China has been an inclusive and hospitable country since ancient times, and has always welcomed visitors from all over the world with an open and enthusiastic attitude. Since the reform and opening up, we have also opened our doors to the world and welcome everyone to our ancient oriental country.
Since entering the new century, trade exchanges between my country and Africa have strengthened, and more and more black friends have come to China to study and work. However, there are also many people who are just fools, especially after some security cases related to black people. Some Chinese people's perception of black people has begun to deteriorate, and they have more or less prejudices against black people. Recently, these views with colored glasses have caused a lot of trouble to a female Internet celebrity.
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XX Yan is a blogger on Xiao’s book. According to her registration information, she is a financial woman living in Beijing. With nearly 5,000 fans, she is not a well-known Internet celebrity, but a few blog posts she posted around June 20 suddenly pushed her to the forefront.
The reason is that she described the entire process of registering and obtaining a certificate in Beijing with her foreign boyfriend in these blog posts. In her words, it is a guide to obtaining a certificate with foreigners in Beijing. In addition, she also posted wedding photos of herself and her boyfriend. Netizens discovered that her boyfriend was a black man, and the trend in the comment area below her article began to change.
According to XX Yan, her boyfriend is British and they have been in love for more than 2 years. They have a good relationship and have gone through a lot of tests, so they took advantage of the good day of June 18 to register and receive the certificate.
She said that her boyfriend has a good family background and has several apartments in London. The wedding will be held in China and the UK respectively. She also said that she didn't value her boyfriend's money, she just thought he was very nice. She also said that many people on the Internet now have stereotypes about black people and are very hostile.
She originally wanted to explain why she married a black man, but now she received more messages. Many people thought that this blogger was deceived by a black man, so they asked her boyfriend if he had been to his home in the UK to confirm that it was true. If it was confirmed, of course it would be the best. If not, be sure to be vigilant. Beware of marriage fraud, after all, there have been several cases of black men cheating on marriages with Chinese girls.
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Some netizens abroad reminded her that according to their own experience, black people from Africa and black people living in Europe and the United States still look different, and the boyfriend selected by XX Yan looked like he was from As someone from Africa, her financial strength should not be very good, and if she is really a black person living in the UK, a family with three properties will attach great importance to education, and the temperament of her child will be very good, but judging from her boyfriend Not coming out.
Moreover, the housing prices in London are very high. The value of three apartments is close to 20 million. If you have such a net worth, it is understandable to invest in and open a company in Beijing. Why would you work in Beijing?
In response to these questioning voices, XX Yan posted another blog post a few days later, explaining the whole process of being together with her boyfriend. She said that the article she posted before was not rigorous and she took time out from work. She just said it casually. She did not expect that netizens would comment on it word by word. The houses in London mentioned by
belong to the boyfriend's parents, so that when they move to London in the future, they can live directly without renting a house. However, they have not yet decided whether they will live in London.
She also said that her boyfriend was very diligent and considerate. He did all the housework at home, and when she broke her ankle, he took care of her for several weeks without any complaints. Some people say that their boyfriend is a freeloader, but in fact his salary is much more than theirs.It is said that black people are generally flirtatious, but a boyfriend can face other girls' hookups many times without being tempted. How can such a man be unreliable?
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XX Yan also retorted that some netizens left messages saying that she was materialistic and had been emphasizing her boyfriend's house in London. She said that she was wronged because she never mentioned these material conditions at the beginning. It was someone who kept saying that she was cheating and questioning her. She had no choice but to reply to the question of whether her boyfriend had given her a bride price. However, after replying, netizens began to criticize her material again. would be criticized for anything she said. In fact, she was still discriminating against black people from the bottom of her heart.
Some people chose to believe XX Yan’s explanation, but still told her to keep her eyes open and not to be fooled. Some people felt that she had been explaining but did not face the doubts of netizens head-on. Everyone was concerned about the man’s career, education, and family. There was no response to the situation and whether he had gone to the UK to see the property in person. Instead, he just said that netizens were discriminatory, which seemed to be evasive.
In fact, the purpose of most netizens is to hope that XX Yan will not be cheated by her boyfriend. The starting point is good, but some of the words are a bit harsh. For XX Yan’s transnational marriage, of course we are holding a blessing mentality for such a thing to happen. It's really not easy to fall in love thousands of miles apart. I hope they can go well and live a happy life in the future!
