In today's society, online social networking has become an indispensable part of life.
For many people, posting on Moments is as much a part of ordinary life as reading a book, growing flowers, or cooking. However, some people feel that Moments has changed, with all kinds of showing off, showing off, and showing off. This is also one of the reasons why was rolled into , so they disdain posting on Moments...
In fact, no matter what, from WeChat The status of the circle of friends can still roughly judge a person's personality characteristics, and can also have a general understanding of a person. Let me just mention a few points:
(1) Posting food: You can check it through the circles of friends he posts. Looking at what he eats every day, you can see that this person likes to eat sweet and spicy food. If you like sweets, maybe it's because he has a friendly personality and is easy to get along with. If he likes spicy food, then this person may have a bit of a hot temper. Of course, these are not 100% accurate, but based on their other published content, you can tell something.
(2) Feeling: If some of the posts this person makes in Moments are angry, abusive or harsh, it seems like the whole world has offended her. Then he must be a person with a hot temper, who is not very friendly and polite to others. If this person publishes something about "I am in a good mood today" and spreads positive energy every day, it means that this person has a relatively positive outlook on life, and does not take pleasure in things or feel sad about himself.
(3) Posting selfies: A person’s degree of narcissism can be roughly judged by the frequency of selfies in the circle of friends. If photos of photoshopped photos are often posted, it means that the person is hopelessly beautiful.
(4) "Chicken Soup Articles": Most people who like to repost these articles have some life experience and have a certain understanding of life. Only then will they resonate with "Chicken Soup Articles" and have feelings, so they will share them. Their hearts are mostly full of positive energy, and they usually like to use "chicken soup articles" to guide others. They may be a little wordy and like to preach.
(5) Only post things related to work content: This kind of person may be a workaholic and uses social tools as a platform for work development. Generally, they are relatively weak in emotions and will use the resources available around them to complete their work. What's even more frightening is that when choosing your partner, you will also consider whether there is any use value.
Moments is like a personal business card. What kind of content you post will shape your personality. Therefore, posting to Moments is also a technical job, and you really can’t just post anything to Moments. Normal people are busy with work and career, and will not post to N Moments a day (except for micro-business). People who often post in Moments must be very eager to get attention in life. They tend to be impulsive, emotionally unstable and impatient. Of course, some posts in Moments now are not just about sharing, but many of them are things or states that the author wants everyone to see. Some people even post in Moments that are always fake and do not show the life status that they value most. Then this person may have a little low self-esteem or be relatively withdrawn.
Especially middle-aged people, they need to be more careful when posting on WeChat Moments, because if you post casually, you will easily be disliked, jealous, or cared about by people with ulterior motives. Many people want to share the good things with others. Life, in fact, is your own life and has nothing to do with others. There are not as many people as you think who wish you well.
In addition, the circle of friends shows one's inner cultivation to a certain extent, so the circle of friends can easily reveal a person's level:
(1) Cultural level
Usually our circle of friends will be a combination of pictures and text, or It is a perception of life, either a presentation of life or a praise of life. In short, the author wants to convey some positive or negative information through his own expression.
Through the expression of these words, we can easily gain insight into a person's cultural quality and cultural level. Some people utter lotus flowers and write beautiful articles in one breath, while some people write thousands of words without knowing what they say. Others speak only a few words and are superficial and boring.Through the text in the circle of friends, we can basically judge the cultural level of the person, especially if it is easy to distinguish between those who have received higher education and those who have not. At the very least, it can determine a person's language level and expression ability.
(2) Level of Life
Moments is like a showcase of personal life. Information about life is revealed to the outside world from time to time and also reveals a person’s level of life.
Some people like to post their lives, some people like to post their children, some people like to post their delicacies, some people like to post their travels, some people like to post their work, and some People post everything, but most people like to show off their beautiful side, so it even gives people the misunderstanding that the lives of others in their circle of friends are very exquisite, but their own life is a mess. In fact, the life in the circle of friends is the life that others want to show, and what you see is often what the other person wants to see for you. But in the final analysis, once or twice may be a post. If similar content is presented year after year, it is the normal state of a person's life.
(3) Social level
What is your social level? You can get a rough idea of it through your circle of friends. Even with the veil of the Internet, your true self can still be seen from your circle of friends.
Although the circle of friends is your private domain, it is also a kind of social interaction. Mrs. Thatcher said: "Your thoughts determine your language, your words determine your actions, your actions determine your habits, your habits determine your character, and your character determines your destiny."
It's you Your thoughts determine your language, so every message you send to your circle of friends will make people around you have a certain impression of you, and it will also invisibly expose your level.
The information in the circle of friends reflects a person's outlook and character. A person's circle of friends reflects not only the scope of friendships, but also a person's level of self-cultivation and social structure.
When we open a person's circle of friends, if what we gain is knowledge, beauty, and positive energy, then the person in our life should also be active and diligent.
In the same way, if a person's circle of friends is always full of dissatisfaction with life, there is no doubt that this person is also picky and mean in life, and his circle is also full of similar people.
Of course, really high-level people may never show off or complain in the circle of friends. They are busy doing more important things and have no time to hang out in the virtual circle of friends.
If you just want to record your life, you can block everyone. If you want to share, you have to learn to protect yourself, respect others, and maintain a sense of proportion.
Whether it is used to vent, to show life, or to express ourselves, the circle of friends needs us to maintain it carefully. Once the message is sent, it will never be taken back~
