many times do you think that the news of your illness is a misinformation? How many times do you imagine that you and I can partner again to say crosstalk to the audience.

During this period, I am always afraid of answering calls about you.

doesn’t know whether the message is good or bad.

But the news still came,

Shi Shengjie completed his short life at the age of 65.

Tears burst out from my eyes, and

feels extremely sad.

According to the seniority of the crosstalk world, you are the elder

, but I would rather regard you as a brother who is as close as a brother

Beidahuang .

How painful is my heart at this time?

People who engage in language arts,

don’t have the right language to describe it.

Fifty years of friendship,

The heavy winds and snow and black soil in the Great Northern Wilderness can be witnessed!

You still have your crisp and sweet voice in your ears, and

You still have your elegant and elegant Typhoon in front of you.

You are my first partner on the crosstalk stage,

I remembered the first time we talked about "Lin Hai Red Eagle".

Fifty years of friendship,

We take care of each other,

50 years of artistic journey,

We walk hand in hand.

Now, you are leaving,

is leaving so hurry,

hasn't finished speaking crosstalk yet, why are

busy bowing?

I don’t want to say goodbye to you,

, but reality is cruel,

is cruel to me, I said the previous sentence,

but you didn’t respond to the next sentence.

I don’t want to say I’ll see you off,

But the ward you have lived in is already empty...

Saying for Shengjie,

I’ve already burst into tears.

I know you love drinking,

Then I will have three glasses of bar,

with the alcohol,

I complain to God:

rob me of my friends and ruin my crosstalk!

You are too unfair!

Why is it so cruel?

makes a person who brings countless laughter to people,

travel far away too early in the cry of farewell with his relatives? !

Good people should have a safe life, and

should not let him end the curtain so early and declare the end of the show!

sees Shengjie off, and

crosstalk world cries red eyes.

Everyone knows how much you love crosstalk.

You come for crosstalk,

You value crosstalk more than life!

A long gown, a paper fan,

A wake-up sound, full of sounds in the long river of time.

You have spent your whole life working hard for the crosstalk career,

You have used all your efforts to pass on the inheritance of Master Hou Baolin's father and the torch of Master Hou Baolin.

pays no amount of compensation, and takes on the burden of the director of the China Crosstalk Professional Committee, but

does not know that all evil cancer cells are quietly entering your body and camping.

Say Shengjie off,

This second glass of wine is sprinkled in front of your spirit, allowing you to smell the strong aroma of this pure grain wine.

This is the familiar smell,

This burning liquid

has soothe your lonely heart many times.

The pain is scabbed in the slightly drunkenness,

Missing the dream in the fragrance of wine,

Missing the wronged father,

Missing the figure of his mother leaning against the door.

I wanted to give you some advice,

, but the dead are the most important,

, if you like to drink, you can drink it,

, there will be no one in heaven to restrict you from drinking, and you can do the trick.

The audience also came to toast you,

because you are their favorite famous comedian.

They like the "Good Mayor" and "Legend of Little Shoemaker" you mentioned,

They like the "Adventure of the Worker" you mentioned, humorous and relaxed.

You sing Northeast folk song is very similar to Guo Song ,

Your " Xue Jing Opera " shows the legacy of Baipai .

Every joke has your hard work and creations, and every "burden" of

is the crystallization of your wisdom and humor.

You are gone,

China's crosstalk stage has since lost one general, and

crosstalk team has lost a brotherly brother.

The mountains and rivers are speechless, the plants and trees shed tears,

The long Songhua River also seemed to condense into frozen in an instant...

Say Shengjie off,

pour this third glass of wine for you, and I also want to tell you our voices.

The people need joy, crosstalk needs development, and

The tree of folk art must be evergreen all year round.

The road we have to walk is very long, and

The burden on our shoulders is very heavy.

Don’t worry, we will help take care of our wife and daughter, and

Your apprentices will never insult the reputation of their mentors.

We will continue to flourish the style you leave on the stage,

You love crosstalk, we will regard you as life as you do.

treats the audience as parents for food and clothing, and

is always loyal to art!

is for Shengjie to see him off,

should use laughter and not cry.

crosstalk actors bring laughter when they are alive, and when they leave, they don’t let down people’s hearts.

Shengjie, you will not be lonely in heaven,

has your master, Yaowen and Maji senior brother.

misses you, let’s take a look at your video and

listen to your crosstalk.

You can walk well, walk well,

In the next life, we will also be good comrades-in-arms, good brothers!

I will not forget you, and I hope you will not forget me,

Rest in peace, Shengjie!

My heart, our heart, travel with you...

Jiang Kun Song Yan

Shi Meng also dreamed of his father many times.

She also brought her daughter back to worship her grandfather.

Shi Shengjie was the first Chinese to bring crosstalk abroad.

His contribution to crosstalk and his contribution to the opera world cannot be underestimated.

Shi Shengjie's artistic ethics has influenced many younger generations.

His style will also be passed down from generation to generation by his disciples.

Now, it has been 4 years since Teacher Shi Shengjie passed away.

Although Song Yan is often in a trance, she often thinks her husband is still there, and she often crys alone at night.

But she is still very strong, traveling for her husband and taking care of her daughter and granddaughter.

Life seems to be normal, but no one can erase her inner pain.

Shang Jinglan There is a poem that may be used to describe Song Yan's feelings for Shi Shengjie:

"You have lived through the ages, but I still love you for a lifetime."