It is a very common phenomenon for middle-aged people to get fat, whether it is a man or a woman! The impact of obesity and is not just about personal image, but also affects work, life, family, and even the emotions between husband and wife. Therefore, in the matter of weight loss, wives used to be more active, but now even men have joined the ranks of weight loss.
So, do middle-aged men hate their obese wives? Facing weight loss, these three married men told the truth.
Mr. Zhao
My wife has experienced postpartum obesity . Her weight was 140 kilograms at one time. After she gained weight, she looked greasy and bloated, and she looked much older than her actual age. Although I don't like the appearance of getting fat in my heart, I don't hate my wife because of obesity, because women will get fat when they have children. This is a process that must be experienced.
However, my wife is even more anxious about her appearance after being obese. She started to lose weight 6 months after giving birth, for fear that she would not lose weight. In fact, when people reach middle age, in addition to the initial love between husband and wife, there is also family affection. Therefore, no matter what the wife becomes, he cannot be disliked as a man. However, I am very supportive of the issue of weight loss.
Mr. Wu
I hate my wife being fat, even though she has never been fat. I met my wife when I was in college. There were a dozen couples in the class, and we were the only one who could get married. They have always been emotionally affectionate, and they have become popular stories among everyone. The wife is 1.65 meters tall and her weight is always around 100 kilograms. For a 35-year-old woman, she is in good shape.
Men are visual animals, so naturally no one likes fat women. On the contrary, fat women will not only affect their own health, but also affect their own image and family. There is a female colleague next to me who is not willing to lose weight after being over 170 pounds. As a result, my husband divorced her and decided after the divorce. The determination to lose weight is incomprehensible.
Mr. Liu
I hate that my wife is obese, because my wife is too fat. She is 1.6 meters tall and weighs 160 kilograms, which is fatter than my 1.8 meters man, and his thighs are twice as thick as mine. . Since she became fat, the two of us rarely go out together. I can't afford to be ashamed. I never take her to a gathering between colleagues or classmates.
is not that I am a scumbag, but there is no way! The wife gains weight because she has a baby, and she gains weight entirely because she is lazy and delicious. She doesn’t leave all kinds of snacks, so it’s not easy to say! And every time I talked about losing weight, I quarreled with me and told me bluntly that I still care about my image even if I am married. I am also very confused now. The so-called "middle-age crisis" of
also includes the problem of middle-aged gaining weight. In middle-aged people, because their own basal metabolism and functions are reduced, coupled with a comfortable and comfortable life, muscle loss, and unhealthy diet, it is easy to get fat inadvertently. Once you get fat at this time, it will not only cause your body to lose shape, affect your image, but also endanger your health.
Like everyone else, I have also experienced middle-aged obesity. My weight reached 135 kg, especially the fat on my belly. The fat on my stomach was so obvious that even my husband couldn't stand it anymore and often urged me to lose weight. Fortunately, the process of losing weight is still very easy. I just changed my diet and I quickly lost less than 105 pounds, finally getting rid of the trouble of middle-aged gaining weight.
In fact, no matter whether a man hates his wife being obese or not, as a wife, you should pay attention to weight management. Because weight loss is not to please men, but to achieve a better self. Otherwise, obesity causes diseases, which will inevitably affect the quality of life.
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