Speaking of Sun Nan everyone is familiar with him. Many songs he sang "See You", "Come Back", "i believe" and other songs are very popular. He has been on the Spring Festival Gala many times, won many awards with great value, and has a certain status in the Chinese music scene.
. What is unexpected is that he, who is not good-looking outside the work, is still a very feminine man.
Sun Nan was born in Dalian, Liaoning in 1969. His father is a music teacher. His mother, sister and brother all work in the singing and dancing troupe. Sun Nan has been very talented in singing since he was a child. His family is still wealthy, and his parents are very supportive of his musical hobbies, which allows him to learn piano, guitar and other instruments. When he was a teenager, Sun Nan began to sing in various restaurants and officially embarked on the road of music.
In 1988, Dalian held a singer competition. Sun Nan, who was only 19 years old at that time, immediately signed up. During the competition, Sun Nan's outstanding performance attracted the attention of a girl.
01 Ten years of youth finally made mistakes
This girl is called Xin Xin, who is the same age as Sun Nan. After graduating from Normal University, Xin Xin sang in a restaurant during the summer vacation. Here she met Sun Nan, the "male god" who glanced at the singer competition. After a while, two young people who also love music were attracted to each other and started to have a small relationship.
Xin Xin's parents have been singing in the restaurant since Xin Xin graduated. They really love music. They spent a lot of money to send Xin Xin to study in Japan and learn vocal music. Xin Xin went to Japan, Sun Nan joined the singing and dancing troupe, and the two started a long-distance relationship. Although it is a music major that I love and has been developing quite smoothly in Japan, once a girl falls into love, she has to give way to everything for it. After only staying in Japan for more than two months, Xin Xin resolutely gave up her studies and returned to her hometown in Tianjin. After returning to Tianjin, she was eager to see Sun Nan, so she flew straight to Beijing.
When Xin Xin suddenly appeared in front of Sun Nan who was eating noodles with his friend, Sun Nan was extremely surprised. She put down her chopsticks and carried Xin Xin back to the dormitory without saying a word. At that moment, Xin Xin felt that it was worth giving up for Sun Nan.
After that, the two lived a close life. Sun Nan continued to sing. In addition to the resident singing, Xin Xin also cared about her boyfriend, washing clothes, quilts, and cooking for Sun Nan. She was reluctant to let Sun Nan do these trivial life, and she held him like a prince to offer him. During this period, Sun Nan released his first album " Curving Moon ".
In 1993, an art troupe participated in by Sun Nan to perform in Hong Kong. During the performance, he was discovered by Hong Kong BMG Records and signed a two-year record contract. At this time, Xin Xin saw her boyfriend's career improve, so she simply gave up her singing career and became Sun Nan's "agent". At that time, the young man Sun Nan was full of ambition and was domineeringly saying to Xin Xin: "We are a family, and if I have mine, you will be yours." A short promise was so touched that Xin Xin was moved to tears after hearing this. After
, Xin Xin worked harder to organize Sun Nan's music and various matters other than music, while Sun Nan was devoted to singing. During this period, several records were released, and the response was average, and they returned to Beijing.
Life has been going on year after year. In 1997, Sun Nan got hepatitis. This disease is highly contagious, and his career is mediocre and has no improvement. Sun Nan is in a slump. Xin Xin is in trouble every day while taking care of her boyfriend while comforting and encouraging him. In order to better take care of Sun Nan, the two discussed buying a house in Beijing. Xin Xin ran to the hospital and decorated it, and finally had a small home of her own.
After recovering from a serious illness, Sun Nan's career gradually improved. He released the single "Red Flag Flying", appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and attended the "Alan Tam China Tour Concert" as a guest, and became more and more famous.
1998, the movie "Seeking Away" directed by Feng Xiaogang invited Sun Nan to sing the theme song of the same name. Xin Xin felt that this was a good opportunity to decide to record it into an album at your own expense. At that time, all the savings had just been bought and there was no money in my hand. Xin Xin borrowed them from relatives and friends.The movie "Seeking Away" has a good box office. This song has become popular all over the country, and Sun Nan has become a hot singer.
In 1999, Sun Nan participated in the third "Beijing, Guangdong and Hong Kong" Mandarin Song Heroes Conference. His status is enough to be on the same stage as the kings such as Andy Lau , Leonard , Aaron Kwok . In October, the album "The Aurora Borealis" produced by them at their own expense, including songs such as "See You", "The Wind Blows North", and "Come Back" was officially released. For this album, Sun Nan and Xin Xin were busy running around Beijing and Hong Kong for more than four months, and both of them lost a lot of weight. Fortunately, the response was unprecedented. "Seeking Away" and "Come Back" were awarded the "Top Ten Golden Songs" in 1998 and 1999 respectively, and Sun Nan also won the "Most Popular Male Singer Award" and other awards.
I thought everything was on the right track and the hard days finally got through, but I didn’t expect that the relationship between the two changed. In the 11th year of their acquaintance, a "third person" appeared among them. Xin Xin later recalled this way:
"Until one day, when a third person suddenly appeared between Sun Nan and I, I realized that our relationship was slowly changing. For this sudden change, we both lost the courage to face this." One month after the new album of
was released, the two hurriedly broke up before they could share the joy of success. When Sun Nan was about to leave, Xin Xin helped him pack his luggage for the last time. Before leaving, Sun Nan's tears as big as beans fell, but in the end, he still carried his luggage and left the once loving hut without looking back.
After Sun Nan left, Xin Xin returned to the bar and sang in a resident song, and everything returned to the starting point.
