Not long ago, a blogger named "Feng Xiaoyi" went viral for some reason.
He has no talents. He only relied on selling cute and pretending to be ugly in the video, and deliberately mothering himself, he got hundreds of thousands of fans.
Needless to say, the reason is naturally to gain attention.
This incident immediately attracted the attention and criticism of many people. It didn't take long for this farce to end with a title.
Although he was banned, the discussion about him did not end.
Everyone talked about the normal state of society from "boys acting as mothers", and finally they talked about male kindergarten teachers.
In the comments, he compared the male kindergarten teacher and Feng Xiaoyi together, and said that he is as disgusting as the male kindergarten teacher, and his speech is full of disharmony and prejudice.
Although the appearance of this kind of remarks makes me very annoyed, but I feel even more helpless that the prejudice against male kindergarten teachers in real life does not stop there.
In fact, kindergarten teachers are already full of prejudice in the society. "It's just a profession with children" has become the most people's view of kindergarten teachers.
And male kindergarten teachers who belong to the minority in the kindergarten teacher group are more discriminated against, and people often look down on them.
The labels of "doing a woman's work" and "promising" have never been taken off from them.
In the eyes of many people, the kindergarten teacher industry should have nothing to do with boys. As long as you meet a male kindergarten teacher, you will directly equate him with the "mother".
The career of male kindergarten teachers has never gone smoothly. Is such a strange vision really fair to them?
Why do so many people dislike boys as kindergarten teachers?
In 2019, the Ministry of Education once counted in the National Full-time Teachers of Preschool Education, that the proportion of female kindergarten teachers is as high as 97.79%, while the proportion of male kindergarten teachers is less than 3%.
In preschool education,There are very few male figures.
In the movie "The Hunt", the protagonist is a male teacher who works in a nursery school. He is friendly and kind-hearted.
But because a little girl in the class made him bear the charge of malpractice.
His life was in great trouble, but no one believed his excuse.
He changed from a good gentleman to a person who was cast aside by the public. The culprit was a little girl, but it was the public's prejudice against male teachers that gave him the fatal blow.
It seems that people always look at male kindergarten teachers and even male teachers with colored glasses.
Because in the eyes of many people, the view of men is very masculine.
is like a tough guy in a TV series and is deeply loved by everyone.
And men's work naturally has to be full of masculinity in order to conform to the image of men.
However, the profession of kindergarten teacher is just the opposite of what people think. Male kindergarten teachers exaggerate their movements and tone ups and downs in front of their children.
Many people think that if these actions and tone are changed to women, it is okay. If it is a boy, it is hard not to make people think whether he is really such a person.
So no matter how the male kindergarten teacher group defends themselves, there will always be people who cannot change their stereotypes.
In fact, the profession of kindergarten teachers is very special because the group they face is 3 to 6-year-old children. The characteristic of this group of
is that they are not fully developed, and they are just "semi-finished products" no matter what they are.
What children need most in class is concentration, but if they are in a serious environment, they can only insist on ten minutes of concentration and will not become shorter.
So at this time, the role of the teacher is very important.
Facing children, if you want them to listen carefully throughout the class, the teacher needs to use exaggerated body movements and ups and downs to attract the children's attention.
So,The exaggerated behaviors of male kindergarten teachers in class are not their own habits, but are due to professional needs.
Although adults look awkward, they have to do it because children need it.
In fact, a male teacher is indispensable
Some people say, "Since acting as a mother is not the intention of a male kindergarten teacher, then just change a job."
In fact, if it is like what he said It's as simple as that.
Many people take "eat a peach" as a joke. They only see the appearance, but they never thought about why there are so many "pseudo mothers".
There were sweets in the past, but now there is another "Peach Peach", and there are also various boy groups. They are obviously men, and they have to sell cute costumes to attract attention.
The reason for this still lies in school education, especially early childhood education.
As mentioned earlier, the teachers in kindergartens are mainly female teachers, and male kindergarten teachers can be said to be more pandas than pandas.
At the important stage of the development of children, as the adults who have the most contact with children, the expressions and movements of the teacher are the models that the children compete to imitate.
Children see female teachers the most in kindergartens. It is not bad for girls to have more contact with female teachers, but if boys spend too much time in such an environment, they are prone to some problems.
The gentle and delicate characteristics of female teachers make their movements and language full of feminine gentle style.
And boys do not have the male masculinity that they should learn from, so they will naturally learn to be more and more feminine.
Many people have idealistic ideas, and they think that it will be good if the teacher often gives oral guidance in the class.
But you have to understand that words and rumors are far less than example.
The process of a child in kindergarten is the process of establishing his personality. If you only rely on your lips, there is no way to persuade the child to like Transformers instead of dolls.
It is not that the absence of male teachers in kindergartens is the root cause of boys becoming mothers, but if there is a male teacher to set an example for boys, the status quo will change a lot, right?
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In fact, these male kindergarten teachers know that many people have prejudice against them, because every time someone hears that a boy’s profession is a kindergarten teacher, it’s not even if it’s not. Whatever you say, your eyes will change.
A few days ago, a male friend of a kindergarten teacher got married. When the emcee introduced the profession of the newcomer, an aunt at the table muttered, "The male kindergarten teachers are all married."
Of course, when we heard this, we all went forward to the theory, and the aunt did not say anything. In the end, the unilateral battle ended with the aunt changing a table for dinner.
It seems that we have succeeded in smashing these prejudiced people and letting out our friends who are kindergarten teachers, but are we really successful?
With so many people and so many mouths in this world, how can we refute it?
As long as people do not change their views, male kindergarten teachers will always be regarded as a "mother".
These male kindergarten teachers certainly understand that they have been regarded as the lowest level of the teaching profession, but some of them still choose to stay in this post.
is nothing else, just for love.
I think it would be very easy for boys as boys to find a profession that is more worthy than kindergarten teachers and earns more wages than kindergarten teachers.
But they didn't, because they knew that they liked it, and they also understood that the most lacking of preschool teachers is men.
Because of their love, they are willing to learn dance lessons that girls prefer during college, and they are willing to do some exaggerated moves for the children.
When a person loves his profession so much, what right do we have to laugh at them and look down on them?
indeed,Feng Xiaoyi's words "eat a peach" disgusted half of China, and brought the social atmosphere into a bias.
But we should be clear that one party is deliberately pretending to be ugly for the sake of traffic and eyeballs, while the other party is just making actions and expressions that he knows will be ridiculed and must be done for the better development of the children.
The ideological connotation of the two is superior and inferior.
The work of male kindergarten teachers is not as useless as Feng Xiaoyi. Their existence has well guided the inner masculinity and calm and rational mentality of the children.
So, give the male kindergarten teachers more tolerance, and their existence will also enable our own children to get a healthier education, right?
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