Shortly after the breakup, Sun Nan won a grand prize and cried miserably when calling Xin Xin. Xin Xin didn't say a word and let tears wet his cheeks. The successful scenes that I had been looking forward to countless times in my dreams have really come, but she is already the irrelevant person.
02 The first wife
Sun Nan, who broke up with Xin Xin for more than half a year in June 2000, got married to Buy Hongmei .
After marriage, there was a time when the two were very high-profile and loving.
In 2008, Mai Hongmei revealed that Sun Nan had a crush on her for 5 years at an event. She said that Sun Nan had become fascinated by her on TV five years before their flash marriage, and even filmed her breasts with her mother and promised, "Mom, my wife will be her in the future!" Sure enough, the two met on a TV show later, and Sun Nan had an unconcealable love for her. Within 24 hours of knowing each other, Sun Nan proposed to Mai Hongmei.
Of course, this does not match the time point mentioned in Xin Xin's later memories. I don't know who said it is true, or there is another person in Xin Xin's words. No matter what, it is enough to be in love with Xin Xin while promising to marry Mai Hongmei with her mother.
. From the birth date of Sun Nan Buy Hongmei’s eldest daughter Buy Baoyao , it can be seen that when the two got married in June 2000, Buy Hongmei was actually four or five months pregnant.
As for Sun Nan marrying Mai Hongmei, in addition to being pregnant at that time, another important factor is that Mai Hongmei is a soldier.
Mai Hongmei was admitted to the military when she was 14 years old. When she met Sun Nan, she was a soldier, so Sun Nan dared not neglect her.
Shortly after marriage, my eldest daughter was born, Mai Hongmei gave up her sketch career and became a full-time housewife. Maybe because Xin Xin took good care of her, Sun Nan still didn't even wash the girl, and she bought all the things at home and did it herself.
In their marriage in less than 9 years, they moved home twice in total. They happened to buy Hongmei and became pregnant. Every time, she was busy with her big belly and went to decorate.
Sun Nan has always insisted that he is a macho man. He never apologizes when the two quarrel. He will wait for Buy Hongmei to surrender to him. He said he felt that machismo was not a shortcoming. Mai Hongmei once proudly said in front of the media that Sun Nan was very easy to coax, and said coquettishly: "Husband, I was wrong." Sun Nan will calm down.
In married life, Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan have another big contradiction. Sun Nan loves to play golf and is addicted to golf courses all day long, which once made Mai Hongmei crazy. But Sun Nan thought there was nothing wrong with a man who loves sports, and the two quarreled and had a cold war over this.
It is said that after his daughter grew up, Sun Nan always wanted a son, so he bought a red girl and took off her military uniform and fought for him with a second son in 2007. But when the son gave birth to less than two years old, their marriage came to an end.
After divorce, Mai Hongmei couldn't come out and wanted to commit suicide. For four years, she didn't contact her friends, answered the phone, and sent text messages...
The fuse of the divorce was indeed related to Sun Nan's golf.
03 The second wife
On March 23, 2009, Sun Nan divorced Mai Hongmei, and before the end of the year, he couldn't wait to marry his second wife Pan Wei .
Pan Wei, born in 1969, is host of the golf program of the travel TV. It was this profession that made her bond with golf enthusiast Sun Nan.
Before meeting Sun Nan, Pan Wei had already gotten married twice and divorced twice, and had a teenage daughter.
The two of them were hiding at the beginning after marriage, but not long after Pan Wei told the media, "He knew that divorce and marry me would have an impact on his image, but he still married me, which made me look up to him."
Not long after, the two gave birth to another daughter. With Sun Nan’s original children, she and her ex-husband’s daughter have four children in the family.
Last year, a news story about Sun Nan and Pan Wei renting a house worth 700 yuan in Xuzhou was on the hot search. Pan Wei claimed to have educated his children three years ago and moved from Beijing to the suburbs of Xuzhou. When everyone sighed that this stepmother was still a good stepmother, netizens found out that the girls' moral school that Mai Baoyao attended was actually a training institution and had no educational qualifications.
Later media confirmed that the school did not have the qualifications to run schools, and students studying at the school were unable to take the college entrance examination.
That is to say, Mai Baoyao, who is already 19 years old, is studying female pornography and female ethics, and has a junior high school education there. Pan Wei's own daughter is studying abroad.
At a moment, netizens left messages saying that this stepmother is a very vivid little Qin family.
Let me say that, although Sun Nan is not handsome, and some people even called him and Wang Dazhi and Yang Chengang the "three brothers", his reputation for women is admirable. The previous term has not ended yet, and the next term has taken over, one by one, seamlessly connected.
And he also turned against him faster than flirting with books.
After breaking up with Sun Nan, Xin Xin was discovered and signed by famous Taiwanese musician Xu Changde while singing in a bar. In 2001, she released her first personal album "Put 120 Hearts", with profound lyrics.
After breaking up, Xin Xin once accepted an interview with a reporter, and the reporter only posted it two years later. At that time, Sun Nan's character was a good husband and a good father, so he was naturally disgusted with what she exposed. He said, "If I were an international superstar, even the little girls in the kindergarten would come back to talk to me." He said this was Xin Xin's "made a very shameful hype for the new album."
Later, when this was heard in Xin Xin's ears, Xin Xin was still defending her ex-boyfriend. "He must have his own difficulties when he said this, but it is not true that I have nothing to say. But these are not important."
And after Sun Nan divorced Mai Hongmei, he also went to court for the custody of his daughter. Later, Mai Hongmei came back and talked about her attempt to commit suicide during her divorce, and she was once sent an open letter by Sun Nan's agent asking her not to hype it anymore.
This man is quite cruel.
